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post 1660182143 04-24-2022, 10:40 AM
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How should I respond to this girl?

She messaged me this a day after



She isn’t wrong in that I don’t see anything long term but I still wanna smash. We only went for a coffee in the morning so not exactly the ideal place to build sexual tension. Can I salvage this or is nc the only option?
post 1660182323 04-24-2022, 10:44 AM
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nice pics
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post 1660182523 04-24-2022, 10:48 AM
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No man thats done.
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post 1660182573 04-24-2022, 10:51 AM
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tell her you have no problem fukking a friend
post 1660182643 04-24-2022, 10:52 AM
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Learn from it and onto the next one.

Remember to be more sexually aggressive going forward.
post 1660182753 04-24-2022, 10:54 AM
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post 1660182823 04-24-2022, 10:56 AM
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post 1660182833 04-24-2022, 10:57 AM
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Tell her you don’t feel anything because you’re a robot
post 1660182883 04-24-2022, 10:58 AM
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Your best bet is to say something like

'If by friendly you mean friends with benefits then sure - I'm not after anything serious'

You have nothing to lose at this stage
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post 1660183243 04-24-2022, 11:06 AM
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Say nothing at all. NC and move on.
post 1660183353 04-24-2022, 11:09 AM
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Done. I got friend zoned by a girl last summer after 4 dates. After she said that , we just stopped talking.

It's more than likely a way to say " i'm not interested" but odd she would message first after the meeting .
post 1660183443 04-24-2022, 11:11 AM
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Or if you actually liked her say " i'm not looking for friends , i'm looking to date "

And leave it at that
post 1660183843 04-24-2022, 11:19 AM
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Don't go on a coffee date in the daytime if you're trying to SMASH. We aren't wired that way. The day is for productivity, the night is for partying and celebrating that productivity, and that includes smashing. You just need to frame it right.
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post 1660184033 04-24-2022, 11:23 AM
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Tell her that you would like to date her, NOT be friends. If she still says you two should be friends, delete her number, and don't contact again.
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post 1660184423 04-24-2022, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted By MyBaddBrah⏩
Don't go on a coffee date in the daytime if you're trying to SMASH. We aren't wired that way. The day is for productivity, the night is for partying and celebrating that productivity, and that includes smashing. You just need to frame it right.
agreed man but it was her idea. Bar with some kind of game (pool, ping pong, darts) is the goat.

Im guessing the deal breaker was that she came across as religious/being involved in church and could tell that stuff wasn’t important to me.
post 1660184483 04-24-2022, 11:31 AM
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Some women just go on dates to get free food. Don't fall for their tricks
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