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» For the actual players on the misc: How do you make a girl feel comfortable with you?
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post 1650519453 11-09-2021, 04:36 PM
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For the actual players on the misc: How do you make a girl feel comfortable with you?

I guess its the vibe you're putting out? How do you guys do it so fast, like from first meeting her say while waiting for the bartender? srs. I always see this happening. Some dude just strikes up a convo and within minutes the girl body language is chill af, twirling hair and all smiles

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post 1650519503 11-09-2021, 04:37 PM
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I make her comfortable by fkking her in the ass. Srs
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post 1650519523 11-09-2021, 04:38 PM
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i just strike up a convo and within minutes the girl body language is chill af, twirling hair and all smiles
pls do not associate my personalities in misc and sports misc
post 1650519533 11-09-2021, 04:38 PM
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Calm, confident, chill and charming. Never fails.
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post 1650519553 11-09-2021, 04:38 PM
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talk about lgbtq rights and how much you hate trump
post 1650519573 11-09-2021, 04:38 PM
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You have to pretend like she is your sister
post 1650519623 11-09-2021, 04:39 PM
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1. Be good looking.
2. Don't be not good looking.
post 1650519693 11-09-2021, 04:40 PM
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I just say hi
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post 1650519803 11-09-2021, 04:42 PM
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Easy. Just be hot.
post 1650519973 11-09-2021, 04:43 PM
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not really sure boyo

you just talk to them and make them that way
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post 1650520043 11-09-2021, 04:44 PM
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Originally Posted By stevemckenna
1. Be good looking.
2. Don't be not good looking.
Yep. You have to be attractive to them. If she isn't making physical contact with you within the first few minutes, move on. She's not that into you.

They will instinctively find a way to touch your arm, shoulder, etc. even though they might not realize it. No need to waste your time if the attraction is not immediately there.
post 1650520073 11-09-2021, 04:44 PM
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1) Be hot
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post 1650520133 11-09-2021, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted By wildchild11
i just strike up a convo and within minutes the girl body language is chill af, twirling hair and all smiles
#BLM

also

5’8”


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post 1650520223 11-09-2021, 04:47 PM
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it really just has to do with how you look, your body language, and how you speak.

If you are very confident, positive, and seem genuine, then people are very receptive. Also having proper length of eye contact, smiling, active listening, calm speech, appropriate discussion and responses gauged by you.
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post 1650520413 11-09-2021, 04:50 PM
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Well if they are even remotely HTC being comfortable should not really be an option I mean you should keep them on their toes to make it abundantly clear that you have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to them going to chipotle for lunch then arriving at your abode only to hustle off to the bathroom and unload chocolate anacondas from their gnarly brown star like they are handing out free breadsticks at the Olive Garden ultimately creating a clogged toilet situation that cannot be rectified by many consecutive hours of aggressive plungering with your shirt pulled up over your nose
post 1650521753 11-09-2021, 05:12 PM
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Chloroform. Lots of chloroform.
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post 1650522233 11-09-2021, 05:19 PM
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It's all about being able to carry on a conversation and just keep talking. I personally don't have the gift, as if I want to fuk a girl I need to basically see her a bunch of times and get her to like me based on limited conversation. But pretty much everyone that I hang with has this gift, and these guys can seriously get laid every day with a different girl if they want to. It's fuking impressive, and it's something that just comes naturally. When you spend your entire life socializing, you become really good at it by like age 35.
post 1650522403 11-09-2021, 05:22 PM
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Just being Chad srs


Just say hello, what brings you in. Ask if they are vaxxed. Then go full White Nationalist and start dropping subtle redpills

You won’t believe how many women I’ve gotten by being anti government ect
post 1650522523 11-09-2021, 05:24 PM
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Originally Posted By OT2000
Calm, confident, chill and charming. Never fails.
This. Just don't act creepy or like you're trying to hard. If you come off as relaxed and comfortable, they'll generally be the same way. Unless it's a crazy bitch with daddy issues.
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post 1650522633 11-09-2021, 05:25 PM
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post 1650523263 11-09-2021, 05:37 PM
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I think it all starts with you being comfortable yourself. If you're comfortable then she'll pick up on that, but if you're uncomfortable then she'll pick up on that too
post 1650527323 11-09-2021, 07:04 PM
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It's called charisma and it has been dropping more panties than money, looks, physique, status since the dawn of man.
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post 1650527653 11-09-2021, 07:10 PM
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Just say hi
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post 1650542683 11-10-2021, 05:06 AM
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pick a girl that's interested in you


pick a girl that might be interested in you


or take a chance... talk, say something funny...and wait for a response, don't rush like a betasoy and talk too fast and chit, let her talk...girls love to talk about themselves so give her a chance to start blabbing, they feel more comfortable when they blab



but if she;s not interested she's not interest, dont be all too butthurt, just move on and brush it off
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post 1650542703 11-10-2021, 05:07 AM
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Loosen the handcuffs a bit.
post 1650548583 11-10-2021, 07:36 AM
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Originally Posted By whogotmuhbeers
#BLM

also

5’8”


LoL
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pls do not associate my personalities in misc and sports misc
post 1650548713 11-10-2021, 07:38 AM
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Just walk up and say "Hi", literally works every time
post 1650551083 11-10-2021, 08:17 AM
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Joke around a bit nothing over the top, be chill & have a light convo. then switch to the "I'm interested in you talk".
post 1650551753 11-10-2021, 08:28 AM
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i am sex
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post 1650553353 11-10-2021, 08:55 AM
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I think it's about communication

Holding back for instance will cause miscommunication. Same with self-doubt. That's when issues arise because it becomes confusing

E.g. mixed signals
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