lets say you see a chick every weekend, you've seen her 3 times and each time you had sex, but you are not necessarily in a relationship yet. How much should you be texting? I texted her the day after and told her i had a good time and she reciprocated. I don't know what else to text her now besides setting up next date or asking how her day is. I've read conflicting things. Some people say text every day to keep you on her mind or she's gonna think you are just using her, others say don't text at all unless it's to set up your next date or you come off desperate/clingy. what's the consensus? This is the hardest thing for me with girls being semi autistic and lacking enough experience, nothing seems natural, i overthink and torture myself every waking minute.

why is this **** so complicated. I should be able to be genuine when i like a girl and tell her i wanna see her and i think about her and expect her respond accordingly if she likes me. not sure if i'm cut out for playing these stupid mind games.

Text normal don't over think it. IF she likes you she'll make the way to hang out.

Don’t over think it. If you’re thinking of her, tell her. You can keep it short n sweet. It really is the thought that counts.

One of the things I appreciated when my husband and I were dating was, he would always say good morning when he woke up, and he said goodnight when he was going to bed. And I would tell him the same. He worked full time and also went to school full time, so actual conversation was far n few in between.

Yea that was probably 20 years ago when the average female didn't have at least 3 dudes spamming their dms with compliments