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post 1651738183 11-30-2021, 09:54 AM
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Always lose interest in sex with the same girl after 2-3 months (srs)

Sometimes if they're super hot and a demon in bed my interest/attraction lasts up to 6 months, then I start wanting different. This happens with every girl and becomes a problem in relationships with girls I really like that are wifey material. Any advice? (pls respect srs tag)(srs)

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post 1651738363 11-30-2021, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted By BuckNakedinBama⏩
Sometimes if they're super hot and a demon in bed my interest/attraction lasts up to 6 months, then I start wanting different. This happens with every girl and becomes a problem in relationships with girls I really like that are wifey material. Any advice? (pls respect srs tag)(srs)

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post 1651738793 11-30-2021, 10:03 AM
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right after those 2-3 months are up is the most dangerous time for most miscers as that's when the probability of relapse is so high. you'd be doing so good and the relapse into banging a phat bootied twink off grindr again. bad habit 2021
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post 1651738923 11-30-2021, 10:06 AM
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You wouldn’t think this if she had perfectly firm and round fake tits that don’t jiggle at all even without a bra.
post 1651739023 11-30-2021, 10:08 AM
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I also experience this
First couple months I can bust two or three times in a row without stopping, staying hard the whole time
Banged my last GF four times on our first date srs
But then it slows down
Much longer than that and I have to start relying more on my imagination in addition to the physical stimulation to ejaculate as effectively
Like I’ve already got them so the thrill of the hunt is diminished

Must be some conqueror gene that programs me to spread my seed as far and wide as possible and after a few months it’s like “she’s probably knocked up by now, you must move on to the next”

The novelty of new pussy is one of the best things in the world
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post 1651739073 11-30-2021, 10:09 AM
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I do too which is why I always have a rotation of at least 3 chicks with new ones sprinkled in when possible at home or while traveling SRS. The thought of only one pussy and mouth for a month, let alone a whole damn lifetime, makes me want to rope ON GOD FUK
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post 1651739153 11-30-2021, 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted By Better
right after those 2-3 months are up is the most dangerous time for most miscers as that's when the probability of relapse is so high. you'd be doing so good and the relapse into banging a phat bootied twink off grindr again. bad habit 2021
Can't relapse into something you've never done, brah.
Originally Posted By BrooksKoepka⏩
You wouldn’t think this if she had perfectly firm and round fake tits that don’t jiggle at all even without a bra.
Maybe. She wants tits after kids which is agreeable with me.
Originally Posted By IlChosenOne⏩
I also experience this
First couple months I can bust two or three times in a row without stopping, staying hard the whole time
Banged my last GF four times on our first date srs
But then it slows down
Much longer than that and I have to start relying more on my imagination in addition to the physical stimulation to ejaculate as effectively
Like I’ve already got them so the thrill of the hunt is diminished

Must be some conqueror gene that programs me to spread my seed as far and wide as possible and after a few months it’s like “she’s probably knocked up by now, you must move on to the next”

The novelty of new pussy is one of the best things in the world
Agreed entirely. That first smash is always the best.
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post 1651739173 11-30-2021, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted By BrooksKoepka⏩
You wouldn’t think this if she had perfectly firm and round fake tits that don’t jiggle at all even without a bra.
Lol that sounds like a bad tit job my dude

3 months was my average relationship before meeting my wife. Sometimes things just click.
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post 1651739653 11-30-2021, 10:19 AM
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post 1651739943 11-30-2021, 10:24 AM
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I actually have this same issue OP. It's one reason I have been avoiding dating and relationships.

We need to reset our brains or something somehow.
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post 1651740203 11-30-2021, 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
It's completely normal

That's why if you're looking for something long term, she better also be someone you like to be around
This. It happens to everyone in every relationship. Once you "settle down," whatever that means marriage long-term commitment etc, the only thing you can really do is control your urges. Shooting heroine is supposed to feel amazing but most of us don't do it because we know it's harmful. View cheating the same way lol. Sure banging a new chick would feel good in the moment, but think about all the heartache and drama that could come from it. Find someone you find attractive all around, not just physically, and stick to your commitment. That's all any of us can do.

