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post 1657118843 03-01-2022, 08:09 AM
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How to build deep emotional connection with guys at the gym?

I have been following advice you guys have given to solve my loneliness issues at the gym. I started to smile more, and make small talk with the regulars I see there. I now know a few people who i shake hands with and make small chat with.

But how do i take it to the next level, and build strong emotional connections with them. I believe our bonding has to be much stronger for us to truly be friends
post 1657119013 03-01-2022, 08:12 AM
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n-nnn-no hommo?!
post 1657119023 03-01-2022, 08:12 AM
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post 1657119183 03-01-2022, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted By zarathu5tra
n-nnn-no hommo?!
Not talking about anything gay or sexual, just getting to know fellow acquaintances at the gym more on a deeper level. Trying to turn acquaintances to close friends
post 1657119223 03-01-2022, 08:15 AM
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Make eye contact (look up) when suking their cok. (Stroke their balls too...taht always feels good and makes it more intimate)
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post 1657119313 03-01-2022, 08:17 AM
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Wanting to build stronger bond with guys is gay now? Never knew that
post 1657119623 03-01-2022, 08:23 AM
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I shouldn't laugh at the responses in this thread, but I am.

I don't think many people at all have "deep emotional connections" with guys at the gym, beyond training together for motivation.
Cook the man some eggs!
post 1657119743 03-01-2022, 08:24 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd
Wanting to build stronger bond with guys is gay now? Never knew that
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post 1657119763 03-01-2022, 08:25 AM
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ewwww who would want to talk to ANYONE at the gym
post 1657119823 03-01-2022, 08:26 AM
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invite them over to watch sports on the weekend
Awesome pics. Great size. Look thick. Solid. Tight. Keep us all posted on your continued progress with any new progress pics or vid clips. Show us what you got man. Wanna see how freakin' huge, solid, thick and tight you can get. Thanks for the motivation.
post 1657119833 03-01-2022, 08:26 AM
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Originally Posted By maori-rap
I shouldn't laugh at the responses in this thread, but I am.

I don't think many people at all have "deep emotional connections" with guys at the gym, beyond training together for motivation.
Yeah i guess you are right, the gym probably isnt the best place for anything beyond small talk since people are busy training. Well at least some acquaintances and small talk does make me feel less of an outcast
post 1657119853 03-01-2022, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By adamsz
invite them over to watch sports on the weekend
Thats actually a great idea. Meeting outside a packed gym where we are alone makes it easier to strengthen our friendship and bond
post 1657119963 03-01-2022, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd
Yeah i guess you are right, the gym probably isnt the best place for anything beyond small talk since people are busy training.
But shouldnt you already know that? You're acting like its some sort of revelation to you lol

Its posts like these that make me question the validity of your avi.,..
post 1657120163 03-01-2022, 08:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Issobolic28
But shouldnt you already know that? You're acting like its some sort of revelation to you lol

Its posts like these that make my question the validity of your avi.,..
Yeah i do know, its just that i dont really go to anywhere else but the gym, and i feel the likelihood of a person at the gym agreeing to hang out with me outside the gym is quite low.
post 1657120263 03-01-2022, 08:34 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd
Thats actually a great idea. Meeting outside a packed gym where we are alone makes it easier to strengthen our friendship and bond
Take them out on your boat

You know

Because of the implication
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post 1657120313 03-01-2022, 08:35 AM
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Well this thread went exactly how I expected. Leaving satisfied.
post 1657120673 03-01-2022, 08:43 AM
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