Now that I'm in my 30's and a couple years into being a divorcecel and single father, I still haven't found the ambition to get back into the dating game. Hell, I haven't even been able to muster up enough interest just to try banging broads again. Seems like so much fkn effort that I've already put into that chit and was ready to put behind me a long time ago.

Not sure if I could even feel similarly to how I did about the relationships from the past. These days, I'd be prioritizing the utility purposes of a relationship over just the raw emotion of it all. I.e., no dating sloots with bad college debt and chit like that just because they made me feel a certain way when they S my D just right trying to trick me into signing a legal contract promising them half my chit when it all fails down the line.

I definitely cannot feel romantic love like I used to and my only experience in that aspect was with a literal prostitute (Brittany). If you're a divorcel, I doubt it's possible. I try talking to girls on dating apps but it's just so boring and I just get no excitement from it but it's so lonely. I just want to use them as therapists tbh.

I have a marriage buddy who has been telling me since my divorce to "get on tinder" and "live every single man's dream, breh!" Which, I guess I could, as I have a house/resources to do that chit, with minimal enough baggage from the divorce and chit.

Zero interest, though. Don't feel like jestermaxxing for sloots in the least bit. Don't even feel like having sloots over to my house to bang them. I guess I've perhaps gotten pretty used to be single and never dealing with any sloot bs, which was the complete opposite way of life for me from ages like 18 - 31 lol.

Yes, if you make a young glow queen love you.

love is a 2 way street. the only way to feel that love again is to have a young, unspoiled female love you like Juliet. She's willing to defy everything in her world to be with you. Die for you etc.

only then can you feel love again. they are still at their height of their pairbonding ability.


you won't feel love again with women that have the 2 mile cock stare.

You'll never experience high school love

I just can't get feelings younger women. It just feels ****ing awkward and I feel like I'm just out of their league by a landslide. I'm down to defile them every now and then but then I feel gross after cooming. Ugh

it's over for you then

nah porn ruined love forever. It's hopeless. 27 and never been in love with anyone.

No, once that innocence is gone its never the same, especially when you're older and see how people really are.

negative ghost rider

Yeah, but only if you never had much experience dating as a teen or young adult. People who married young, men and women, often fall into this overwhelming care free infatuation in their middle age, as they (stupidly) fall in love with whoever they’re having an affair with. This behavior is especially dangerous.

See: Jeff Bezos.

Yes, fully possible at all ages

Pretty much. I'd be pretty damn surprised if I ever seriously experienced those feels again (and IF I did, I highly doubt it would last for long).

It is kind of unfortunate (but also kind of good in a way because less likely to make bad decisions due to "being in love"), but that's life son.

Love, only if you're a fking moron.

Lust, hell yes. Go to Miami and bang out a 19yo fob Cuban girl with huge knockers and ass.

Misc is always a cesspool of negativity Jesus christ lol.

WAKE UP.

Love happens or it doesn't. And this is what will happen for all single women you date/encounter going forward. Men can look good, and even prime out in their 30's, while also doing very well even in their 40's. Women's prime ends in their late twenties. I know a hot 23 years old girl dating a 37 years old careercel because she wants to be a housewife in her future and thinks he's attractive. You can also choose to date women your age if you want to improve your odds of success, though get ready for years of mileage, and potential baggage.

Don't go to the misc for validation OP. Go to the mirror. Ask yourself how are you doing at your given age, compared to 5 years ago, 10 years ago. I bet some things have improved over the years, like your income, maybe even your social skills, your aesthetics. Be the protagonist of your own story. Be and do what 20 years old Northernlights7 or even 50 years old Northernlights7 wishes they were. Go out there and pharking move mountains. Self improve. Have actual fun. View this new chapter in your life as revitalized FREEDOM to conquer whatever is in your power to do so.

5 years from now, I want you to NOT look back at this time as wasted time dwelling on sad chit you've already done and/or can't change. 5 years from now, I want you to be like "phark yeah I'm glad I did that."

Of course it is, but you won't find it by spending your days fapping in your house.

I think you might be missing the point...

We're mainly talking about our perspectives and brains changing to where we aren't able to really experience that same emotion/feeling anymore.

You can learn to connect with flow and the moment fairly well.

I do not know if you would want to lose maturity in every way.

Sure, but you just have to accept the poosy has taken 50,000 loads at that point.

I don't think it is impossible, but much much rarer.

If you are still in your 30's I don't think you have to give up all hope.

But I also can't see systematic dating like you are interviewing people for a job leading to that kind of connection.

Best bet would probably be something that develops more naturally with no big expectations at the start. Any real major deal breakers should show up pretty quick.

Could be I'm dead wrong, but my guess is that finding a friend that's also a lover and not focusing on stuff like living together/blending families/marriage- just enjoying each other's company -could grow into more in time.

It's different. That doesn't mean that you have to drag all that extra pressure into it if you have already BTDT.

It seems there is even a little trend of older people that have been previously paired up choosing to be in a committed relationship while maintaining separate households:

https://www.abc.net.au/everyday/why-...apart/12287624

And I totally get that. Less cost effective, but way less to ever argue about too.

the fun come from smashing your young female coworkers that are in relationships

Nardil sounds cool but some of those say it lowers libido. I want my libido sky high.