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post 1657148163 03-01-2022, 03:50 PM
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I feel guilty about dating two girls at the same time

One part of me wants to keep my options open with both but the facts are saying otherwise :

-First sloot is 30 yo and really giving me hard time : She flaked three times prior to a second date that she finally accepted last week. Responds whenever she wants and usually hours later or the following day.

-Second girl is highly interested : responds in 20 minutes tops, makes herself available and drives long distance just to see me. Better looking and only 24 yo.

The second girl told me that she hopes that I'm not seeing anyone else and that on her side she disabled the dating app on which we met (no way to check that).

I'm not going to lie I'm feeling guilty about lying to her about not seeing the first sloot and want to cut my losses with her.

Wut do now ? First sloot came back and seems to act interested now that I'm pulling away. I wouldn't say no to smash.
post 1657148323 03-01-2022, 03:53 PM
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keep seeing them both but obviously devote more of your energy to the second one

girls will do a complete 180 on you no matter what, with 0 logic or explanation, always keep your options open
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post 1657148463 03-01-2022, 03:55 PM
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you need to remove this beta blue pill mindset of guilt.

These chicks are ruthless and talking to multiple dudes.
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post 1657148603 03-01-2022, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted By DavidL913
you need to remove this beta blue pill mindset of guilt.

These chicks are ruthless and talking to multiple dudes.
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If you want to make it more fun, be honest and tell them about each other.
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post 1657148643 03-01-2022, 03:58 PM
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post 1657148693 03-01-2022, 03:59 PM
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First sounds like a waste of time and if she lets you smash then go for it. Why waste time on a girl who obviously isn't into you but will be if you play stupid games?
post 1657149033 03-01-2022, 04:04 PM
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One has stuff going on and you are a 2nd or 3rd option when she is bored. Two wants something more from you. Not sure why you lied about it that is some straight up beta shyt. Just be honest and say lately you'd only been talking to her and a 30 y/o bish that wasn't particularly interesting and you were probably gonna drop her ass out of your life. When it blows up in your face you get wrecked for being a lying Timmy.
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post 1657149063 03-01-2022, 04:05 PM
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Both women are probably talking to a minimum of like 3-4 dudes at the same time. You’re still probably getting the short end of the stick here. Be ruthless.
post 1657149193 03-01-2022, 04:08 PM
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It sounds like the 30 yo isnt even worth the effort. Find a new backup chick.
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post 1657149273 03-01-2022, 04:09 PM
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Nah I believe the young one : As soon as she gets backs from work she textes me and we basically text back and forth non-stop until sleep time.

She's dedicated and wants to make it work between us whereas the first is barely investing anything.
post 1657149443 03-01-2022, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
Nah I believe the young one : As soon as she gets backs from work she textes me and we basically text back and forth non-stop until sleep time.

She's dedicated and wants to make it work between us whereas the first is barely investing anything.
this may be the case but believe me she can turn at any point and drop you, you'll be hoeless afterwards
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post 1657149633 03-01-2022, 04:16 PM
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Yeah 24 yos have a high threshold for pain / toxicity / drama. When she tries to pin you down, dodge the question
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post 1657149703 03-01-2022, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger
She's dedicated and wants to make it work between us whereas the first is barely investing anything.
Why the phuck you even paying attention to the first one then, lmao
post 1657149853 03-01-2022, 04:20 PM
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Can they both fit in your bespoke coat tho?
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post 1657149913 03-01-2022, 04:20 PM
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It's a dangerous game, only a matter of time before a woman finds out you're cheating and then they'll likely dump you and not look back. Then you can spend years reeling in pain and regret. How do I know this? 5 years of pain.
post 1657152873 03-01-2022, 05:04 PM
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do you feel guilty about posting 0 pics? negged.
post 1657152923 03-01-2022, 05:05 PM
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wtf? why?
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