One night I was going to go down on her, so she washed her bits before she came in the bedroom and she laid on my bed. I was about a few inches from her face when I noticed a foul smell that I can best describe asstale urine, cheesy, and a bit like feces.

I've heard ofpost op mtf smells, but I've read most people saying that they go away quickly after transition. Anyway, I backed away because I was so put off by that smell. She kept asking what's wrong and I finally broke down and told her what's wrong.

She was confused and kept smelling herself saying she didn't smell anything. She said she just washed it too.It's been a fight between me and her and she's self conscious about it. I asked if it could be an infection or her hygiene habits, lifestyle, or diet because I know those things can affect the smell of the vagina.

She told me that's just the way her vagina and all vaginas smell. She told me it didn't smell like what I described it as and it just smelled like vagina.I tried asking my mother about what it could be and she couldn't give me any answers because she's not informed on this topic. I tried asking my gay cousin but she didn't have any answers either.

I was wondering if anyone in here could give me some advice on this? Do transgender women just have a different smell down there than cis women? Is that just her natural smell? If so, what can I do to get used to the smell?