Thinking about moving there but im not outgoing at all. Do you have to be loud and obnoxious to meet girls there? Ive heard dating is really good for guys there and you can score above your league.

Anyone been there?

Not necessarily

However you cannot just be in your room or just go to your local coffee shop and expect Russian models to come to you.

Look up some bankers in the NYC, and see the type of stuff they do, partying, the Armani suits, etc. You can cold approach women in NYC, just make sure you don't cat call. If you're dressed nice and look like you work in wall street, that works with hot women.

Also, remember 80% of people living in NYC generally can't afford to live there, if you make enough money to live in Manhattan or somewhere comfortably, you can be ballin. If you prefer hipster girls, run the artist, photographer game

No. It’s all about the face.

you have to put effort in. you have to work for it and take risks. you can't just sit back.

Pulling up in a Rolls Royce never hurts.

Yes I have pounded a lot of women in brooklyn

I lived there and was in a relationship for a number of years.

I knew LOTS of women and most of them were women.

They were all very good looking girls but EXTREMELY shallow "hot girls" and they all wanted to date Patrick Batman but could never find him.

I used to make fun of them and say they wanted a "gay guy who was rich" but not gay.

EVERY good looking girl I knew there was single, would date a guy, find fault, and then dump him.

I knew a lot of people who worked in the arts and advertising, so there could be a more normal demographic out there. However, if you're out on a Friday or Saturday night you will see hordes of beautiful girls out in groups and not a man to be seen.