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post 1650958883 11-17-2021, 02:49 AM
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Have You Given Up?

Have you given up with the Fantasy of "Relationships" "Marriage Aka Cuckrriage leading to Divorce + Cucktax and Fleecing"? If you have not given up please share your viewpoint. If you did give up on these fantasies of "love" at what age did you give up and what brings you joy in life? Escort Mogging? Money Mogging? Career Mogging? Education Mogging? Vehicle Mogging? Travel Mogging? Gaming Mogging? Etc.?
post 1650959273 11-17-2021, 03:13 AM
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Stop crying and fist yourself.

Imagine being so weak as a man that you just know there's no way you'll be able to tame and break a modern feral sloot so you make cope posts on the misc about how it's impossible. Embarrassing.
post 1650959303 11-17-2021, 03:14 AM
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post 1650960323 11-17-2021, 04:02 AM
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Originally Posted By DoragonKingu
Have you given up with the Fantasy of "Relationships" "Marriage Aka Cuckrriage leading to Divorce + Cucktax and Fleecing"? If you have not given up please share your viewpoint. If you did give up on these fantasies of "love" at what age did you give up and what brings you joy in life? Escort Mogging? Money Mogging? Career Mogging? Education Mogging? Vehicle Mogging? Travel Mogging? Gaming Mogging? Etc.?
I've only been in 1 long term relationship before. I have a 10+ body count from free normal hookups/fwbs and also a 10+ body count from escorts.
I'm 22 y/o.
I was in a relationship for 2 years and honestly, it was nice to be cared about. I did spend a LOT of money on her though, but to be fair she spent a lot on me too.
I ended up breaking up with her since she was older than me (by 3 years) and kept pressuring me to settle down (like constantly talking about kids and stuff)... and I genuinely made the decision to break up because I cared about her future and still loved her (since there's no way I have time for kids any time soon and I decided she deserves that - she has pcos which makes her become infertile faster than other women). Also, I was less experienced then and I guess I was curious about what I was missing out on. It was an extremely hard decision because I still loved her (and tbh still do to this day)

... Only to find out 2 weeks after the breakup from her friend that she cheated on me (sat on another guy's lap and let him grab her ass in a party). The thing is, she was very cute and innocent looking and she was very sweet and you NEVER would've expected her to do this.
She got a tattoo of my initials to try and get me back afterwards and still messages me 11 months later (we broke up in jan). But can't trust her. I know for a fact she's getting ran through right now because her Instagram has heaps of new guys liking and commenting on her posts and also my mate saw her on bumble. I probably won't ever go back into another relationship, the cons seem to outweigh the pros and it's not worth the emotional toil.

Now I'm just focusing on finishing my masters degree and working on side projects. I was gaming heaps after the breakup but now I barely game and am focused. I watch youtube a lot though. All I care about now: Gym, uni, side projects, casual uni sport (ultimate frisbee), friends/family, escourts or re-downloading tinder every so often when I feel lonely.

I basically have 0 respect for women and generally treat them as below me.

I'm just worried that maybe I'm throwing away my good young years not getting into emotional attachments with "good" women (if they even exist). I might change my mind about relationships later, idk. Do relationships get better or worse the older men are?

Cheers
post 1650960353 11-17-2021, 04:03 AM
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no, that's my backup plan. my current plan is to spread my seed all over the world srs.
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post 1650960523 11-17-2021, 04:10 AM
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men need to transcend this **** and move on, instead of relics of the past.
post 1650960933 11-17-2021, 04:26 AM
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I'm not interested in marriage, so I don't think I can technically say I've given up - but it certainly isn't something I'm looking for or trying to get.

I think getting my arm heavily twisted into getting engaged, realizing I didn't really want it, feeling like you're largely just a means to an end for them (children, resources, etc) is what did it for me.
post 1650961833 11-17-2021, 04:57 AM
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Well

No.

