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post 1657926503 03-14-2022, 12:59 PM
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Do girls not like it if they think you’re a player?

-smashed a girl this past wknd at my place
-in bed after smash we were comparing our dating app profiles cause she wanted to see how she compared to other girls
-we played a game where I would respond to one of her matches and she would respond to one of mine
-she noticed I had a bunch of dates/hookups lined up and I kinda bragged about it. Idk if she was disappointed or turned off by it but she just said “wow you’re really honest”
-text her back Sunday, just minor bs chit chat but she didn’t respond to my last msg and now I’m getting pissed cause I kinda wanna get to know this girl more seriously
-did I fk up by bragging about my matches and my future lays from dating app? Go NC until she hits me back up?

Also general question how soon do you usually hit a girl back up after smashing from the 1st date? Was Sunday too soon? We smashed Friday night so it was only 2 days
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post 1657926553 03-14-2022, 01:00 PM
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Don't go NC dude, be mature. You should tell her you want to talk to her about something, because you want to solidify the relationship a little more. Then read her that post verbatim.
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post 1657926633 03-14-2022, 01:01 PM
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You just fukked someone then showed her the line up of your next fuk buddies

And you’re wondering

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post 1657926843 03-14-2022, 01:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
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Don't go NC dude, be mature. You should tell her you want to talk to her about something, because you want to solidify the relationship a little more. Then read her that post verbatim.
Phuck I was in bed drunk idk why I bragged that’s not like me. I’m not a sleezy man whore and I really wanna get to know this girl. But I want to let her know I am really interested in her and want to see her again. I’ll just fkin say it then. Thanks repped

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post 1657926983 03-14-2022, 01:05 PM
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post 1657927013 03-14-2022, 01:06 PM
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post 1657927083 03-14-2022, 01:06 PM
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Is this song about you op


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post 1657927143 03-14-2022, 01:07 PM
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post 1657927193 03-14-2022, 01:08 PM
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Originally Posted By swolefnatic⏩
Phuck I was in bed drunk idk why I bragged that’s not like me. I’m not a sleezy man whore and I really wanna get to know this girl. But I want to let her know I am really interested in her and want to see her again. I’ll just fkin say it then. Thanks repped

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You need to simp max

Tell her that you don’t want to see any of the girls you had lined up because of her, you just want more
post 1657927223 03-14-2022, 01:08 PM
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longest cliffs ever.
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Idc either way as long as the guy is hot and tall.
didn't they ban you bro?
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post 1657927273 03-14-2022, 01:09 PM
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Cliffs of cliffs:

Op bangs broad, then brags about having future hook ups

Broad goes NC on OP. Op is mad, then asks misc what do
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post 1657927353 03-14-2022, 01:10 PM
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post 1657927563 03-14-2022, 01:13 PM
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Things not to do with a girl you want a relationship with = your OP.
post 1657927813 03-14-2022, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By swolefnatic⏩
-smashed a girl this past wknd at my place
-in bed after smash we were comparing our dating app profiles cause she wanted to see how she compared to other girls
-we played a game where I would respond to one of her matches and she would respond to one of mine
-she noticed I had a bunch of dates/hookups lined up and I kinda bragged about it. Idk if she was disappointed or turned off by it but she just said “wow you’re really honest”
-text her back Sunday, just minor bs chit chat but she didn’t respond to my last msg and now I’m getting pissed cause I kinda wanna get to know this girl more seriously
-did I fk up by bragging about my matches and my future lays from dating app? Go NC until she hits me back up?

Also general question how soon do you usually hit a girl back up after smashing from the 1st date? Was Sunday too soon? We smashed Friday night so it was only 2 days
never compare dating apps like that. doesn't matter if she initiates it, nope don't do it. you will always take an L.

never talk about anyone else. no girl wants to hear or know that you're hooking up with other broads.

be smarter.
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post 1657928083 03-14-2022, 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I requested a one month ban myself and it ended and now I’m back.
I guess when you LARP as a woman it can get to your head... I can't imagine the amount of degen you'd have to be to request a ban from the misc. Embarressing. DED SRS
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post 1657928703 03-14-2022, 01:31 PM
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A better move is to be promiscuous because that is more attractive to women. Now that you've kind of bragged, her imagination is dried up because she probably sees you as a man whore now.
post 1657928753 03-14-2022, 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted By adigiro1⏩
never compare dating apps like that. doesn't matter if she initiates it, nope don't do it. you will always take an L.

never talk about anyone else. no girl wants to hear or know that you're hooking up with other broads.

be smarter.
Thought this was common knowledge.

When you're with a gf or girl you're banging NEVER EVER bring up ex's or girls you find attractive.

There's zero benefit. Nothing good happens.
post 1657929293 03-14-2022, 01:39 PM
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Do girls like you if they think other girls like you.

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post 1657930303 03-14-2022, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You need to simp max

Tell her that you don’t want to see any of the girls you had lined up because of her, you just want more
Tell her that you can’t stop thinking about her and she’s everything you never knew you wanted
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post 1657930823 03-14-2022, 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted By IlChosenOne⏩
Tell her that you can’t stop thinking about her and she’s everything you never knew you wanted
Tell her that you couldn’t breathe until you met her
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I was in bed last night with this girl and my other girl called 15 plus times straight. Girl I was with got mad she was leaving cause I told her to then she ended up answering the girls call and said he’s with another girl rn. And hung up. She called again I answer and said I’d call you back. Girl left other girl called we FaceTimed till she fell asleep. I’ve talked to both today but girl I was with was not happy and I haven’t responded to her last text. Other girl kinda liked it lololooop
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they like it every time.
they love hearing my hookup stories and ex stories etc.
theyl say "eww" at first but then strangely seem to like it or get horny
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They do, but you need to let their imagination do all the work. If you straight up tell them then they will think you are trying to impress them and it will dry them up. Likewise if you feel the need to hide it and lie if she does see it, then it also comes off as you trying to present yourself differently which she won't like.

If you let her see the texts without commenting, feeling guilty or proud etc, then her mind would have been racing trying to figure it out and it would have been good.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You just fukked someone then showed her the line up of your next fuk buddies

And you’re wondering

God, give me strength
This. They don't like it but she'll prefer someone desirable with options/social proof to someone without. But you don't rub her face in it, dumbass lol.
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Originally Posted By swolefnatic⏩
-smashed a girl this past wknd at my place
-in bed after smash we were comparing our dating app profiles cause she wanted to see how she compared to other girls
-we played a game where I would respond to one of her matches and she would respond to one of mine
-she noticed I had a bunch of dates/hookups lined up and I kinda bragged about it. Idk if she was disappointed or turned off by it but she just said “wow you’re really honest”
-text her back Sunday, just minor bs chit chat but she didn’t respond to my last msg and now I’m getting pissed cause I kinda wanna get to know this girl more seriously
-did I fk up by bragging about my matches and my future lays from dating app?Go NC until she hits me back up?

Also general question how soon do you usually hit a girl back up after smashing from the 1st date? Was Sunday too soon? We smashed Friday night so it was only 2 days
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You just fukked someone then showed her the line up of your next fuk buddies

And you’re wondering

God, give me strength
Lmao this.

If I saw that, personally I would have thought:

Ew, I don't want to be dipping in the same pot with 20+ people
Oh my God, the STDs
He's not someone to take seriously, I'm just another face in a line

Yikes

Edit, also I guess it depends on the type of girl. I'm more of a relationship person so if I don't think you'd be serious, I'd lose interest
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