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post 1650646943 11-11-2021, 05:07 PM
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Date advice

How do you greet her? Half hug? I cant give her a handshake its not a drug deal ffs I think it should be like some form of hug

Should I kiss her at the end?
post 1650647243 11-11-2021, 05:12 PM
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Here's some good advice:
don't overanalyze everything. stop thinking you're going to blow it if you don't follow every fcking bit of game and need to get it 100% right.
post 1650647333 11-11-2021, 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Here's some good advice:
don't overanalyze everything. stop thinking you're going to blow it if you don't follow every fcking bit of game and need to get it 100% right.
Being natural is a good and probably only real approach I just dont know should I humor her a lot. Im a pretty amusing person but I know girls like more uninterested guys who dont give af
post 1650647363 11-11-2021, 05:14 PM
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Originally Posted By StoneColdMarko7⏩
How do you greet her? Half hug? I cant give her a handshake its not a drug deal ffs I think it should be like some form of hug

Should I kiss her at the end?
it doesnt matter just wait for the rufee to kick in
post 1650647513 11-11-2021, 05:16 PM
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Be you brah. If it's the first date, everything will feel weird at first but go with it and don't be overbearing.

Shoot, what I enjoyed doing was laughing at any awkward moments and shortly joke about it to gauge how she feels about touch or intimacy. Communication is key my guy. Smile, laugh, have a good time.

Like you said, it isn't a drug deal nor is it an interview. You got the date. Enjoy and be yourself.
post 1650647533 11-11-2021, 05:17 PM
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post 1650647583 11-11-2021, 05:19 PM
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Originally Posted By StoneColdMarko7⏩
Being natural is a good and probably only real approach I just dont know should I humor her a lot. Im a pretty amusing person but I know girls like more uninterested guys who dont give af
don't humor hera lot, just a little bit and gauge it from there. Girls like guys who can make them laugh more than guys who don't give a fuk
post 1650648113 11-11-2021, 05:26 PM
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just go up to her and say hi
post 1650648173 11-11-2021, 05:27 PM
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full hug wtf
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post 1650648493 11-11-2021, 05:30 PM
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Not into the whole “game” thing but I would say don’t try too hard. It’s ok to be quiet sometimes. Sometimes the best moments come from awkward pauses.

You shouldn’t be the one driving the conversation the entire time, try to let her do the talking
post 1650648593 11-11-2021, 05:31 PM
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Originally Posted By StoneColdMarko7⏩
How do you greet her?
pull your dick out through your zipper and ask her "may I proceed m'lady" gets him every time
post 1650648613 11-11-2021, 05:32 PM
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No don’t “half hug” you autist, just regular hug

Kiss is something you gotta play by ear. If you get good vibes, go for it but don’t be offended if she says no
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post 1650649963 11-11-2021, 05:58 PM
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Originally Posted By StoneColdMarko7⏩
How do you greet her? Half hug? I cant give her a handshake its not a drug deal ffs I think it should be like some form of hug

Should I kiss her at the end?
you should be smashing

srs

seehttps://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=180732743
Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Like unless you explicitly work out with the girls on Tinder or text whatever that you’re implying having a ONS.

Aside from the obvious Sloots gon’ sloot how actually common is it that two random people on a first date have sex on the first date itself.

Curious to know your personal experiences misc
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post 1650650033 11-11-2021, 06:00 PM
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treat her like a friend.
post 1650651833 11-11-2021, 06:39 PM
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its still a pandemic ffs, extend your arm out and fist bump her making sure to cover your mouth and nose when you do it

same thing for when the night ends
post 1650652893 11-11-2021, 06:58 PM
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I sometimes handshake at the beginning. If she's not a dumb thot, she won't mind - we're all reasonable adults. Def at least hug at the end. Could be slightly awkward depending on how much you guys broke the ice. Kiss depending on location/vibe.
post 1650653753 11-11-2021, 07:14 PM
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Depends how much banter and friendly vibes you have before the date. If there's been flirting then hug for sure.

As for afterwards, if you've been flirting and see an opening, just go for the kiss. Better to try and get shot down than not try and have her think you're a wuss.
post 1650653803 11-11-2021, 07:16 PM
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"you look fantastic"

Then proceed to give her a half sort of hug - if you know you know

Make sure you lead the way to the table/bar and then ask her what she's ordering to drink and then tell the bartender ... "I'll have the lager on tap and she'll have the espresso martini - thanks"
post 1650654573 11-11-2021, 07:37 PM
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Extremely firm handshake to assert dominance.
Lol, lmfao
post 1650654943 11-11-2021, 07:47 PM
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jerk her cokk off and wipe the cumm on your jeans
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post 1650655203 11-11-2021, 07:52 PM
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Just lmao at not kissing their hand.

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post 1650663293 11-11-2021, 11:40 PM
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Originally Posted By jthm⏩
it doesnt matter just wait for the rufee to kick in
Lmaooooooo you right tbh
post 1650664133 11-12-2021, 12:08 AM
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post 1650665443 11-12-2021, 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted By capowt⏩
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How could I not see it? Its so obvious. Thank you fam

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post 1650665903 11-12-2021, 01:49 AM
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Make eye contact, go for hug, abort if it looks unwanted.
99.999% hugs are fine, but we don't know the chick

Kiss at the end depends on how interested you are in each other. If she likes you, you could do some really goofy **** and it'll be fine.
If you're new to this, don't over think like others have said.
What will be, will be, you don't need to stress over stuff like this.
post 1650666023 11-12-2021, 01:56 AM
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I think strong eye contact and casual hug is the way to go. It sets the tone of physicality for the date and gets "first contact" out of the way immediately.

This seems to be an online dating problem though because if you're meeting these sloots IRL, you should already be comfortable with them.

Anyway, just lol @ modern dating srs.
post 1650666273 11-12-2021, 02:17 AM
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Originally Posted By StoneColdMarko7⏩
Im a pretty amusing person but I know girls like more uninterested guys who dont give af
completely wrong
post 1650666313 11-12-2021, 02:19 AM
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