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post 1654300293 01-14-2022, 02:58 AM
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My girl said she wouldn't take my name if we married

I'm usually anti marriage crew but this chick makes me feel all kindsa feelings.

Now I'm thinking it's not reciprocal.

I said it's a point of respect to take the man's name. A sign of commitment and submission.

She said it would be both weird and confusing if we had the same first name.

Thoughts?
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post 1654300323 01-14-2022, 02:59 AM
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post 1654300423 01-14-2022, 03:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Spazzzzy
When a woman refuses to take on your last name in marriage, or she insists on hyphenating it, just know this is the same intent as a man insisting on a pre-nup. She's has no real desire for you and is planning ahead for the eventual split.
How about no. Pre-nups are a must now days. Kinda like insurance, if you’re a man you need to prepare for the worst because the courts will screw you over. Neggged for being an idiot
post 1654300433 01-14-2022, 03:07 AM
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You share that girl
post 1654300513 01-14-2022, 03:13 AM
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Originally Posted By 2am
She said it would be both weird and confusing if we had the same first name.
Same first name?
post 1654300663 01-14-2022, 03:26 AM
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Originally Posted By bigdownunder
Same first name?
OP is probably talking about his twink bf.
post 1654300773 01-14-2022, 03:34 AM
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Originally Posted By 2am
I'm usually anti marriage crew but this chick makes me feel all kindsa feelings.
So you're anti marriage.. until you found "the one", which is the entire point of marriage




Fkn miscers and their double digit iqs mang
post 1654301083 01-14-2022, 03:52 AM
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post 1654301103 01-14-2022, 03:53 AM
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Take her name OP.
post 1654301193 01-14-2022, 04:03 AM
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I’m really not fussed about the missus having my last name, just as long as the kids do.

But at the same time I think it would be nice for the kids if their mother had the same last name as them, so I would try to convince the missus on those grounds.
post 1654301293 01-14-2022, 04:07 AM
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Her brain has been ruined by feminism and you need to dump her before it's too late. Trust me Gaylord I know what I'm talking about.
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post 1654301313 01-14-2022, 04:08 AM
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Originally Posted By 2am
She said it would be both weird and confusing if we had the same first name.
Lol this’ll teach me for not reading properly.
post 1654301483 01-14-2022, 04:20 AM
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Imagine getting married in 2022
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post 1654301503 01-14-2022, 04:20 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah
Lol this’ll teach me for not reading properly.
I originally assumed it was a typo, but now that I think about it...
post 1654301603 01-14-2022, 04:28 AM
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Originally Posted By 2am
I'm usually anti marriage crew but this chick makes me feel all kindsa feelings.

Now I'm thinking it's not reciprocal.

I said it's a point of respect to take the man's name. A sign of commitment and submission.

She said it would be both weird and confusing if we had the same first name.

Thoughts?
Some things you don’t compromise on. If she wants no name, she gets no marriage. That simple.


Edit: same first name... negs for life OP
post 1654302013 01-14-2022, 04:55 AM
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who can blame her? if i was a girl i'd never go for somebody who is as unspiritual as you are
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post 1654302253 01-14-2022, 05:09 AM
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Lol @ women

They don't have surnames, their surname is their father's, their husband's or if they were given their mother's name then it's really their maternal grandfather's

Lol @ women
post 1654302263 01-14-2022, 05:09 AM
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You mean your ex gf right? Right?
post 1654302323 01-14-2022, 05:10 AM
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Originally Posted By PenorBrahNoHomo
Lol @ women

They don't have surnames, their surname is their father's, their husband's or if they were given their mother's name then it's really their maternal grandfather's

Lol @ women
Holy fck...you're right didn't even think about it like that... JUST LMFAO that means women will never have their real female name, it never existed
post 1654302473 01-14-2022, 05:16 AM
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Originally Posted By ****inator
Holy fck...you're right didn't even think about it like that... JUST LMFAO that means women will never have their real female name, it never existed
Keeping 'their' name in rebellion against muh patriarchy is just keeping some other man's name. None of them realise this, if they did they would make up some stupid new name instead. Dumb bishes.
post 1654302533 01-14-2022, 05:19 AM
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Then let her keep her Fathers name and let he Father continue to take care of her.
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post 1654302593 01-14-2022, 05:21 AM
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She's not supposed to take your first name op
post 1654302713 01-14-2022, 05:27 AM
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Originally Posted By PenorBrahNoHomo
Keeping 'their' name in rebellion against muh patriarchy is just keeping some other man's name. None of them realise this, if they did they would make up some stupid new name instead.Dumb bishes.
This is what me and my wife did.
Made our own stupid last name when we got married. Well, Technically we gave my Son a different last name than either of us when he was born.. then took his last name when we got married.
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post 1654302743 01-14-2022, 05:28 AM
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Don’t take her name to assert dominance.
post 1654302853 01-14-2022, 05:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Tanerian
This is what me and my wife did.
Made our own stupid last name when we got married. Well, Technically we gave my Son a different last name than either of us when he was born.. then took his last name when we got married.
I know a couple who amalgamated both their names when they got married, so now she has a name combined from both her husband and father lol

She's also genuinely BPD/psychotic
post 1654304063 01-14-2022, 06:09 AM
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post 1654304843 01-14-2022, 06:28 AM
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Just say, 'If you can't commit to my surname, I can't commit to you'.

Then fly to NC.
100% chance she'll ditch you, may as well get it over with now than argue about it srs
post 1654338463 01-14-2022, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Tanerian
This is what me and my wife did.
Made our own stupid last name when we got married. Well, Technically we gave my Son a different last name than either of us when he was born.. then took his last name when we got married.
why did you want this?
post 1654339213 01-14-2022, 04:35 PM
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Lmao.
post 1654339513 01-14-2022, 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted By drvillain
Some things you don’t compromise on. If she wants no name, she gets no marriage. That simple.


Edit: same first name... negs for life OP
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