Anyone else ghost chicks often?

11-05-2021, 10:19 AM

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Anyone else ghost chicks often?

I meet a girl, talk all week, weekend comes around and I just lose interest. Initially my dink is excited but after a week of it and thinking about it, I just change my mind. I either can't be bothered making the drive or feel like it's just a waste of time since thinking with my small head, nom saying. Plus got better chit to do with my valuable time.

The anticipation gets kind of annoying and I know I'm not gonna marry the chick so after smashing, most of the time I'm like wtf was the point of this? Plus ghosting/blocking is easier than telling them the truth because then they just go psycho and blow up your phone about what an a-hole you are. I just don't need to hear it.

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11-05-2021, 10:20 AM

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11-05-2021, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩

lol sounds like you're getting old and lazy

early 30's

not lazy by any means in regards to life but maybe when it comes to women, yeah. I direct my energy where the juice is worth the squeeze. Often times, that's not a girl.

11-05-2021, 10:22 AM

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11-05-2021, 10:26 AM

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Occasionally. I don't have better things to do though, I just don't like doing chit.

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11-05-2021, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted By LtGoose⏩

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11-05-2021, 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted By GaryRidgway⏩

Occasionally. I don't have better things to do though, I just don't like doing chit.

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11-05-2021, 10:29 AM

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Do this every week pretty much. Made a new rule that I won’t match with or entertain a girl that isn’t hot enough to date. Pretty shallow, but whatever.

Sometimes a hot girl will ghost me and I’ll get in my feelings for a few hours and then I realize I do this to someone every week, so karma.

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11-05-2021, 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted By Droopdx⏩

Do this every week pretty much. Made a new rule that I won’t match with or entertain a girl that isn’t hot enough to date. Pretty shallow, but whatever.

Sometimes a hot girl will ghost me and I’ll get in my feelings for a few hours and then I realize I do this to someone every week, so karma.

I know this feel, bruh. I need to make the same rule and really stick to it. The dry spells just get to my head. (no pun intended)

Ironically a few weeks ago I met a girl I actually was interested in and she ghosted me. I had it coming though, tbh.

11-05-2021, 10:39 AM

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Ghosted three this week

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11-05-2021, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted By truesteez⏩

I know this feel, bruh. I need to make the same rule and really stick to it. The dry spells just get to my head. (no pun intended)

Ironically a few weeks ago I met a girl I actually was interested in and she ghosted me. I had it coming though, tbh.

It’s fun to entertain for awhile, but also a huge waste of time.

Same for me last week. Took her to dinner, paid for everything. Super hot, but was always short over text and called her out about it. “It’s just the way I text” I also carried the conversation the whole date until she eventually started opening up. Made out and set up another date for the following week, but didn’t text back. Got a taste of my own medicine. Fuk these $60+ dinner dates.

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11-05-2021, 10:44 AM

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Those are porn addiction and low test symptoms man. The way you feel is also how many men today feel, and its causing the collapse of society due to lack of masculinity.

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11-05-2021, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted By JC20010⏩

Ghosted three this week

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Originally Posted By Droopdx⏩

It’s fun to entertain for awhile, but also a huge waste of time.

Same for me last week. Took her to dinner, paid for everything. Super hot, but was always short over text and called her out about it. “It’s just the way I text” I also carried the conversation the whole date until she eventually started opening up. Made out and set up another date for the following week, but didn’t text back. Got a taste of my own medicine. Fuk these $60+ dinner dates.

Damn son, that's annoying. These girls have nothing to offer anymore. No personality, glued to social media. It's so stale.

I don't do the dinner thing if I agree to meet up. I usually do a coffee and go for a walk on the beach/causeway/park. It's cheaper, doesn't feel like an interview and easier to bail out of if it's not going well. Plus it sets the mood at night because you can get touchy/flirty and when it gets a little boring, back to their place or the car for sexy time.

11-05-2021, 10:49 AM

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11-05-2021, 10:50 AM

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cause they arent interesting enough. thats why you lose interest . Im abit in your shoes..... girls are super friendly with me, the ones i like i hint an outing on a weekend but i throw a trigger.....so basicall goes like that

me:you free this weekend to go out to X place so we can have lunch/dinner
her:yes
(Trigger parameter) me: great, confirm our outing on thursday so i can pass by and pick you up

the reason i do this is so i dont give them alot of leverage .... i ask them if they wanna hang out, but indirectly i make them make the move and confirm..... if a girl gets back to me , then she earns part of my respect, if she dodges, then i label her as a whore till the end of time

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11-05-2021, 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted By MEDITATE⏩

cause they arent interesting enough. thats why you lose interest . Im abit in your shoes..... girls are super friendly with me, the ones i like i hint an outing on a weekend but i throw a trigger.....so basicall goes like that

me:you free this weekend to go out to X place so we can have lunch/dinner
her:yes
(Trigger parameter) me: great, confirm our outing on thursday so i can pass by and pick you up

the reason i do this is so i dont give them alot of leverage .... i ask them if they wanna hang out, but indirectly i make them make the move and confirm..... if a girl gets back to me , then she earns part of my respect, if she dodges, then i label her as a whore till the end of time

this is smart too as a lot can change through the week. You know how they are, they just go wherever the wind blows.

11-05-2021, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩

Those are porn addiction and low test symptoms man. The way you feel is also how many men today feel, and its causing the collapse of society due to lack of masculinity.

I don’t watch porn and have high test, so…

It’s just the current state of online dating for men who’ve been there done that

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11-05-2021, 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted By Droopdx⏩

I don’t watch porn and have high test, so…

It’s just the current state of online dating for men who’ve been there done that

pretty much this and it's not just limited to online. IRL girls as well.

11-05-2021, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted By rollerball⏩

Do you actively avoid porn? I've been considering it.

Yeah man, it's a bad habit.

You'll feel better without it. It sucks at first but when you avoid constant sexual content, it will help you think clearer.

That's the problem with online as well, you see these pics of chicks as you're swiping/scrolling and it triggers a mild pron response, thus encouraging sexual desires, lowering standards, etc.

11-05-2021, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted By truesteez⏩

I meet a girl, talk all week, weekend comes around and I just lose interest. Initially my dink is excited but after a week of it and thinking about it, I just change my mind. I either can't be bothered making the drive or feel like it's just a waste of time since thinking with my small head, nom saying. Plus got better chit to do with my valuable time.

The anticipation gets kind of annoying and I know I'm not gonna marry the chick so after smashing, most of the time I'm like wtf was the point of this? Plus ghosting/blocking is easier than telling them the truth because then they just go psycho and blow up your phone about what an a-hole you are. I just don't need to hear it.

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Yes roughly 50% of the time. The other 50 I get ghosted

11-05-2021, 11:19 AM

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What's happened is you're now the age where you're fully utilizing your brain

You reached mature adulthood both physically and mentally

The mind goes through a metamorphic-like psychological change roughly every 7 years which is why we naturally socialize with people our own age for the sake of relating in common goals

As for sexually losing interest, lay off the porn

*Tolerance is the lube that slides the dildo of dysfunction into the ass of civilized society*

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11-05-2021, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted By blissful88⏩

What's happened is you're now the age where you're fully utilizing your brain

You reached mature adulthood both physically and mentally

The mind goes through a metamorphic-like psychological change roughly every 7 years which is why we naturally socialize with people our own age for the sake of relating in common goals

As for sexually losing interest, lay off the porn

intredasting. Are there specific ages where these 7 year changes happen or does it vary by person and their specific development?

I'm early 30's if that helps for reference.