But I invest 0 effort looking

She's gonna have to basically slsp me in the face

Even then

I'm pretty picky

Oh well
post 1650961893 11-17-2021, 05:00 AM
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Not really putting much effort into searching anymore - but open to the idea
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post 1650961953 11-17-2021, 05:02 AM
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The one I have is so annoying. Nothing but regret. Ugly to. If they are hot at least it zmakes it easier to put up with.
post 1650963213 11-17-2021, 05:59 AM
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Originally Posted By DoragonKingu
Have you given up with the Fantasy of "Relationships" "Marriage Aka Cuckrriage leading to Divorce + Cucktax and Fleecing"? If you have not given up please share your viewpoint. If you did give up on these fantasies of "love" at what age did you give up and what brings you joy in life? Escort Mogging? Money Mogging? Career Mogging? Education Mogging? Vehicle Mogging? Travel Mogging? Gaming Mogging? Etc.?
My wife has my back. She literally put my clothes on me when my back was out, puts together dinner, works, compliments me.
Psalm 55:22
La Lakers
Lebron is soft

" Do not shed tears because there is no greater victory than to fall from this world a free man. ."

Fighting to beat anxiety/depression daily.
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post 1650964923 11-17-2021, 06:44 AM
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post 1650965273 11-17-2021, 06:52 AM
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Originally Posted By wasp9166
Well

No.

But I invest 0 effort looking

She's gonna have to basically slsp me in the face

Even then

I'm pretty picky

Oh well
I did this^

It works. And it puts you in the position of shedding the girl at any hint of stupidity.
post 1650965593 11-17-2021, 06:58 AM
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Been married 23 years and counting. It can work if you find the right person. I met my wife after I gave up on it and vowed to quit looking as well. The good ones can detect when you're no longer thirsty.
post 1650965913 11-17-2021, 07:06 AM
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post 1650966003 11-17-2021, 07:08 AM
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I gave up on life altogether.
post 1650966193 11-17-2021, 07:11 AM
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two years into a relationship and im happy. Wasnt looking in the slightest, was very busy running through sloots, she called me out on it and wouldnt let me hit for a couple weeks. plan to marry her if the time is right. sometimes it works out, id completely given up and the right person was there.

we're also a corporate power couple which helps. very busy high paced lives. literally dont have time for slooting, and make the same amount of money, which is a lot. Helps when the relationship is "even"
post 1650966613 11-17-2021, 07:18 AM
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Originally Posted By ChillyWetWilly
longass rant
You go girl, men are the WORST.


I haven't given up, though I haven't had uh many opportunities to be betrayed so meh.
post 1650968723 11-17-2021, 08:02 AM
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post 1650969223 11-17-2021, 08:11 AM
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Originally Posted By ChillyWetWilly
I've only been in 1 long term relationship before. I have a 10+ body count from free normal hookups/fwbs and also a 10+ body count from escorts.
I'm 22 y/o.
I was in a relationship for 2 years and honestly, it was nice to be cared about. I did spend a LOT of money on her though, but to be fair she spent a lot on me too.
I ended up breaking up with her since she was older than me (by 3 years) and kept pressuring me to settle down (like constantly talking about kids and stuff)... and I genuinely made the decision to break up because I cared about her future and still loved her (since there's no way I have time for kids any time soon and I decided she deserves that - she has pcos which makes her become infertile faster than other women). Also, I was less experienced then and I guess I was curious about what I was missing out on. It was an extremely hard decision because I still loved her (and tbh still do to this day)

... Only to find out 2 weeks after the breakup from her friend that she cheated on me (sat on another guy's lap and let him grab her ass in a party). The thing is, she was very cute and innocent looking and she was very sweet and you NEVER would've expected her to do this.
She got a tattoo of my initials to try and get me back afterwards and still messages me 11 months later (we broke up in jan). But can't trust her. I know for a fact she's getting ran through right now because her Instagram has heaps of new guys liking and commenting on her posts and also my mate saw her on bumble. I probably won't ever go back into another relationship, the cons seem to outweigh the pros and it's not worth the emotional toil.

Now I'm just focusing on finishing my masters degree and working on side projects. I was gaming heaps after the breakup but now I barely game and am focused. I watch youtube a lot though. All I care about now: Gym, uni, side projects, casual uni sport (ultimate frisbee), friends/family, escourts or re-downloading tinder every so often when I feel lonely.

