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post 1649272843 10-20-2021, 02:14 AM
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How did you brahs cope during your first heartbreak

Where the sloot cold heartedly ripped your miscer heart to pieces?
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Originally Posted By beebell12⏩
Where the sloot cold heartedly ripped your miscer heart to pieces?
why cause she didnt want to be with you? she doesnt have to be with you just cause you like her so much. work on yourself cause clearly she thought to herself for a while and realized she would rather get her back blown out by someone else.
post 1649272963 10-20-2021, 02:21 AM
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lifted weights consistently for the next 10 years
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post 1649273043 10-20-2021, 02:25 AM
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Originally Posted By aherpderp⏩
lifted weights consistently for the next 10 years
if you dont make money or dont look good even then youre pretty much phucked
post 1649273113 10-20-2021, 02:28 AM
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Originally Posted By nineOHnine⏩
You deal by getting hotter chicks

You can't get hotter chicks if you're a sad ****ot

Stop feeling sorry for yourself OP
I get you brah, I started lifting and moneymaxxing after my first heartbreak. I noticed that I tend to slack off in relationships hence sloots start monkeybranching. Never again going to let myself go
post 1649273163 10-20-2021, 02:29 AM
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Originally Posted By JuicyBruv⏩
why cause she didnt want to be with you? she doesnt have to be with you just cause you like her so much. work on yourself cause clearly she thought to herself for a while and realized she would rather get her back blown out by someone else.
Yeah I understand that. After my first heartbreak I started lifting, but would tend to let go of my nutrition when in a relationship (cuddling with pizza among other things). No wonder sloot monkeybranched because OP gained a lot of weight. Never again going to let myself go.
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Originally Posted By beebell12⏩
Yeah I understand that. After my first heartbreak I started lifting, but would tend to let go of my nutrition when in a relationship (cuddling with pizza among other things). No wonder sloot monkeybranched because OP gained a lot of weight. Never again going to let myself go.
yeah now that you know that you let yourself go and you know you phucked up learn from it. its your fault not hers. just like you want an attractive female she wants the same out of her dude.
post 1649273383 10-20-2021, 02:37 AM
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Didn’t feel anything…. tore up the letter into a literal million pieces and scattered it on the sidewalk as I walked home.


Was never the same person after it - my idea of people/myself took the first major bullet.


I shifted to prioritizing me and my needs/health/etc and never trusting anyone completely ever again.
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post 1649273433 10-20-2021, 02:40 AM
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Originally Posted By JuicyBruv⏩
yeah now that you know that you let yourself go and you know you phucked up learn from it. its your fault not hers. just like you want an attractive female she wants the same out of her dude.
Yeah I get that, I guess the part that hurt the most initially was I was there by her side at her lowest point, helped her with her anxiety and all that. I didn't leave even though those issues occurred very early on in the relationship. I must admit that it turned me a bit jaded, but I guess it's a great lesson to learn that you can't really expect so much from people and that they only look after themselves. I understand that she's not obliged to stay with me if I gained weight, but at the same time I didn't expect it coming from the ''sweetest'' girl who I helped get out of her lowest low point.
post 1649273443 10-20-2021, 02:41 AM
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Originally Posted By gainztrain818⏩
Didn’t feel anything…. tore up the letter into a literal million pieces and scattered it on the sidewalk as I walked home.


Was never the same person after it - my idea of people/myself took the first major bullet.


