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post 1659922843 04-19-2022, 02:48 PM
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Urgent career question misc

Just received a formal job offer for $70k + Bonus at a company as a tech consultant/software dev (first job out of college) but I have a final interview coming up with a huge company that treats its employees great and overall much better career path aligned more with what I would like to do.

Do I sign the documents with the company that gave me an offer and back out of the other company gives me an offer?? I have zero white collar family members so I have no idea how this works.

I don’t believe that there will be non compete conflicts if I sign because one is a digital consultant company and the other is biotech (the one I really want)


How exactly does this work!?

Thank you
post 1659923163 04-19-2022, 02:53 PM
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Originally Posted By PShift5
Just received a formal job offer for $70k + Bonus at a company as a tech consultant/software dev (first job out of college) but I have a final interview coming up with a huge company that treats its employees great and overall much better career path aligned more with what I would like to do.

Do I sign the documents with the company that gave me an offer and back out of the other company gives me an offer?? I have zero white collar family members so I have no idea how this works.

I don’t believe that there will be non compete conflicts if I sign because one is a digital consultant company and the other is biotech (the one I really want)


How exactly does this work!?

Thank you
How long until the final interview? You can tell the company that gave the offer that you would like a few days to think about it. If it's going to be a long wait that might not work.
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post 1659923653 04-19-2022, 03:01 PM
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My name is Aaron Brand. I always thought I was doing the right thing in preparing for life. I was the first in my class in college in computer science. I joined the military and became a fighter pilot. I won many medals for distinguished service. I've always lived between this world and the other. I'm now a covert agent, Mercenary for any nation that wants to control another. I met the love of my life when I was 7, and stayed with her forever. We loved each other and we're getting married.

I joined my country's Secret Strategic Support Branch of the Defense Intelligence Agency, to fight terrorism around the world, and became the best agent they ever had. I developed a way to control any computer or satellite the government had. The fact that I became so digitally, electronically powerful scared my government as well as others. It was that power that caused them to assassinate my fiance, and break my heart forever. It caused me to re-evaluate what I was doing for my country, and that maybe, other countries would be interested in my services.

After all, I controlled access to the national geospatial intelligence agency. I control access to anything and everything, even from my little simple, brilliant setup. My girlfriend and I always wanted to have children, and now all of that's been taken away from me. I work as a freelance agent now for many countries, making millions of dollars on many various covert assignments. I've been giving away the money to children's support charities all over the world. Orphanages, hospitals and schools and to support the evacuees of natural catastrophes all over the world like hurricanes. Like Katrina. I can do better for them than most mismanaged and dishonest governments can. My orders from another country are to shut down the Las Vegas strip. For two months.
post 1659929973 04-19-2022, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted By kcadrenalin
How long until the final interview? You can tell the company that gave the offer that you would like a few days to think about it. If it's going to be a long wait that might not work.
Congrats either way.
Thank you, it should be done by next Monday as the range of dates I gave was from tomorrow to Monday. I was concerned about telling them I want to wait because idk if they have other options if I take to long
post 1659930033 04-19-2022, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Congrats

Just tell them you are considering some other opportunities but will let them know within a week or however much time you have.

Also you prob won’t sign any contracts. It’s prob just at will employment so no contract and you can quit any time and they can fire you any time.
Yep it’s at will but I still think they make you sign contracts he said I have some papers that I have to sign. And the document that I just went through said I may have to sign non compete stuff

Thank you
post 1659930073 04-19-2022, 04:52 PM
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How did you get past the great firewall OP?
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I wouldn’t lie to them but I wouldn’t show them your hand either and I wouldn’t sabotage yourself.

Accept the job and move forward with it, if you get the other job just be straight up and say your really sorry but an opportunity came by you can’t pass up and you regret wasting their time. Then never ever reference them !
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I'd accept and then go through the interview process with the other. If the other offers more, tell the first employer you got the China virus and died.

Cheers.
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Congrats boyo

I would try to counter offer and see if you can get some more money and buy yourself some more time.

I was in this exact same situation a few weeks ago (albeit I have 10+ years experience. Asked for more money, completed the final round at the second firm while they updated paperwork. The 2nd company ended up not offering me, so I was able to get more from the first company and accepted right afterwards.

They should be able to give you a few days to review the written offer, and then like around Thursday/Friday I would ask if they can negotiate once you've had a few days to review. Tell the first firm you are expecting offer elsewhere, and tell 2nd firm you have an offer at the first. It will help you speed up the process.
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post 1659930373 04-19-2022, 04:58 PM
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Good job boyo dedfknsrs.

I was in a sort of similar situation 2 weeks ago. I got hired as an NOC Engineer for a F200 company as first post university job, but I was also interviewing at GS for a Frontend Engineer role and got notification that I passed the first hackerrank assessment and moved on to stage 2 of 3. Stage 2 seemed like a gimme(automated video interview), but Stage 3 was the final boss with a 4-5 hour interview with 4 different people. I personally felt like I wasn't ready for that, so I just thanked the recruiter and said that I took a position elsewhere.

That way I leave on a good note, and if I am interested after I get that crucial 1st year of experience, I can go back since I'm going to be leetcoding my ass off in the next year in my free time anyway.

