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post 1649932613 10-30-2021, 11:38 PM
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Women need / create new problem(s) the moment one is resolved

Why the fuk? I feel ready to throw in the towel man. To love her and see her worry so much about stupid (to me) stuff is not a great feeling.

Actually pulling me away. I look for ways to end worries and enjoy life but it’s like she’s surviving to tackle the next issue(s).

Sounds familiar?
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This falls right in line with Russian novelist Dostoevsky.

He stated that even if society turned into a 100% egalitarian utopia, that people would eventually destroy it out of sheer boredom.

It’s the same reason why people in 1st world countries are fukking miserable and pumped full of anti-depressants while people living in poverty in Africa don’t have these mental health issues.

Aside from the homeless, most of us have everything we need to survive. Food, fresh water, solid shelter, etc. We essentially already “won” the game of survival, so we go looking for purpose/meaning in things that don’t really matter most of the time. We’re too used to how good we have it. And a lot of women get bored easily if their man doesn’t bear the unjustified responsibility of keeping her happy 24/7. They already got you locked in. They know everything about you at this point so you become like a book she just finished the final chapter of.

Women love drama because it gets them in tune with their emotions. Even if that emotion is a negative one, it’s still preferable to boredom/complacency.
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Originally Posted By andrew28
This falls right in line with Russian novelist Dostoevsky.

He stated that even if society turned into a 100% egalitarian utopia, that people would eventually destroy it out of sheer boredom.

It’s the same reason why people in 1st world countries are fukking miserable and pumped full of anti-depressants while people living in poverty in Africa don’t have these mental health issues.

Aside from the homeless, most of us have everything we need to survive. Food, fresh water, solid shelter, etc. We essentially already “won” the game of survival, so we go looking for purpose/meaning in things that don’t really matter most of the time. We’re too used to how good we have it. And a lot of women get bored easily if their man doesn’t bear the unjustified responsibility of keeping her happy 24/7. They already got you locked in. They know everything about you at this point so you become like a book she just finished the final chapter of.

Women love drama because it gets them in tune with their emotions. Even if that emotion is a negative one, it’s still preferable to boredom/complacency.
So true and what we are seeing. All this outrage about statues. This "increaced awareness" and woke BS. People acting like things that don't even effect them are killing them.
post 1649933613 10-31-2021, 12:08 AM
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Originally Posted By andrew28
This falls right in line with Russian novelist Dostoevsky.

He stated that even if society turned into a 100% egalitarian utopia, that people would eventually destroy it out of sheer boredom.

It’s the same reason why people in 1st world countries are fukking miserable and pumped full of anti-depressants while people living in poverty in Africa don’t have these mental health issues.

Aside from the homeless, most of us have everything we need to survive. Food, fresh water, solid shelter, etc. We essentially already “won” the game of survival, so we go looking for purpose/meaning in things that don’t really matter most of the time. We’re too used to how good we have it. And a lot of women get bored easily if their man doesn’t bear the unjustified responsibility of keeping her happy 24/7. They already got you locked in. They know everything about you at this point so you become like a book she just finished the final chapter of.

Women love drama because it gets them in tune with their emotions. Even if that emotion is a negative one, it’s still preferable to boredom/complacency.
Sounds like a /thread response.

I’m reading up on this and finding material which eventually describes what you say.

Would rep but… You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Jasonw1178 again.
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post 1649934293 10-31-2021, 12:32 AM
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It's true man, they do. But it's not just women. It's almost everyone.

Ever stood around with some people with nothing to talk about? It almost always devolves into gossiping about some random chit, complaining, worrying about problems, etc.

It's the nature of human mind. It just constantly rehashes the past and worries about the future.
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Sloots love drama
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Originally Posted By TryingBB
Why the fuk? I feel ready to throw in the towel man. To love her and see her worry so much about stupid (to me) stuff is not a great feeling.

Actually pulling me away. I look for ways to end worries and enjoy life but it’s like she’s surviving to tackle the next issue(s).

Sounds familiar?
yes brah you are right. If you have a health problem, she will magically develop one the following day. Does my head in srs
post 1649935343 10-31-2021, 01:28 AM
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Originally Posted By II
It's true man, they do. But it's not just women. It's almost everyone.

Ever stood around with some people with nothing to talk about? It almost always devolves into gossiping about some random chit, complaining, worrying about problems, etc.

It's the nature of human mind. It just constantly rehashes the past and worries about the future.
even look at the misc or other forums. most (or at least too many) of the threads are just negativity. people love the dopamine hits from anger/outrage
post 1649936483 10-31-2021, 02:51 AM
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Women are literally retarded children. Once you've accepted this fact, all of their behavior becomes completetly understandable.
post 1649936503 10-31-2021, 02:52 AM
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That’s just how they are. Don’t take them too seriously.
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post 1649936513 10-31-2021, 02:54 AM
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That's why the love 'bad boys'...they thrive off the drama
post 1649936633 10-31-2021, 03:03 AM
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Women CRAVE to live in a state of constant drama.

- Theyll create their own if they can
- they're constantly involved in their friends lives just so they be involved with that drama aswell
- theyll binge watch drama shows so they can be involved in that as well.

Women hate peace. They're the most destructive creatures to exist.
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post 1649936673 10-31-2021, 03:06 AM
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all responses itt are true

women are good for fukking and raising kids - as long as they don't divorce you while they do that
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post 1649936693 10-31-2021, 03:09 AM
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Originally Posted By demfeelsbro
That's why the love 'bad boys'...they thrive off the drama
Yeah crazy b*tches love bad boys, normal women don't.