I shifted to prioritizing me and my needs/health/etc and never trusting anyone completely ever again.
Yeah definitely. The first heartbreak turned me a bit jaded, but some relationships I end up putting my guard down and get phucked over each time. Even after helping her at her lowest point and not giving up she does this lmao.
post 1649273483 10-20-2021, 02:42 AM
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Originally Posted By JuicyBruv⏩
if youdont make moneyor dont look good even then youre pretty much phucked
Originally Posted By beebell12⏩
I get you brah, I started lifting and moneymaxxing after my first heartbreak. I noticed that I tend to slack off in relationships hence sloots start monkeybranching. Never again going to let myself go
probably dont look good enough for sloots these days
but at least now im rich and fit.
i can say at least i maxxed out the things i do have control over
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post 1649273573 10-20-2021, 02:48 AM
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
I've always been the one doing the dumping but I had backup sloots for a rebound each time so it wasn't painful
you haven't done chit you broke boy
post 1649273613 10-20-2021, 02:50 AM
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Originally Posted By aherpderp⏩
probably dont look good enough for sloots these days
but at least now im rich and fit.
i can say at least i maxxed out the things i do have control over
yeah when you dont focus on sloots and focus on you and money sloots come. now i get to buy myself stupid chit when drunk and be like whoops and not give a phuck. (bought two more cartier bracelets to stack last week) make bread and look good and lift always. i dont even hit on females and approach. and my hit list this year is 30 deep
post 1649275153 10-20-2021, 04:33 AM
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Originally Posted By JuicyBruv⏩
yeah when you dont focus on sloots and focus on you and moneysloots come. now i get to buy myself stupid chit when drunk and be like whoops and not give a phuck. (bought two more cartier bracelets to stack last week) make bread and look good and lift always. i dont even hit on females and approach. and my hit list this year is 30 deep
for some they do
for some they dont

but for those of us in the latter, its still better to be fit, rich and lonely than to be fat, poor and lonely
besides get rich enough and you can just hire hoes for cope
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post 1649275193 10-20-2021, 04:36 AM
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Originally Posted By beebell12⏩
I get you brah, I started lifting and moneymaxxing after my first heartbreak. I noticed that I tend to slack off in relationships hence sloots start monkeybranching. Never again going to let myself go
Doesn't matter if you slack off and be distant or shower them with a lot of love and affection, they're going to leave you either way. It needs to be a fine balance but it's too much work and manipulation.
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got my heart ripped out and destroyed into a million pieces. Came out of nowhere too.

I had really good friends that helped me through it, we hung out, did stuff and partied.

also fukked a 9/10 hbb sloot 2 weeks after breakup which made me forget about the bish I was so in "love" with and realize there are so many women out there that are better looking, more interesting, etc.

Made me prioritize myself first, now my wants and needs are a lot more clear. If you're young no point getting into a relationship unless you're already established and have a good career.
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Originally Posted By ftbwtb⏩
got my heart ripped out and destroyed into a million pieces. Came out of nowhere too.

I had really good friends that helped me through it, we hung out, did stuff and partied.

also fukked a 9/10 hbb sloot 2 weeks after breakup which made me forget about the bish I was so in "love" with and realize there are so many women out there that are better looking, more interesting, etc.

Made me prioritize myself first, now my wants and needs are a lot more clear. If you're young no point getting into a relationship unless you're already established and have a good career.
How long were you guys together that time? In my area chit is lockdown everywhere. Been sexting w some sloots though, but not feeling much better
post 1649340093 10-21-2021, 12:52 AM
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Originally Posted By beebell12⏩
Yeah definitely. The first heartbreak turned me a bit jaded, but some relationships I end up putting my guard down and get phucked over each time. Even after helping her at her lowest point and not giving up she does this lmao.
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lol went crazy for a bit (was 19). Never again, probably took like a year and a year to recover. Def a good experience to have young
Originally Posted By nineOHnine⏩
You deal by getting hotter chicks

You can't get hotter chicks if you're a sad ****ot

Stop feeling sorry for yourself OP
lot easier to get "hotter" chicks when your first love is fugly lol
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You truly will never get over it so just distract yourself until the pain is in a better place, then at some point you can learn from it and find something new.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Not well

Still not over it a decade later.
srs?
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Originally Posted By beebell12⏩
srs?
why are you enabling that thing?
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Originally Posted By ftbwtb⏩
got my heart ripped out and destroyed into a million pieces. Came out of nowhere too.

I had really good friends that helped me through it, we hung out, did stuff and partied.

also fukked a 9/10 hbb sloot 2 weeks after breakup which made me forget about the bish I was so in "love" with and realize there are so many women out there that are better looking, more interesting, etc.

Made me prioritize myself first, now my wants and needs are a lot more clear. If you're young no point getting into a relationship unless you're already established and have a good career.
She was the best man
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