Good job boyo. Whatever you choose will be a solid decision I'm sure. Best of luck in whatever you end up doing.
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post 1659930433 04-19-2022, 05:00 PM
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How did you get past the great firewall OP?
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Call the other company and tell them that you got an offer but you would like to be with them, instead. See what they say. If they don’t give you an offer right off the bat, take the initial offer from the other company. You’re still young. $70K is a lot of money out of college. That is what I would do, though. Call the other company. If they really want you then they will extend an offer, as well.

For your time:

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Originally Posted By PShift5
Yep it’s at will but I still think they make you sign contracts he said I have some papers that I have to sign. And the document that I just went through said I may have to sign non compete stuff

Thank you
The last time this happened to me I received an offer and asked for all the benefits and out of pocket expenses, to evaluate the entire compensation package. That bought me a week and a half to interview with another company. I told the other company that I had an offer waiting for a response and requested they speed up their interview process for me and then they also made me an offer. I told the previous company that I was evaluating another offer and needed another week to decide and I decided on the second offer.

Most companies will understand it takes time to accept an offer and that there may be competing offers. Just don't make them wait too long and do not decline an offer without another offer in hand, unless you currently have a good job and just looking for the best one.

$70K out of college is pretty good homie.
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post 1659931883 04-19-2022, 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted By roko79
Congrats boyo

I would try to counter offer and see if you can get some more money and buy yourself some more time.

I was in this exact same situation a few weeks ago (albeit I have 10+ years experience. Asked for more money, completed the final round at the second firm while they updated paperwork. The 2nd company ended up not offering me, so I was able to get more from the first company and accepted right afterwards.

They should be able to give you a few days to review the written offer, and then like around Thursday/Friday I would ask if they can negotiate once you've had a few days to review. Tell the first firm you are expecting offer elsewhere, and tell 2nd firm you have an offer at the first. It will help you speed up the process.
I honestly think that is a great plan for someone with a lot of experience but as a new college grad with zero experience I am very hesitant to do something like that lol
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Originally Posted By PShift5
Yep it’s at will but I still think they make you sign contracts he said I have some papers that I have to sign. And the document that I just went through said I may have to sign non compete stuff

Thank you
Don't sign a non-compete for your first job offer out of college.
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Originally Posted By JeffPesos
Good job boyo dedfknsrs.

I was in a sort of similar situation 2 weeks ago. I got hired as an NOC Engineer for a F200 company as first post university job, but I was also interviewing at GS for a Frontend Engineer role and got notification that I passed the first hackerrank assessment and moved on to stage 2 of 3. Stage 2 seemed like a gimme(automated video interview), but Stage 3 was the final boss with a 4-5 hour interview with 4 different people. I personally felt like I wasn't ready for that, so I just thanked the recruiter and said that I took a position elsewhere.

That way I leave on a good note, and if I am interested after I get that crucial 1st year of experience, I can go back since I'm going to be leetcoding my ass off in the next year in my free time anyway.

Good job boyo. Whatever you choose will be a solid decision I'm sure. Best of luck in whatever you end up doing.
Funny you did that with the 5 hour interview I did the same thing with another company in the final round lol, it was for a position I didn’t really want and I had schoolwork to do so I was like wtf I’m not able to prepare for that. I’m gonna be doing the leetcode stuff too while I work gotta increase the stock need big checks!!
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
The last time this happened to me I received an offer and asked for all the benefits and out of pocket expenses, to evaluate the entire compensation package. That bought me a week and a half to interview with another company. I told the other company that I had an offer waiting for a response and requested they speed up their interview process for me and then they also made me an offer. I told the previous company that I was evaluating another offer and needed another week to decide and I decided on the second offer.

Most companies will understand it takes time to accept an offer and that there may be competing offers. Just don't make them wait too long and do not decline an offer without another offer in hand, unless you currently have a good job and just looking for the best one.

$70K out of college is pretty good homie.
Also this is the best advice so far ITT.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
The last time this happened to me I received an offer and asked for all the benefits and out of pocket expenses, to evaluate the entire compensation package. That bought me a week and a half to interview with another company. I told the other company that I had an offer waiting for a response and requested they speed up their interview process for me and then they also made me an offer. I told the previous company that I was evaluating another offer and needed another week to decide and I decided on the second offer.

Most companies will understand it takes time to accept an offer and that there may be competing offers. Just don't make them wait too long and do not decline an offer without another offer in hand, unless you currently have a good job and just looking for the best one.

$70K out of college is pretty good homie.
I would feel more confident telling a company to speed things up if I had 5 years experience lol but as a new grad I am extremely hesitant to do what the big boys in industry do, I will do that in the future for sure tho lol
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Originally Posted By friesbruh
Yes, you sign those documents and plan to start the $70k job as if no other job exists rn

If and when another one comes thru, either start that one before your first offer or leave your first job early for it, no notice no fukcs given SRS
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How did you get past the great firewall OP?
ForumAdmin gave the ok
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ForumAdmin gave the ok
lmfao ok memcop

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Originally Posted By AlexxVann
Don't sign a non-compete for your first job offer out of college.
I might not have a choice tho my moms kicking me out I’m getting old now lol
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra
Memcop can barely read. I'd imagine his math skills are on the same level.

Memcop programming? LOL.

OP is not a memcop alt, LOL.
Why does memcop have to know how to program to run an alt account?

OP is memcop until proven otherwise.
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