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post 1656179553 02-14-2022, 12:54 PM
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need misc advice (srs)

Girl i've been crushing on at work, we're equal in job authority so neither of us are in positions of power over another

So she's asked me to come with her on a business trip for the day. just us two, what are the chances she feels the same way? chit is so hard to gauge and i don't want to ruin my chances.
post 1656179673 02-14-2022, 12:56 PM
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Its lower than you think.
post 1656179723 02-14-2022, 12:56 PM
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don't **** where you work at, unless you're willingly to look for another job.

you been here since 2012, you should know this by now.
post 1656179743 02-14-2022, 12:57 PM
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post 1656179753 02-14-2022, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Johnny11Bravo⏩
don't **** where you work at, unless you're willingly to look for another job.

you been here since 2012, you should know this by now.
I am willing to look for another job more or less, im pretty fuked off with work so i dont care all that much
post 1656179803 02-14-2022, 12:58 PM
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just wait it out and feel the air. It's obvious if she does or not. Are you 12?
post 1656179933 02-14-2022, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted By aaron501⏩
I am willing to look for another job more or less, im pretty fuked off with work so i dont care all that much
Even though I still do not agree with what you're doing, give us a few examples of your social interactions or why you think she want to pursue a romantic relationship.
post 1656179943 02-14-2022, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Lucas5814⏩
just wait it out and feel the air. It's obvious if she does or not. Are you 12?
im not 12 but im certainly not as old as you gramps. Im new to this actually courting/flirting stuff. most girls i've been with have been sex straight off the bat and then relationship after the fact and always ended badly. This girl i could actually see a future with
post 1656180023 02-14-2022, 01:01 PM
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Try men.

Then see if you still feel the same way about her afterwards.
post 1656180113 02-14-2022, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Johnny11Bravo⏩
Even though I still do not agree with what you're doing, give us a few examples of your social interactions or why you think she want to pursue a romantic relationship.
so we work together maybe once a week or have some interaction with each other and she tends to laugh at my sarcastic humour but i cant tell if im just beeing an autistic kunt and she's just being nice


also i went on a works drinks night out and she said "a man after my own heart" when i made a joke about how i only drink at spoons (a cheap pub chain) again not sure if just being polite. also caught her staring at me when i would glance over at her but again im clueless and an assburger i think so i really can't tell apart normal interactions and romantic
post 1656180173 02-14-2022, 01:03 PM
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Based off what you have said it is 100% obvious she is planning to kidnap you for your kidneys. Are you vaccinated?
post 1656180183 02-14-2022, 01:03 PM
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don't chit where you eat.

If she's really interested, you wouldn't have to follow her on business trips. You can kick it when she's back.

Not to mention that career women are fukking groce. Imagine her eating that nasty ass airplane food and frozen dinners while washing it back with shiity coffee all day. no thx jeff.
post 1656180423 02-14-2022, 01:06 PM
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Just ask her if she is booking a double bed room or two singles.
post 1656180433 02-14-2022, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted By aaron501⏩
so we work together maybe once a week or have some interaction with each other and she tends to laugh at my sarcastic humour but i cant tell if im just beeing an autistic kunt and she's just being nice


also i went on a works drinks night out and she said "a man after my own heart" when i made a joke about how i only drink at spoons (a cheap pub chain) again not sure if just being polite. also caught her staring at me when i would glance over at her but again im clueless and an assburger i think so i really can't tell apart normal interactions and romantic
That doesn't really warrant anything. It just seem like harmless flirting at best. Do you know what's her relationship status? Do you have any mutual friends or at work? If so, can you ask them to casually bring you up and see what she say? Does she give you a lot of playful banter or eye gazing at you? Does she initiate a lot of drinking or going out together after work with just you 2?
post 1656180643 02-14-2022, 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Johnny11Bravo⏩
That doesn't really warrant anything. It just seem like harmless flirting at best. Do you know what's her relationship status? Do you have any mutual friends or at work? If so, can you ask them to casually bring you up and see what she say? Does she give you a lot of playful banter or eye gazing at you? Does she initiate a lot of drinking or going out together after work with just you 2?
to answer in order

she's single
she's fairly new in the job (8 months'ish) so not really got any mutual coworker friends, also we work in seperate buildings
playful banter a bit, but we dont see eachother often
and no to the last question but id say thats more because i've only really engaged with her the past couple weeks (going out for drinks, and now she's invited me on a work trip)
post 1656180843 02-14-2022, 01:14 PM
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Shes clearly interested brah.

> girls asks guy to join her for the day
> guy doesnt know if shes interested

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post 1656180993 02-14-2022, 01:15 PM
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Don't over think it. Go and Fuk her
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post 1656181003 02-14-2022, 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted By aaron501⏩
to answer in order

she's single
she's fairly new in the job (8 months'ish) so not really got any mutual coworker friends, also we work in seperate buildings
playful banter a bit, but we dont see eachother often
and no to the last question but id say thats more because i've only really engaged with her the past couple weeks (going out for drinks, and now she's invited me on a work trip)
I guess on the business trip you can see how receptive she is to you. Maybe throw something cheeky at her but not enough to make report to HR if things goes side way. It's important for you to act casually and not overly attached or pushy. You can get gauge her better base on her body language and how "comfortable" she is around you.
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