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post 1665158943 07-28-2022, 11:48 PM
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Anyone not get along with their siblings?

Never got along with my brother, never hung out, we fight, I have a ****ty attitude towards him.

anyone else
post 1665159053 07-28-2022, 11:53 PM
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Yep. I've got five siblings. Do not talk to any of them.
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post 1665159083 07-28-2022, 11:55 PM
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Originally Posted By friesbruh⏩
pretty much.

real brother is a borderline sociopath (just like mom ded fkn srs)

two step brothers, well my real dad treats them better than he treats me and he kisses my stepmoms *** so seeing them get treated veen better doesnt really help the situation.

brb literally everything has 100% always been my fault if there was any beef between step brothers or with step mom, which now makes me think he just put the blame on me and my real bro just to get in good with the step mom.
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Yep. I've got five siblings. Do not talk to any of them.
How come?
post 1665159173 07-28-2022, 11:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Nonsense916⏩
You come off as a huge ****git I’m not suprisede
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Originally Posted By Skeptical_Hippo⏩
How come?
I'm the youngest kid. I'm also the only one who did jack chit for our parents as they got older. I was traveling 500 miles round trip twice a month to visit them and help out. None of my siblings had even seen them in years.

Lost my dad last year and I had to plan the funeral and support my mom through the whole thing alone. Took over all her finances afterward and had to move her into our neighborhood. Obviously in all of that, she decided I would be the trustee/executor for the estate. That was blasphemy to some of the other kids who expected to get blank checks when my mom dies. Ruined their retirement plans, basically.
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post 1665159283 07-29-2022, 12:02 AM
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
I'm the youngest kid. I'm also the only one who did jack chit for our parents as they got older. I was traveling 500 miles round trip twice a month to visit them and help out. None of my siblings had even seen them in years.

Lost my dad last year and I had to plan the funeral and support my mom through the whole thing alone. Took over all her finances afterward and had to move her into our neighborhood. Obviously in all of that, she decided I would be the trustee/executor for the estate. That was blasphemy to some of the other kids who expected to get blank checks when my mom dies. Ruined their retirement plans, basically.
Damn thats some real chit, my brother is just a temperamental a$$hole.
post 1665159433 07-29-2022, 12:11 AM
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Remarried parents and sisters, so it is over for them. Women are not mentally strong enough to autism their way out of such unfavorable households (mother siding with some grifter loser and father siding with desperate cheater).


The talentless, classless illegitimate relatives of the new partners (both parents traded lightyears down) are more trouble than diseased, rabid animals to virtually any social institution, so I moved away and view the whole group as less than human.
post 1665159703 07-29-2022, 12:26 AM
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No siblings but I haven't spoke with any of my aunts or uncles since the mid 90's.
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post 1665160073 07-29-2022, 12:54 AM
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I have two full siblings. Brother is 8 years older and sister 7 years older.

My brother never really lived with us, that I remember and he joined the military when he was 17.5 years old. So I rarely saw him. And these days he lives two states away.

My sister didn’t like me at all when we were younger. Mostly because my mom made her babysit me all the time. She started working at 16 and got stuck with me on her days off. So I can kind of see why. But as I got older our age gap didn’t seem so big. Now she’s sick with cancer and we’re close trying to make the best of the time she has left.
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Originally Posted By Agnesisi⏩
It's normal, don't get down about it you don't have to adore either your siblings or your parents just because they are your family
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post 1665184483 07-29-2022, 11:52 AM
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as kids my sister and I were kinda close. Then less in high school. When we were both in college/early 20s we were the closest. Once she graduated from medical school though we just drifted apart and have very different outlooks on life
post 1665185193 07-29-2022, 12:05 PM
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Yeah but for different reasons. All of my siblings are half-siblings, so for starters there’s a weaker bond. Then there is the massive age gap between all of my siblings. My oldest sister is almost 8 years younger and is a blue haired democratic socialist just starting college (no pics you sick fuks). Haven’t spoken to her in a decade because she hates our father.

My other siblings are an entire generation younger because my mom, who had me at 20 years old, decided to have more kids with a new boyfriend in her 40s.

