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post 1648442783 10-06-2021, 03:06 PM
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If I accidentally took two days to reply to a girl have I ruined my chances

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post 1648442943 10-06-2021, 03:08 PM
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Gonna need pics of the girl to tell
post 1648444133 10-06-2021, 03:25 PM
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You probably helped your chances if she likes you. Don't go all apologetic when you hit her back tho.
post 1648444213 10-06-2021, 03:27 PM
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Honestly girls like being treated like chit

Wait another day and be completely aloof and don't even act like you missed her text

Just text her "sup" tmw srs
post 1648444233 10-06-2021, 03:27 PM
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Text her and find out?
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post 1648444243 10-06-2021, 03:27 PM
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post 1648444283 10-06-2021, 03:28 PM
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A few hours can signal you're busy, but two days shows you really don't give a fuk and don't want to talk to them



Unless she is a cuck you have done some damage
post 1648444403 10-06-2021, 03:30 PM
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Tell her you got COVID. (srs)
post 1648444573 10-06-2021, 03:33 PM
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it's quite the opposite if you play it as nothing happened and it's normal.

watch her replying fast as fuk now
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post 1648448783 10-06-2021, 05:01 PM
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No. My second favorite girl in my rotation, I text once or twice a week. We'll flirt with each other when the other posts a good looking IG story, and then I'll text Saturday to confirm plans for Sunday. Often I won't respond for a week
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post 1648449293 10-06-2021, 05:08 PM
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I do this all the time and they always respond when I get around to messaging them
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post 1648449513 10-06-2021, 05:12 PM
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lol the "pretend you don't give a fuk and take your time replying" **** didn't work in my experience.
post 1648449603 10-06-2021, 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
lol the "pretend you don't give a fuk and take your time replying" **** didn't work in my experience.
They didn't like you enough
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post 1648450273 10-06-2021, 05:24 PM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok
They didn't like you enough
she made the first move on me, gave her phone number without me asking for it, replied to my texts immediately

inb4 hurr durr your text game is weak n ur not chad enuf

or maybe acting disinterested shows a lack of interest (!!!) and smarter women would go where they are wanted
post 1648459653 10-06-2021, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
she made the first move on me, gave her phone number without me asking for it, replied to my texts immediately

inb4 hurr durr your text game is weak n ur not chad enuf

or maybe acting disinterested shows a lack of interest (!!!) and smarter women would go where they are wanted
She just wasn't interested. Not necessarily your fault. More often the not the ol 4th q clock play works.
post 1648459973 10-06-2021, 08:22 PM
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OP you’re so money and you don’t even know it
post 1648462873 10-06-2021, 09:17 PM
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Beg her for a second chance plead with her not srs
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post 1648463343 10-06-2021, 09:26 PM
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OP here are the ways you can blow it:

1. Take two days to reply (too slow)
2. Take one day to reply (too fast)
3. Reply at exactly the right time (too good to be true)
4. Don't reply (byeeeeee)
5. See her in person before you get to reply (stalking)

See at least you have options.
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post 1648473413 10-07-2021, 04:36 AM
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shes still not replied
post 1648473503 10-07-2021, 04:41 AM
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No. It means you accidentally had good game, but judging by the fact that doing so scared you, your default game is probably so beta that you'll fumble once you get to the goal line anyway.
post 1648475383 10-07-2021, 05:58 AM
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Originally Posted By TomWanks
No. It means you accidentally had good game, but judging by the fact that doing so scared you, your default game is probably so beta that you'll fumble once you get to the goal line anyway.
But we’re meant to meet tomorrow and she hasn’t got back to me yet!!!!
post 1648489013 10-07-2021, 10:01 AM
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Now its 5 o clock so guessing shes done work, hopefully she replies soon!!
post 1648489483 10-07-2021, 10:08 AM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
she made the first move on me, gave her phone number without me asking for it, replied to my texts immediately

inb4 hurr durr your text game is weak n ur not chad enuf

or maybe acting disinterested shows a lack of interest (!!!) and smarter women would go where they are wanted
So she was interested at first, then lost interest. Nothing to see here, very common and happens to everyone. It wasn't because you were a bad replier. Yeah, if you continuously ghost chicks a lot of them will cut you off. But that's typically once you've been dating for a bit and they're evaluating if they want to be with you
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post 1648505073 10-07-2021, 02:18 PM
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Been 26 hours and she still hasn’t replied
post 1648505283 10-07-2021, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted By wd0694820
Been 26 hours and she still hasn’t replied
Thats life son, move on.
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post 1648516363 10-07-2021, 04:59 PM
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Haven't ruined anything. Simply text: "We still on at 5?",.
post 1648518923 10-07-2021, 05:37 PM
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she replied and ssaid apparently the messages never went through until jsut now, I said id still like to meet anytime after about 7 but now im worried if whtsapp is working stil
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