Women don't cause drama, people do.

Some just happen to be women.
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post 1649936713 10-31-2021, 03:11 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Yeah crazy b*tches love bad boys, normal women don't.

Women don't cause drama, people do.

Some just happen to be women.
STRONG delusion about the nature of women.
post 1649936783 10-31-2021, 03:19 AM
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Originally Posted By TomWanks
STRONG delusion about the nature of women.
Yeah women love bad boys because bad boys are interesting, but fk it i am going to become a bad boy just be attractive to women.

Besides, i'd rather be 40 years old and 'boring' than 40 years old whilst still being a 'bad boy'.

All my mates and the older guys who were the 'bad boys' back in the day are suffering now because they can't have normal lives ...
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post 1649936993 10-31-2021, 03:37 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Yeah women love bad boys because bad boys are interesting, but fk it i am going to become a bad boy just be attractive to women.

Besides, i'd rather be 40 years old and 'boring' than 40 years old whilst still being a 'bad boy'.

All my mates and the older guys who were the 'bad boys' back in the day are suffering now because they can't have normal lives ...
That's the right kind of attitude m8.
post 1649937283 10-31-2021, 04:04 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Yeah crazy b*tches love bad boys, normal women don't.

Women don't cause drama, people do.

Some just happen to be women.
Just lol at saying men enjoy drama as much as women yu cuck
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This is common in the early stages of a relationship. Every girl is looking for their knight in shining armor to ride in and sweep them away. They will **** test you.

If you stick with it, and she likes you enough she will cut the bull****.

If she doesn't like you (or is just fuked in the head) she will ramp it up until its intolerable and then blame you for the fall out.

Txting you 2 months later asking where it all went wrong.


Maybe I'm projecting lol
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Originally Posted By TomWanks
That's the right kind of attitude m8.
foe sho
Originally Posted By demfeelsbro
Just lol at saying men enjoy drama as much as women yu cuck
most guys that i know are just sh*t taalkers even the tough guys n sh*t aare
Originally Posted By Jandels
This is common in the early stages of a relationship. Every girl is looking for their knight in shining armor to ride in and sweep them away. They will **** test you.

If you stick with it, and she likes you enough she will cut the bull****.

If she doesn't like you (or is just fuked in the head) she will ramp it up until its intolerable and then blame you for the fall out.

Txting you 2 months later asking where it all went wrong.


Maybe I'm projecting lol
It's not just women, it's the world that throws oddballs at you to keep you strong and on your purpouse.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
It's not just women, it's the world that throws oddballs at you to keep you strong and on your purpouse.
I'll agree with you there m8, I know some full grown men who love the drama.

Always messin with my purpouse.
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Originally Posted By Jandels
I'll agree with you there m8, I know some full grown men who love the drama.

Always messin with my purpouse.
That's the idea behind masculinity - it will strive towards a purpose and the feminine will join to serve that purpose.

The oddballs that are thrown your way are there to intensify the concentration of your masculinity, essentially.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
That's the idea behind masculinity - it will strive towards a purpose and the feminine will join to serve that purpose.

The oddballs that are thrown your way are there to intensify the concentration of your masculinity, essentially.
Say that to a woman and you’re in for some rough minutes/hours/days/months/years depending upon your relationship with the said woman. Haha
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I can't stand drama, gossip and don't bring it anywhere near me. I don't have the energy for that crap.

I like peace and quiet...
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Originally Posted By demfeelsbro
That's why the love 'bad boys'...they thrive off the drama
It’s not just the drama that comes with bad boys.

It’s authenticity.

When a man is overly nice, women sense that something is “off” about the guy and that he’s trying to open up a debt account where she feels pressured to reciprocate. It’s either that or he has a level of desperation in him. They look at the “bad boy” who is indifferent towards them as at least being authentic.
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sloots gonna sloot
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Originally Posted By andrew28
This falls right in line with Russian novelist Dostoevsky.

He stated that even if society turned into a 100% egalitarian utopia, that people would eventually destroy it out of sheer boredom.

It’s the same reason why people in 1st world countries are fukking miserable and pumped full of anti-depressants while people living in poverty in Africa don’t have these mental health issues.

Aside from the homeless, most of us have everything we need to survive. Food, fresh water, solid shelter, etc. We essentially already “won” the game of survival, so we go looking for purpose/meaning in things that don’t really matter most of the time. We’re too used to how good we have it. And a lot of women get bored easily if their man doesn’t bear the unjustified responsibility of keeping her happy 24/7. They already got you locked in. They know everything about you at this point so you become like a book she just finished the final chapter of.

Women love drama because it gets them in tune with their emotions. Even if that emotion is a negative one, it’s still preferable to boredom/complacency.
that's awesome, i've said the same thing about boredom

but i think know why. it's cause of hunger

that's the "constant" problem with humanity - you can switch that to survival if you want, but a larger overarching theme to what im talking about. that makes us a "needs" species

needs make us want to solve something

dat be why we create problems - out of boredom
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Think of them like non profit organizations, there is no worry to cure the problems they set out to fix. They'd just be done and have to close up.
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Originally Posted By TryingBB
Say that to a woman and you’re in for some rough minutes/hours/days/months/years depending upon your relationship with the said woman. Haha
I said feminine, not women.
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