It’s unhealthy but I’m slightly resentful about these kids getting the life I should’ve had. Financially secure parents, private schools, sports, music lessons. My parents were poverty failures when I was born. Long story short my mom was more worried about getting drunk and chasing men than taking care of me so I ended up in the home of my single dad who worked 3 jobs to barely scrape by. Then she got her chit together and moved out of state where she could build an upper middle class life without dealing with her responsibilities.
post 1665185423 07-29-2022, 12:07 PM
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Got along fine with my sister growing up. We're pretty amicable, during our limited interactions, but she definitely fits the mold of your typical white libtard/femisnist woman (not exactly way over the top, but still bad enough) so...I have a fair bit of disdain for her.
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I moved to another city five hours away and my sister and I drifted apart. She thinks I make no effort to come and visit when I have two jobs and two small kids, meanwhile her husband makes ridiculous money and she's upper middle class who doesn't have to work. Tried to schedule a trip this summer for a weekend with the kids but cost of hotels was too much for a weekend and she didn't even offer for us to stay with her even though they have room. So whatever.
post 1665187253 07-29-2022, 12:33 PM
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I didn't really get along with my sister and didn't get along with my brother until he was a teenager. These days its hard to get along with my sister because of the way she and her husband treat their son and my brother just because of how he acts in general. They aggravate the hell out of me but I love them both and try to help them both
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post 1665187593 07-29-2022, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted By TBO1313⏩
These days its hard to get along with my sister because of the way she and her husband treat their son
what'd they do?
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I don't have a warm and fuzzy relationship with my sister. It is one of those regrets in life. Part of the problem I suppose is that I'm ill, have an IBD condition, and can be distant at times, worn out and tired, which is not easy for people to understand. Many people do not like sick people and to a certain extent i can understand that. And my sister is not a warm and fuzzy kind of person. I imagine if a cure is ever found for my gut issue, I'd find myself with a better relationship with her.
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One brother. I do get along with him in small doses but he is narcissistic as fug. Can't have a conversation he doesn't try to dominate. He loves ranting about politics and hearing his own voice so if anyone says anything he will butt in and make you listen to some 10 minute rant about something political that usually has only a smidge of relevance to whatever incited the rant. Ugh..
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Originally Posted By kingmanaverage⏩
what'd they do?
My nephew just acts like a little boy but to hear them talk about him you'd think he was a feral child. They punish him for things I feel like they shouldn't. It wouldn't bother me as much if they didn't treat their daughter completely different. In their eyes she can do no wrong. My niece isn't a bad child or anything like that but the double standard irritates me. It bothers my wife a lot more than it does me. She'd take the boy to live with us if she thought she could talk my sister into it

TLDR I feel like they don't treat him fairly
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Rarely talk to or see my brother and not sure we’ve ever had a normal conversation. I’m fairly reserved but he’s above and beyond. I regret that we aren’t closer but at the same time not sure I feel like putting in any effort to improve it. When we do see each other it’s not like we have a problem, we just don’t have much to say to each other.
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Always had a decent relationship with sister. The past several years she became more distant with her boyfriend that has a kid. They still always came to holidays and even came by here and there. He's older and is actually a nice guy from a well off family (basically a single dad with a daughter) because the mom was an alcoholicThen out of nowhere last year my sister completely dropped the family. She wouldn't respond to anyone until finally responded to my cousin that was getting married. My sister came to that wedding in Dec, and no one has seen or heard from her since. She acted fine that one single day, then poof. Didn't wish us merry xmas or come by for the holidays, didn't wish anyone happy birthday, just done with us without telling us. My mom is upset about it and has reached out a few times, nothing.

Our consensus is that it is because of politics, but we rarely bring it up with her or at family parties. She's full blown snowflake liberal. We're all conservative. But again, we rarely brought it up or got heated over it.

I'm a single child now and do not want her back in my life. When I have kids, I do not want an aunt like that to have any influence over my children. I can forgive a lot, but over a year with no contact, dropping your family like their nothing for your boyfriend of 5 years well off family, you don't deserve the fruits of our family.

I'm in a weird mix of saltiness/anger, and not caring at all about it. She's always been selfish and just that typical liberal based female, but this is just not acceptable to me.
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My older brother has literal autism. In a lot of ways he's just a burden. Never works, nor plans to. Gets Social security since he's autistic and dependent on my parents. Deeply morbidly obese with zero drive or willingness to change it despite knowing how to do it. Adult child, wants to do nothing but video games, movies, and throws literal temper tantrums / rage when he doesn't get his way on things, including throwing away his own possessions to make it so you REALLY know he's upset.

While we do share some common interests, like anime/movies/gaming, it's like all he thinks and talks about. And he often times repeats what he has already told me about the same dang subjects, or doesn't take the hint that I'm uninterested in the particular anime/movie/game he talks about. Doesn't seem to even WANT to try to express care about me and my interests, comes off as a total uninterested faker when he asks anything about my personal life and clearly has prepared follow up sentences for whatever it is I respond with. Falls deeply into taking pleasure in schadenfreude. Selfish, dad has money issues or loses his job, brother gets angry or depressed solely because how it impacts him, and not how it impacts anyone else.

When we're actually engaging in conversation on topics that I actually give a chit about, it's a good time. When I have to put up with his repeated statements or things of disinterest, and lack of expressing curiosity or interest in anything outside of his topics, I'm annoyed. I pity him for what he is, and I feel bad for being the golden sheep and that he's sort of the black sheep, I realize to a point at least it's not his fault. But hard not to judge him for the sloth, gluttony, lack of compassion/empathy in others, and for being stuck in his unhealthy routine and habits with no tangible effort to self improve.

Note: His autism is primarily personality / emotional, he has a decent brain and can even execute algebra, but gets lost when it comes to geometry or higher. Man-child emotions, immature, and a creative mind with what he does on his free time, uses good vocabulary, but has some speech impediments.
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My brother is a sociopath, so no.

I get along fine with my sister.
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Completely normal not to get along with your siblings as you get into adulthood and everyone makes their own lives.
However, growing up, your sibblings are your best buds.
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