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post 1649975633 10-31-2021, 08:16 PM
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Why do single mums put pics of their kids on their tinder?

Never understood it "mum to an amazing 5 year old" with a picture of their Satan's spawn.

Never understood these women, OK you couldn't keep your legs closed or stay on birth control and some loser impregnated you, that isn't a selling point, in fact I'd go as far as to say its something to hide until you've shown you have some worth then maybe bring it out later on.

Confuses me.
post 1649975933 10-31-2021, 08:20 PM
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post 1649975953 10-31-2021, 08:21 PM
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They want to prove that they were valuable enough for someone to jack off in their bacteria ridden cooch.
post 1649975963 10-31-2021, 08:21 PM
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Why does it matter why they do it?


You swiping right or naw? Then move the fuk along......
post 1649976133 10-31-2021, 08:24 PM
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post 1649976163 10-31-2021, 08:25 PM
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Idk why they do it but it’s better for men that they show it upfront than hide it from you I guess.
post 1649976253 10-31-2021, 08:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Single dads do this too. I think they think it is a benefit? Idk lmao.
I think single dads think that showing they have a kid means they are financially capable of providing and that they are responsible, good men who won’t run away and abandon them.

Single women are not the same as single dads when it comes to it being a deal breaker.
post 1649976283 10-31-2021, 08:28 PM
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Making a point of putting their single mother status on display on a dating profile is a bit much. To be fair though, I'd be pissed if a chick didn't even mention that she was a single mother real early on in dating. I wouldn't want her to discuss it much, let alone expect me to meet her kid or any of that chit early on. But imagine how annoying it would be to date a broad for like a month thinking she didn't have kids only for her to unload the fact that she's got a brat.
post 1649976403 10-31-2021, 08:30 PM
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Originally Posted By andrew28⏩
Idk why they do it but it’s better for men that they show it upfront than hide it from you I guess.
This

Fukk you OP, don't teach them to hide it from us
post 1649976483 10-31-2021, 08:31 PM
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They're either phishing for ****philes or they think that a guy will want to pay for their kids after seeing them.
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post 1649976503 10-31-2021, 08:32 PM
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because women are retarded and think men think like women do -- that her single motherhood shows how strong and therefore attractive, she is.
post 1649976663 10-31-2021, 08:34 PM
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Can't recall ever seeing photos of kids on there



Originally Posted By stayhomeneet⏩
I'd go as far as to say its something to hide until you've shown you have some worth then maybe bring it out later on.
Might as well get it out there instead of wasting time "showing your worth" to someone who has a hard pass on single mothers no matter what she does
post 1649976783 10-31-2021, 08:36 PM
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Once was in a date with a hotass girl, and she revealed she had a kid after like 2 hours into the date.

Drank 2 or 3 more beers while listening to her life story and how big of a douchebag her ex was. Just kept nodding the entire time.

Left her at home after hugging her like she was a sister and noped the fuk outta there. She must have gotten confused as fuk as to why i suddenly went cold, because she asked me out like 10 times after that lol.


So yeah OP, dangerous snakes are often bright as fuk, so be grateful that they show their true colors right away
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Just lawl, this 9/10 19yr old hot blonde sloot I was banging had a kid and would randomly text me pics of her daughter, I would never acknowledge those text.. I honestly felt kinda bad for her because some dood she was dating for 3 years knocked her up and ghosted her completely. I banged for like a month then bounced and I told it would never be more then sum fuk. Honestly, looking back its all kinds of sad and the poor kid is definitely going to be fuked up.
post 1649977643 10-31-2021, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
because women are retarded and think men think like women do -- that her single motherhood shows how strong and therefore attractive, she is.
One of my exes is exactly like this and she’s not even a feminist.

She shared some stupid vid on Instagram of this 10/10 Chad step dad with the captions saying “Being a step-dad isn’t a burden. It’s a chance to become a role model.”

I died laughing because no 10/10 Chad in his right mind is gonna wife up a single mother. And they certainly don’t give a flying fuk about being a role model to a child that they have to assume responsibility over, yet have zero authority over. Women love happy lies over dark truths.
post 1649977683 10-31-2021, 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted By JPF82⏩
Why does it matter why they do it?


You swiping right or naw? Then move the fuk along......
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because a real man steps up!!!11
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Originally Posted By solidus2k3⏩
because a real man steps up!!!11
lol

At least they aren't lying to you, OP, through deception /at that stage/ but they learned real quick - any man who dates them then finds out they got a kid - they dip in a second.
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Originally Posted By seanb1979⏩
They're either phishing for ****philes or they think that a guy will want to pay for their kids after seeing them.
^^^sadly I think using the kids as bait is probably more common than normal folk would suspect, especially where there are substance abuse problems etc
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Lol at these answers


Its to give guys a heads up what they’re getting into.

Single mom=kid around 24/7

They learn, one time, that guys will dip tf out once they learn there’s a bastard kid around so they put pics up front as a “weeding” process.
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I see it as them signaling that they are looking for a long-term father to their children. So they don't have to waste their time with dudes that aren't down with that.

Which is good for me, so I don't have to waste my time with them.
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For someone like me, I don't mind single mothers as they have lower SMVs to other women and guys ignore them on a higher basis giving subhumans like me a better chance. But that being said, I get rejected very quickly by single mothers at almost the exact same rate as normal women which baffles me. True incels like myself can't judge single mothers, even though we are disgusted in many levels (srs).
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Originally Posted By BillTheBro⏩
I see it as them signaling that they are looking for a long-term father to their children. So they don't have to waste their time with dudes that aren't down with that.

Which is good for me, so I don't have to waste my time with them.
Exactly. I know the misc sh!ts on women for a lot of things and most of them are justifiable.

But this is an instance where you gotta give single mother’s a thumbs up for clearing the air right off the bat.
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see it all the time and i agree its weird to be scrolling for a **** app and seeing a pic of someones kids... Like da **** why is your kids your profile pic?

Strange indeed, I get being upfront with having kids but putting pics of them is weird on tinder
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Originally Posted By OnlyHope⏩
For someone like me, I don't mind single mothers as they have lower SMVs to other women and guys ignore them on a higher basis giving subhumans like me a better chance. But that being said, I get rejected very quickly by single mothers at almost the exact same rate as normal women which baffles me. True incels like myself can't judge single mothers, even though we are disgusted in many levels (srs).
Some single mothers are aware that low-value men will see them as an easy layup just looking to be rescued. So the smart ones will keep their guard up for longer than others.
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Originally Posted By OnlyHope⏩
For someone like me, I don't mind single mothers as they have lower SMVs to other women and guys ignore them on a higher basis giving subhumans like me a better chance. But that being said, I get rejected very quickly by single mothers at almost the exact same rate as normal women which baffles me. True incels like myself can't judge single mothers, even though we are disgusted in many levels (srs).
Originally Posted By andrew28⏩
Some single mothers are aware that low-value men will see them as an easy layup just looking to be rescued. So the smart ones will keep their guard up for longer than others.
I dunno, you'd be surprised how absurd single mother's standards can be. It's like that other thread misc had a couple weeks ago: women's standards seem to go up as their baggage increases. I've seen a lot of it first-hand and it's much more than just "I need someone responsible cuz I have a kid now"
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Feel bad for them.

this is one thing that should be drilled into women. they dont know how much it ruins their dating value

and then like you said.. they proudly put it in their bio.. so unaware
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Stupid sloot might be attracting the wrong kind of guy doing that.

I laugh when the have pics of them with a dude in their profile.
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They are single mothers. They are not good decision makers
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