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post 1666425913 08-20-2022, 02:42 AM
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Hate talking to old lowlife friends srs

They just bitch about how theyre depressed but wont do jack to help themself.
Your average person in 2022 thinks they deserve everything on a silver plate. Like why would you deserve to be happy everyday if you didnt work towards your goals?
Nobody is willing to put in the fookin wook.

I dont feel sorry for a single person who doesnt put in work.
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post 1666425933 08-20-2022, 02:43 AM
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Originally Posted By piramparam⏩
They just bitch about how theyre depressed but wont do jack to help themself.
Your average person in 2022 thinks they deserve everything on a silver plate. Like why would you deserve to be happy everyday if you didnt work towards your goals?
Nobody is willing to put in the fookin wook.

I dont feel sorry for a single person who doesnt put in work.
So don't talk to them and don't pass negative judgement upon them - otherwise, how are you any better?
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post 1666425963 08-20-2022, 02:47 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
So don't talk to them and don't pass negative judgement upon them - otherwise, how are you any better?
By putting in work?

Im dissapointed rn. I thought people would try to get a grip while im gone but instead i have to find new friends.
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post 1666425983 08-20-2022, 02:50 AM
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they're probably better off without you tbh
post 1666426023 08-20-2022, 02:52 AM
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Nah.

I called one out on his alcoholism and he said this:

Dude lol you don't have to be lol you have never been or ever will lol I never had an alcohol problem like you lol I barely drink . But good luck and happy you are good. Trust me, if you ever want help let me know.

But I'm 195 days sober. His comment wasn't hurtful at all.
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post 1666426573 08-20-2022, 03:25 AM
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They always complain about their problems to you like they're women.
Always give excuses as to "why" they can't do something right now.
Always blaming circumstances, past decisions, situations or events instead of their own skills or competence.
Procrastinate activities, tasks and goals so they deteriorate after time.
Victim mentality.

I know the feels OP.
I occasionally (+/- monthly) still hang with my old friends out of loyalty & fun gettogethers to get drunk or do fun stuff like festivals or vacations.
But on a deeper level I know 90% of them are inferior to me on basically every domain in life; but I don't mind.

Just let them burn themselves and use them for when you need to blow off some steam.
You're not their daddy, they're grown ass men and they don't need you to teach them how to live life.

Live and let live
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post 1666426663 08-20-2022, 03:29 AM
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Definitely know the feels


I still like some of those guys a lot. But man they just play video games all day and whine about rich people. They legit think people with goals and pursuits are like a different species.
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post 1666426753 08-20-2022, 03:34 AM
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The thing I found was setting a good example. They will follow your lead.
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post 1666427013 08-20-2022, 03:53 AM
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Fuk loser friends, srs. 2022 is peak clown world. If anyone isnt doing what it takes to get their life together by now then youre better off leaving them behind. They will bring you down.
post 1666427143 08-20-2022, 03:59 AM
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That's fine OP just don't get caught making any astronaut/jogger threads
post 1666427213 08-20-2022, 04:01 AM
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If you're not grinding so hard you have constant high blood pressure and PTSD don't even talk to me you fuking loser
post 1666453103 08-20-2022, 02:03 PM
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Originally Posted By piramparam⏩
They just bitch about how theyre depressed but wont do jack to help themself.
Your average person in 2022 thinks they deserve everything on a silver plate. Like why would you deserve to be happy everyday if you didnt work towards your goals?
Nobody is willing to put in the fookin wook.

I dont feel sorry for a single person who doesnt put in work.
dont let the crabs drag you into their bucket. make some new friends who want to be successful
post 1666453163 08-20-2022, 02:04 PM
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put in work

aka be a salve for some richie?

brb get paid 17/hr meanwhile owner makes 5000 a day
post 1666453323 08-20-2022, 02:07 PM
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Friends are what we have when we were kids, teens and college students... when men enter adulthood, we aren't supposed to have friends - we have allies, connections, and acquaintances....
Everything I post is satire.
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post 1666453503 08-20-2022, 02:11 PM
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If you are a self improving guy outside the norm of what your friends are doing, you will 100% end up drifting away from them.

