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post 1662314963 06-03-2022, 06:53 PM
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How do I tell a loyal woman to lose weight without sounding like a dick

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post 1662315013 06-03-2022, 06:54 PM
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If your dick game is good enough she will wanna loose weight to stay with you
post 1662315053 06-03-2022, 06:55 PM
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Buy her a nice piece of clothing that is too small.
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post 1662315073 06-03-2022, 06:55 PM
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Ask her if she has thyroid issues.
post 1662315143 06-03-2022, 06:57 PM
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Spoiler!
you can't
post 1662316133 06-03-2022, 07:18 PM
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They'll hate you for it regardless of how you say it/frame it.

If it makes you feel any better, even if she did lose significant weight, odds are she'd end up cucking you and leaving you to hop on other schlongs after experience all the extra attention she starts getting from it. So might as well just accept your fate of continuing to pork a fat chick, or save yourself some time and just move on without mentioning it to her at all.
post 1662316173 06-03-2022, 07:19 PM
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Whether you tell her or not won't make any difference to whether or not she loses weight.
post 1662316583 06-03-2022, 07:32 PM
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“You’re looking kind of fat.”
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
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post 1662316803 06-03-2022, 07:37 PM
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do it the same way women would get you to do something you otherwise wouldn't want to do. Nag/coax her into joining you at the gym and say you want to spend more time with her at the gym (lol) and work on getting more healthy foods in your house so she has little choice but to eat what you prepare. It'll happen right under her nose and she won't see it until it's too late.
post 1662316853 06-03-2022, 07:38 PM
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You can’t

Abort mission immediately srs


Speaking from experience
post 1662316983 06-03-2022, 07:42 PM
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post 1662317003 06-03-2022, 07:43 PM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7
They'll hate you for it regardless of how you say it/frame it.

If it makes you feel any better, even if she did lose significant weight, odds are she'd end up cucking you and leaving you to hop on other schlongs after experience all the extra attention she starts getting from it. So might as well just accept your fate of continuing to pork a fat chick, or save yourself some time and just move on without mentioning it to her at all.
= Misc relationship advice..

Sadly enough that’s a 50/50 still.
post 1662317253 06-03-2022, 07:50 PM
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Always offer to make her a salad with a glass of water.
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post 1662317353 06-03-2022, 07:53 PM
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“You’re really pretty for a plus-sized girl.”
post 1662317363 06-03-2022, 07:53 PM
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When they ask your opinion, you keep it real
post 1662318643 06-03-2022, 08:17 PM
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You can’t. You’re going to look like a dick no matter how you phrase it.
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post 1662318803 06-03-2022, 08:21 PM
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How overweight is she?
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post 1662318893 06-03-2022, 08:23 PM
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Damn im so conflicted she has a 9/10 personality and is very loyal sweet submissive etc. She's in med school and a really good student. She's 5'9 so the same height as me which is good for my children not being manlets. She doesn't take many selfies just like me.



Went on a date and spent some alone time together last night. And she was blowing up my phone as I left. She tells me I can call or message her anytime. But to be honest I've been messaging her less recently trying to cope with the fact that she looks 200 now.
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post 1662318913 06-03-2022, 08:23 PM
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"Listen here bitch; you need to lose weight and that's the way it's going to be and that's the end of it"
Would kick em in the nuts
post 1662319023 06-03-2022, 08:27 PM
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Originally Posted By M0nkeyPrick
Damn im so conflicted she has a 9/10 personality and is very loyal sweet submissive etc. She's in med school and a really good student. She's 5'9 so the same height as me which is good for my children not being manlets. She doesn't take many selfies just like me.



Went on a date and spent some alone time together last night. And she was blowing up my phone as I left. She tells me I can call or message her anytime. But to be honest I've been messaging her less recently trying to cope with the fact that she looks 200 now.
200? So she’s the weight of an adult male heavyweight boxer.

If she’s that much of a fridge, you need to do something about it. Bite the bullet and tell her, or leave her, or say nothing and build up resentment.
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post 1662319083 06-03-2022, 08:28 PM
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Are you LARPing as carsalesman posting about his Bulgarian sloot?

Pics would also help evaluate.
post 1662319153 06-03-2022, 08:30 PM
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Tell her its for health issues.
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post 1662319283 06-03-2022, 08:32 PM
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Originally Posted By gwg77
Start giving her ******** everyday and tell her to deep clean the house while she's geeked out.
Lol
post 1662319293 06-03-2022, 08:32 PM
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1) You dun goofed by getting with a future fatty. Unless of course she's fat after being preggo or something like that. You can usually spot a future fatty based on their eating habits and activities/hobbies.

2) Tell her how it is. You're losing attraction towards her physically but you still love her. She needs to put an effort into herself to continue to satisfy you. If she won't do it for herself, do it for you.
post 1662319403 06-03-2022, 08:35 PM
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A girl one asked me if I yhink she's fat (she thought she was fat) cos I couldn't stay hard 50% of the time with her

She wasn't fat but she was a little chub and she had 0 muscle- so was ubet skinny fat

I said to her jo you're not but you should try and gain sorm muscle as that would improve your physique. She took it but probably hated me after

She didn't go to gym , obviously
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post 1662319493 06-03-2022, 08:36 PM
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post 1662319613 06-03-2022, 08:39 PM
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Can't you just slap the food out of her hand when she tries to eat it? Or has she gotten so big you're scared she'll eat you if you try it?
post 1662319673 06-03-2022, 08:42 PM
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If she loves you just tell her she’s fat then walk away. She will be hurt at first but will join a gym afterwords ded fkn srs
post 1662319753 06-03-2022, 08:43 PM
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She’s going to get even bigger if you become exclusive. If she’s cruising at 200 while single, she’s going to get comfortable in the relationship and just go full send.

Look, there are a lot of very nice bigger girls. Many of them are a whole lot more fun to be around than hot girls because they actually have to develop a personality, but at the end of the day, you should be physically attracted to someone you’re going to be physical with. There’s nothing stopping you from just being her good friend.
post 1662319833 06-03-2022, 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted By M0nkeyPrick
Damn im so conflicted she has a 9/10 personality and is very loyal sweet submissive etc. She's in med school and a really good student. She's 5'9 so the same height as me which is good for my children not being manlets. She doesn't take many selfies just like me.

Went on a date and spent some alone time together last night. And she was blowing up my phone as I left. She tells me I can call or message her anytime. But to be honest I've been messaging her less recently trying to cope with the fact that she looks 200 now.
So she's gained weight while you've been together? Or was she always big?
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