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06-29-2022, 08:08 PM
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Worth having casual relationships in your mid 30s?
Specifically with girls in their early 20s.
I went to a music festival last weekend with a group of girls who were all in late teens and early 20s. The guys involved were late 20s and mid 30s. The group of girls are a lot of fun, and like to party and do a lot of drugs. I definitely need a group like this, as I've kinda been focusing on work a lot lately at the expense of friendships, and this group seems like a solid social environment for the rest of Summer and maybe Fall.
Now obviously I'm probably not going to form any strong relationships with these girls, as they're 15/16 years younger and likely not looking for anything serious. And I'm also not likely looking for anything serious with a girl who likes to do drugs at the age of 19 or 21.
My question is..... Am I crazy for entertaining this group? Should I only be looking for normal relationships at this age with decent girls? If I drag my party phase into my 40s in a few years, am I absolutely fuked in terms of finding a decent mate?
Please let me know, MISC.
I went to a music festival last weekend with a group of girls who were all in late teens and early 20s. The guys involved were late 20s and mid 30s. The group of girls are a lot of fun, and like to party and do a lot of drugs. I definitely need a group like this, as I've kinda been focusing on work a lot lately at the expense of friendships, and this group seems like a solid social environment for the rest of Summer and maybe Fall.
Now obviously I'm probably not going to form any strong relationships with these girls, as they're 15/16 years younger and likely not looking for anything serious. And I'm also not likely looking for anything serious with a girl who likes to do drugs at the age of 19 or 21.
My question is..... Am I crazy for entertaining this group? Should I only be looking for normal relationships at this age with decent girls? If I drag my party phase into my 40s in a few years, am I absolutely fuked in terms of finding a decent mate?
Please let me know, MISC.
06-29-2022, 08:12 PM
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Doesn’t sound good bruh. High chance of getting me too’ed, which for some, is code for regret.
Find you a good church girl or join a PAID dating site. If you’re in your mid thirties, the pieces of your life should be coming together (job, finances, wife, kids, etc). I wouldn’t procrastinate that chit…too many women do that and meet the wall before they ‘get serious.’ There’s a wall for men too…don’t be fooled. It’s just a tad later than women…
Find you a good church girl or join a PAID dating site. If you’re in your mid thirties, the pieces of your life should be coming together (job, finances, wife, kids, etc). I wouldn’t procrastinate that chit…too many women do that and meet the wall before they ‘get serious.’ There’s a wall for men too…don’t be fooled. It’s just a tad later than women…
06-29-2022, 08:14 PM
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Originally Posted By TallTigerTwo⏩
Nah, there's no chance of MeToo. We camped at a festival last weekend, and every one of these girls had sex. One had three different guys, and she also wanted me to hit it but I said no.Doesn’t sound good bruh. High chance of getting me too’ed, which for some, is code for regret.
Find you a good church girl or join a PAID dating site. If you’re in your mid thirties, the pieces of your life should be coming together (job, finances, wife, kids, etc). I wouldn’t procrastinate that chit…too many women do that and meet the wall before they ‘get serious.’ There’s a wall for men too…don’t be fooled. It’s just a tad later than women…
Find you a good church girl or join a PAID dating site. If you’re in your mid thirties, the pieces of your life should be coming together (job, finances, wife, kids, etc). I wouldn’t procrastinate that chit…too many women do that and meet the wall before they ‘get serious.’ There’s a wall for men too…don’t be fooled. It’s just a tad later than women…
I agree there's definitely a wall for men, but luckily I have a good hairline still and no gray hair. Getting back into great shape now, so I'm still a few years from hitting the wall.
06-29-2022, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Until dad finds out and she says she didn’t want to but you forced yourself on her.Nah, there's no chance of MeToo. We camped at a festival last weekend, and every one of these girls had sex. One had three different guys, and she also wanted me to hit it but I said no.
Suit yourself. Either way, doesn’t sound like what a mid thirties bruh should be doing…but you do you…
06-29-2022, 08:17 PM
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06-29-2022, 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted By TallTigerTwo⏩
These are independent girls living on their own at 19. If they were living at home, I wouldn't likely mess with them. Although they party, they're way more mature than I was at 19. I thought they were like 22-23 at first.Until dad finds out and she says she didn’t want to but you forced yourself on her.
Suit yourself. Either way, doesn’t sound like what a mid thirties bruh should be doing…but you do you…
Suit yourself. Either way, doesn’t sound like what a mid thirties bruh should be doing…but you do you…
06-29-2022, 08:21 PM
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06-29-2022, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted By pengh⏩
Don’t know what I was thinking…listen to this ****** who has never seen/touched a woman in real life. Just noticing no “srs” tag from the OP.1st reply is a ****get. This is misc bro. Fuk those young sloots while it's still easy. When you're 40+ it's not as easy.
06-29-2022, 08:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Destor⏩
I generally follow the "1/2 my age + 7" theory with girls. Anytime there's an opportunity to go below the threshold, I feel obligated to go for it, as this is significantly rewriting the laws of nature.No you shouldn’t do drugs and bang 20 year olds
The fuk kind of question is this
The fuk kind of question is this
06-29-2022, 08:25 PM
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Do what you want.
If you wanna bang many different chicks, then go for it.
If you want something more srs, then find a good girl and settle.
It shouldnt be hard to find quality girls in your 40s Lol.
If you struggle to find good ones in your country, you can always go to South America or Eastern Europe. No reason to settle for a mediocre looking girl with a chit personality unless you are 50+ with a beer belly.
If you wanna bang many different chicks, then go for it.
If you want something more srs, then find a good girl and settle.
It shouldnt be hard to find quality girls in your 40s Lol.
If you struggle to find good ones in your country, you can always go to South America or Eastern Europe. No reason to settle for a mediocre looking girl with a chit personality unless you are 50+ with a beer belly.
06-29-2022, 08:30 PM
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Anything is better than incel
06-29-2022, 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Lol, while not a true incel, I def felt like one for about the last 4 months. Still have already banged like 6 girls this year though, so not too bad.Anything is better than incel
06-29-2022, 08:35 PM
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You’re asking the misc but you know what the answer is
Do it phaqqot
Do it phaqqot
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06-29-2022, 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
This.Anything is better than incel
Would you rather hang out with 20yo rave sloots or 40yo Indian software engineers? Literally any non-ghey man can give you that answer.
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