I basically have 0 respect for women and generally treat them as below me.

I'm just worried that maybe I'm throwing away my good young years not getting into emotional attachments with "good" women (if they even exist). I might change my mind about relationships later, idk. Do relationships get better or worse the older men are?

Cheers
worse.

See how your girl is behaving just in her early 20's? Just add on more years, more cawks and more baggage and the behavior amplifies. Only they raise standards and their looks decline.

Girls her age were raising children a few decades ago. Now they sloot and document it on the internet for everyone to see.

Juice is not worth the squeeze these days. Stay on the path you're on regarding uni, side gigs, sports, friends/fam. Life isn't about locking down a girl. It's about living it however the fukk you want and doing what makes you happy. You only get one life, why waste it on someone else.
post 1650969543 11-17-2021, 08:16 AM
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post 1650970633 11-17-2021, 08:37 AM
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Less so giving up, more so indifference is how I'd put it. I'm not super optimistic about finding someone having been on so many dates and seeing how the vast majority of women are. If I get lucky and find the right person - awesome. If not, I'm just going to carry on living my life and doing what I want. I can always go to Europe for a bit and bang escorts with the money I save from not having a woman anyway if I got super horny.
post 1650971313 11-17-2021, 08:46 AM
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It is not about giving up, it is about knowing the right time when to give up and move on.

Got to know when to hold dem and when to hold dem
post 1650973673 11-17-2021, 09:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yes I gave up.

Age 0 to 40 - lived in bluepill blissful ignorance

Early to mid forties - got redpilled hard by divorce and dating after divorce

Late forties - gave up on bluepill fantasy and just settle for fwb only
Are you el terrible?
post 1650977023 11-17-2021, 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7
I gave up on marriage after my divorce. I did everything I could for that woman for almost a decade. In that time, I put up with financial abuse, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse. The latter two issues grew absolutely insane during the last year I was with her, but I kept sticking it out and trying to make it work because I believed in staying committed to my marriage vows. I learned the hard way that nothing you do matters, because the other person in a marriage can dip out on you for whatever bullchit reasons they feel like at any time regardless.

Relationships are okay, but I lol at all guys I know who are married and barely getting any sex. That accounts for over 75% of marriages I hear about. Lmao at jestermaxxing and being a complete cuck to some broad when you end up looking at taters online to fap as much as an single FA incel.


Also, when a woman does start considering divorcing you, the lies are beyond obnoxious. My ex-wife lied to me so much/badly in our last 6 months together that it royally fukked up my ability to trust in relationships. Would never let my guard down to another woman the way I did to her. It's not worth the risks, srs.
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post 1650978263 11-17-2021, 10:51 AM
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I think of the dogs of my life when I hear this song.


Never give up on true love. I was feral. But I was loved. I honestly don't think I'm feral anymore, but somehow my love for dogs is so much greater than my love for men. They accepted me long before dicks ever glanced my way for anything except rape. srs. I subsisted on dog ****s long before I snacked on male ****s. They were generous, loving and true. Men, well, I can't say the same. Men are cute when they cry after sex, but it's hard to really understand them. #dpgforlife

My human love (the first human to accept me) got jealous and shot my dog in 2004. I couldn't take it. Went into deep denial until 2011 and then faced it. then - I promptly forgot him for another six years or so. I still miss the human sometimes. When he tells me to sleep I basically pass out. Weird. He hasnt' come around in years. Mostly I am more dog than human.
post 1650978833 11-17-2021, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No he is just trolling.

Literally anyonecan make troll posts just by writing like I do.
To be fair, you're grammar skills are top notch and not many things phase you. A lot posters come up short in both those areas.
MFC
post 1650978983 11-17-2021, 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No he is just trolling.

Literally anyone can make troll posts just by writing like I do.
That's true.
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Originally Posted By FarmersSon
To be fair,you're grammar skills are top notch and not many things phase you. A lot posters come up short in both those areas.
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Less white knighting and start learning basic grammar you Indian ****get
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