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post 1662382373 06-05-2022, 01:07 PM
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Being known as the "nice guy" is a terrible compliment

Basically means you're boring with no personality.

Discuss.
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post 1662382443 06-05-2022, 01:09 PM
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post 1662382453 06-05-2022, 01:09 PM
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post 1662382693 06-05-2022, 01:14 PM
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Nice is honestly not the right ideal. You can when possible only after taking care of things.

Most do not know what they're talking about and just mean something idiotic if trying to call you "nice."
post 1662382823 06-05-2022, 01:17 PM
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"lovable as*hole" is what you should be striving for.
post 1662383013 06-05-2022, 01:21 PM
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Context here would matter because "nice" is a pretty vague/broad term.
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idk. i think it still could go along with hed throw me against the wall and ravage my butthole

if it's that, you're golden
post 1662383923 06-05-2022, 01:47 PM
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I usually get "very smart" and i always feel its sarcastic
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post 1662384083 06-05-2022, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Ravishing_Rick
I usually get "very smart" and i always feel its sarcastic
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post 1662386903 06-05-2022, 03:02 PM
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From my experience, Asian women (from Asia) really like nice guys. You see it in anime all the time; the hero is always admired by the women because he is very nice/kind to them.
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post 1662387123 06-05-2022, 03:10 PM
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Yea agree. You never want this to be your main descriptor. 100% guarantees people view you as soft and have no respect for you. Note that is different than someone saying “is OP nice?” And responding “yes”.


You don’t want your niceness to define you.


Be known as funny, smart, hot, witty, sharp, attractive, assertive, etc but being known as “oh he’s nice” should be considered an insult because it is



Tbh only main descriptor worse than nice might be “short” and “bald”.

Also it’s far better to be described a douche bag or jerk than nice. If someone calls you a douche it means that they have a measurable reaction to you. Even if negative, this means you have power in that dynamic. For if you had zero power they would not care in the least about you (aka “nice”). If a girl calls you a douche she 100% wants to sleep with you. If a girl calls you nice she 100% will never sleep with you.

Similarly if a guy calls you a douche or a tool he is at some level intimidated by you. If a guy calls you nice he doesn’t view you as a threat
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"Sweet guy" is a variation of this that I hear girls give to guys more often than nice these days. They try to intentionally stay away from nice because everyone knows it's bad and thought replacing with sweet was better despite being equally as recognizable as being totally f*cked lmao
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Originally Posted By Shortfuze
From my experience, Asian women (from Asia) really like nice guys. You see it in anime all the time; the hero is always admired by the women because he is very nice/kind to them.
They don't mean it the way players mean it. They mean something like mature, the way strong guys do not overreact to minor offenses. They do not want a nice hippie. They want a soldier who holds the door for them. I think they assume a civilized baseline places like the US do not, so they do not think of the sigma cowboy strength as a special trait.
post 1662387853 06-05-2022, 03:27 PM
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Yeah nice guy basically means helpful eunuch.
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very nice, very evil
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Pretty sure everybody at work thinks I am a square because I don't talk about drinking or watching Netflix SRS.

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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
"Sweet guy" is a variation of this that I hear girls give to guys more often than nice these days. They try to intentionally stay away from nice because everyone knows it's bad and thought replacing with sweet was better despite being equally as recognizable as being totally f*cked lmao
if she calls you sweet, just call her a whore.

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Yeah..
and the guy she describes as "crazy" or "a$$hole" is the guy she actually fuks/ wants to fuk
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Yeah..
and the guy she describes as "crazy" or "a$$hole" is the guy she actually fuks/ wants to fuk
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean
Yea agree. You never want this to be your main descriptor. 100% guarantees people view you as soft and have no respect for you. Note that is different than someone saying “is OP nice?” And responding “yes”.


You don’t want your niceness to define you.


Be known as funny, smart, hot, witty, sharp, attractive, assertive, etc but being known as “oh he’s nice” should be considered an insult because it is



Tbh only main descriptor worse than nice might be “short” and “bald”.

Also it’s far better to be described a douche bag or jerk than nice. If someone calls you a douche it means that they have a measurable reaction to you. Even if negative, this means you have power in that dynamic. For if you had zero power they would not care in the least about you (aka “nice”). If a girl calls you a douche she 100% wants to sleep with you. If a girl calls you nice she 100% will never sleep with you.

Similarly if a guy calls you a douche or a tool he is at some level intimidated by you. If a guy calls you nice he doesn’t view you as a threat
This is some real deep bro logic and I agree with it
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Originally Posted By Amp30
Basically means you're boring with no personality.

Discuss.
It's not.

We live in a culture where people "LARP" as badasses and then get worn out from substance abuse, stupid relationships, then get fat, and don't leave the house until death. After they are dead all the kids they had don't miss them and are kinda glad they're dead.

Meanwhile, a "nice guy" keeps doing positive things and isn't leaving a trail of unnecessary destruction behind.
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You're a real nice guy OP for making this thread
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There's a difference between being a nice person, and a "nice guy" who is only nice to impress women.
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Originally Posted By TomWanks
Yeah nice guy basically means helpful eunuch.
Lol fuk
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Originally Posted By Fang2
There's a difference between being a nice person, and a "nice guy" who is only nice to impress women.
That's called being "obsequious" which is gross and obnoxious type of person.
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian
That's called being "obsequious" which is gross and obnoxious type of person.
what's fairly interesting is i'd call guys being a di*k for the sake of poosy obsequious too. like if you're putting on a persona solely for girls; it's the same thing but being obsequious in a different way for the same goal

if your girl pulls some chit, calling her out on it isn't really being a d*ck. and then at the same time doing so doesn't mean you can't take care of her and do other chit for her either.. that would prob be being a nice person

then the "obsequious" person either is a dic* or a "nice guy" in hopes of getting poosy
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