100% of the time dedfknsrs
post 1666455193 08-20-2022, 02:53 PM
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What I can't stand is what I call Superior Victims, or maybe we should call them Supreme Victims kind of like the Supreme Gentleman. How it works is they claim to be the smarter, more intelligent, more able individual than you, but due to things beyond their control life has handed them a bad deal which is why they aren't doing as well as you. What they imply is if life had delt you the same hand of cards you would be much worse off, or if they had your hand of cards they would be so much better off.
post 1666455243 08-20-2022, 02:54 PM
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Yeah I've been noticing a lot of depressing types come moping to me with their problems. I try to help or offer suggestions to remedy the situation but they always reject it and tell me I don't fully understand... so whytf are you talking to me, then?

When a lot of people are in the dumps and feel like chit in their chitty situation they don't want help, they want someone to feed their narcissistic need for charity and pity. They just want to feel sorry for themselves
post 1666455273 08-20-2022, 02:55 PM
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Originally Posted By andyray⏩
they're probably better off without you tbh
This. OP sounds like a douche.
post 1666456623 08-20-2022, 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted By piramparam⏩
They just bitch about how theyre depressed but wont do jack to help themself.
Your average person in 2022 thinks they deserve everything on a silver plate. Like why would you deserve to be happy everyday if you didnt work towards your goals?
Nobody is willing to put in the fookin wook.

I dont feel sorry for a single person who doesnt put in work.
I get where you're coming from but weren't you in that place at one point?

People like that frustrate me too, but everyone is on their own journey. Some eventually "get it" and others never do.
post 1666457323 08-20-2022, 03:38 PM
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I don't know those feels because I immediately cut f@gg0ts like that off. I don't have the time or patience for dead weight. (Super Ded fkn Srs)
post 1666458323 08-20-2022, 03:57 PM
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TBH, you'd be surprised what your friends are capable of if you just point them in the right direction and give a little support/encouragement. IMO, most people just have different upbringings and parents/role models that set the wrong standards and taught them chit all to make it in the real world. It's hard for people like that to break out of the rut without someone else encouraging them.
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Originally Posted By Jasonw1178⏩
What I can't stand is what I call Superior Victims, or maybe we should call them Supreme Victims kind of like the Supreme Gentleman. How it works is they claim to be the smarter, more intelligent, more able individual than you, but due to things beyond their control life has handed them a bad deal which is why they aren't doing as well as you. What they imply is if life had delt you the same hand of cards you would be much worse off, or if they had your hand of cards they would be so much better off.
Holy chit, I know exactly what you're talkijg about. I know someone who is this to a tee. Rather, I knew someone like this, because I cut that loser out a while ago. Absolute scrub waste of time.
post 1666485083 08-21-2022, 12:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
I get where you're coming from but weren't you in that place at one point?

People like that frustrate me too, but everyone is on their own journey. Some eventually "get it" and others never do.
Yeah i was but i never stopped trying. Ive been patient with my friends for months now. Encouraging them to do chit and offering help but they just come up with excuses XY & Z.

After i got the seizure im having another doctors appointment on monday where they probably re evaluate my state and give me C-papers AKA i end my service.
Id like to go back to my mates and start grinding right out the gate but good portion of them still cash in welfare and its starting to piss me off.
I cant help grown ass men, i aint their momma ffs.
All they need to do is file in a couple papers and wake the fukk up at 6am its not so hard.

3 of my friends got a job while i was away. 2 are in school and the rest just rot.
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post 1666485213 08-21-2022, 12:45 AM
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Stfu incel
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post 1666485483 08-21-2022, 12:56 AM
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I keep my distance but if they ever need anything and ask for help, I help.

I try to remain humble about my successes, I know I’m fortunate. I realize that some of my friends are not motivated people, but I try my best to not give them unsolicited advice or talk about my successes. I try not to see them often as they can bring negative energy.
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