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post 1651740293 11-30-2021, 10:32 AM
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Congratz OP. Sometimes I get sick of the girl I'm fuking, in the middle of the first fuk...
post 1651740373 11-30-2021, 10:33 AM
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I lose interest after the first bang 100% of the time. It sucks. I remember one girl I blocked immediately after we did it on my way home and I talked to her for like two weeks before that every single day multiple dates really liked her etc. She was texting me she loved me on my way home and I didn’t want none of that noise.

I think I hit her up like 6 monthish later and she didn’t reply lol

Been with the Same girl now for a while and I have my moments but I just gotta keep my distance after we do it for a bit
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post 1651740383 11-30-2021, 10:34 AM
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As your purely sexual interest in her fades, love starts to take over. And by the time that is gone, there are kids in the picture. These natural processes are subverted by our modern culture/technology.

You've gone through this process and ended it prematurely with so many women by now that it's all fukked up in your brain. Which isn't really a problem for a man, as you are capable of thinking rationally and doing what should be done rather than what you want to do. The bigger problem is with sloots who have also gone through the same loop too many times, and not only are not capable of rationally making a decision to do what is best, they are given the choice in the first place, which is unnatural for civilized people.
post 1651740473 11-30-2021, 10:36 AM
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Law of diminishing returns checking in.
post 1651740513 11-30-2021, 10:38 AM
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post 1651740733 11-30-2021, 10:42 AM
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In ancient Rome (among other civilizations), it was legal and normal for married men to whoremaxx for this reason.
post 1651742873 11-30-2021, 11:14 AM
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brahs get married and continue having sex with their wives, so there must be a way to fix this.

I don't want to be in the situation I was in with my ex-gf where I lost interest after a few months and are relationship suffered.
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post 1651742883 11-30-2021, 11:14 AM
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I never had a relationship longer than 2 weeks, like 20 girls during my age 15-21

Met wife and been with her 15 years

Don’t force marriage just because. Find the girl that lasts longer than the others. Waited 5 years to propose.
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It’s an evolutionary instinct to get you to spread your seed around as much as possible

Imagine if you had to jerk off to the same pronstar forever, you’d lose interest in that too
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post 1651744023 11-30-2021, 11:33 AM
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just quit porn. also stop jacking off altogether. i used to have sex just to keep my girl from complaining. imagine that in our first year together, sex already became a chore and i was fukking her for her. the problem was i was jacking off.


yes i cheat. but when my wife is at home, i only cheat once or twice a year. it's not a chronic thing. but i have sex with my wife 5-7 days a week every week for 8 years now. still amazing cus no pron or jacking off
post 1651744423 11-30-2021, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
I think sex with almost any woman would start to get boring after a matter of 3 - 6 months or so unless you started caring about them to the point of considering them long-term relationship/possibly marriage material. Pure lust is only exciting and entertaining for so long. At some point, your bond with someone is going to need to grow into something serious to maintain a high level of interest in sex with them once the lust fades away.

That's not the only problem, though. A lot of couples get way too complacent in their sex lives, where at least one person is putting in almost zero effort to maintain a healthy sex life. I.e., one continues to work out/stay reasonably fit while the other lets themselves go, only one bothers to try to keep things intetesting about sex in general, etc.

Men can be bad about it too (letting themselves go, being lazy, etc.), but it never ceases to amaze me how entitled and selfish married women can be about sex with their husbands. Heard so many stories from married guys who get laid a couple times a month at best, and their wives never do stuff like bj's/wear lingerie for them/etc while expecting the men to go the ends if the Earth just for some boring sex where she just lays there and takes it. And then those people wonder why their marriages end up so miserable after years of that bs lol.
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we still need a solution to this. Maybe long term dopamine fasting?
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Don’t get married.

Some people just aren’t meant for marriage.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Don’t get married.

Some people just aren’t meant for marriage.
Speaking from personal experience?
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Originally Posted By ScramFranklin⏩
we still need a solution to this. Maybe long term dopamine fasting?
theres no fixing this. its how the male brain works.
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You lost your pair-bonding ability, you dumb sloot (possibly srs? I dunno your life)

Also second northernlights7's response
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that's life son
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