Women interact with pretense far more than dudes

>Meet hot Girl on Tinder
>She's flirtatious but is obviously 'negging' (put downs or 'sh!t tests')
>Invites me over to her place for sex etc
>She still relentlessly keeps the whole neg/sh!t test dynamic going on Whatsapp

Does this end? Is there a way to explain that this is annoying without giving her the cold shoulder? I knew about the concept from all the redpills I consumed years ago but I honestly found things got way easier for me when I dropped the 'game' pretenses completely and just basically talked to girls normally. But there's obviously an element of truth to the idea they're always testing you. I feel like I'll know I found the one if I find one who doesnotdo this crap.

Even the ones who seem normal or down to earth at first always start doing this crap if you start vibing together. It's boring to a point where I understand why some dudes just stay alone and do hobbies.
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