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post 1663654373 06-29-2022, 08:08 PM
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Worth having casual relationships in your mid 30s?

Specifically with girls in their early 20s.

I went to a music festival last weekend with a group of girls who were all in late teens and early 20s. The guys involved were late 20s and mid 30s. The group of girls are a lot of fun, and like to party and do a lot of drugs. I definitely need a group like this, as I've kinda been focusing on work a lot lately at the expense of friendships, and this group seems like a solid social environment for the rest of Summer and maybe Fall.

Now obviously I'm probably not going to form any strong relationships with these girls, as they're 15/16 years younger and likely not looking for anything serious. And I'm also not likely looking for anything serious with a girl who likes to do drugs at the age of 19 or 21.

My question is..... Am I crazy for entertaining this group? Should I only be looking for normal relationships at this age with decent girls? If I drag my party phase into my 40s in a few years, am I absolutely fuked in terms of finding a decent mate?

Please let me know, MISC.
post 1663654523 06-29-2022, 08:12 PM
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Doesn’t sound good bruh. High chance of getting me too’ed, which for some, is code for regret.

Find you a good church girl or join a PAID dating site. If you’re in your mid thirties, the pieces of your life should be coming together (job, finances, wife, kids, etc). I wouldn’t procrastinate that chit…too many women do that and meet the wall before they ‘get serious.’ There’s a wall for men too…don’t be fooled. It’s just a tad later than women…
post 1663654573 06-29-2022, 08:14 PM
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Originally Posted By TallTigerTwo
Doesn’t sound good bruh. High chance of getting me too’ed, which for some, is code for regret.

Find you a good church girl or join a PAID dating site. If you’re in your mid thirties, the pieces of your life should be coming together (job, finances, wife, kids, etc). I wouldn’t procrastinate that chit…too many women do that and meet the wall before they ‘get serious.’ There’s a wall for men too…don’t be fooled. It’s just a tad later than women…
Nah, there's no chance of MeToo. We camped at a festival last weekend, and every one of these girls had sex. One had three different guys, and she also wanted me to hit it but I said no.

I agree there's definitely a wall for men, but luckily I have a good hairline still and no gray hair. Getting back into great shape now, so I'm still a few years from hitting the wall.
post 1663654673 06-29-2022, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
Nah, there's no chance of MeToo. We camped at a festival last weekend, and every one of these girls had sex. One had three different guys, and she also wanted me to hit it but I said no.
Until dad finds out and she says she didn’t want to but you forced yourself on her.

Suit yourself. Either way, doesn’t sound like what a mid thirties bruh should be doing…but you do you…
post 1663654733 06-29-2022, 08:17 PM
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1st reply is a ****get. This is misc bro. Fuk those young sloots while it's still easy. When you're 40+ it's not as easy.
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post 1663654833 06-29-2022, 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted By TallTigerTwo
Until dad finds out and she says she didn’t want to but you forced yourself on her.

Suit yourself. Either way, doesn’t sound like what a mid thirties bruh should be doing…but you do you…
These are independent girls living on their own at 19. If they were living at home, I wouldn't likely mess with them. Although they party, they're way more mature than I was at 19. I thought they were like 22-23 at first.
post 1663654883 06-29-2022, 08:21 PM
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No you shouldn’t do drugs and bang 20 year olds




The fuk kind of question is this
post 1663655053 06-29-2022, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted By pengh
1st reply is a ****get. This is misc bro. Fuk those young sloots while it's still easy. When you're 40+ it's not as easy.
Don’t know what I was thinking…listen to this ****** who has never seen/touched a woman in real life. Just noticing no “srs” tag from the OP.
post 1663655093 06-29-2022, 08:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Destor
No you shouldn’t do drugs and bang 20 year olds




The fuk kind of question is this
I generally follow the "1/2 my age + 7" theory with girls. Anytime there's an opportunity to go below the threshold, I feel obligated to go for it, as this is significantly rewriting the laws of nature.
post 1663655113 06-29-2022, 08:25 PM
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Do what you want.

If you wanna bang many different chicks, then go for it.

If you want something more srs, then find a good girl and settle.

It shouldnt be hard to find quality girls in your 40s Lol.

If you struggle to find good ones in your country, you can always go to South America or Eastern Europe. No reason to settle for a mediocre looking girl with a chit personality unless you are 50+ with a beer belly.
post 1663655313 06-29-2022, 08:30 PM
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Anything is better than incel
post 1663655393 06-29-2022, 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Anything is better than incel
Lol, while not a true incel, I def felt like one for about the last 4 months. Still have already banged like 6 girls this year though, so not too bad.
post 1663655483 06-29-2022, 08:35 PM
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You’re asking the misc but you know what the answer is

Do it phaqqot
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post 1663655553 06-29-2022, 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Anything is better than incel
This.

Would you rather hang out with 20yo rave sloots or 40yo Indian software engineers? Literally any non-ghey man can give you that answer.
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