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» anyone else experience jealously from non lifters?
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post 1666499623 08-21-2022, 10:44 AM
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anyone else experience jealously from non lifters?

anyone else experience jealously from non lifters?

this is a geniune concern of mine because i feel as if scrawny/out of shape guys like to turn people off of lifting/working out because of jealously or inferior "feeling weak" around them.. its happened to me before and now as i turn to start getting back into working out again, it seems to be starting to happen again.

people dont respect it, they will learn to respect it
post 1666499893 08-21-2022, 10:49 AM
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Yeah I had an old coworker who would always question my diet choices and he would make subtle jabs at me.

I can't stand lowkey haters.
post 1666500113 08-21-2022, 10:53 AM
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nah cuz i dont even look like a lift.
post 1666500363 08-21-2022, 10:59 AM
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i dont push lifting onto others im not some type of conformist either it is the way i do things
post 1666500653 08-21-2022, 11:05 AM
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Nah, they’re typically just mirin my gainz
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post 1666501523 08-21-2022, 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Lefticle
Nah, they’re typically just mirin my gainz
most people are in denial of there jealously issues w/ me.
post 1666504863 08-21-2022, 12:40 PM
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yeah for sure, experience this a lot at home with my parents

fat dad who doesn't give a **** but my mom thinks it's cool

high school aged siblings like to make fun but the younger siblings are actually interested and want to go with me, they're not old enough yet sadly

friends of mine usually supportive but sometimes the subtle jabs
post 1666505223 08-21-2022, 12:49 PM
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Yup when I lived with two roommates in college, one was slightly overweight skinny fat type and other was obese fat fuq. Both gamers. They were both older than me and I decided to room with them because we were close friends when I was younger.

I would always get passive aggressive comments, examples:

"Don't you think working out that much is a waste of time?"
My response: "Bro u play dota 10 hours a day"

While watching a youtube vid on oly lifting:
"Bro you're too skinny to do those lifts"

Needless to say, I got attention from sloots and they got none. Started drifting away from them over time and we don't even talk anymore.
post 1666505513 08-21-2022, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By miscallday12
Yup when I lived with two roommates in college, one was slightly overweight skinny fat type and other was obese fat fuq. Both gamers. They were both older than me and I decided to room with them because we were close friends when I was younger.

I would always get passive aggressive comments, examples:

"Don't you think working out that much is a waste of time?"
My response: "Bro u play dota 10 hours a day"

While watching a youtube vid on oly lifting:
"Bro you're too skinny to do those lifts"

Needless to say, I got attention from sloots and they got none. Started drifting away from them over time and we don't even talk anymore.
Yeah when you learn how to deal with these people passive aggressively they may say something once but then they don’t want to look like an idiot again. I have clowned a few coworkers to the point where one actually told HR on me. I thought he was going to cry. I had to go explain what happened. Luckily the other people in the lunch room admitted that the other guy said something to me first. I guess i”hurt his feelings” even though he literally started something he shouldn’t have.
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post 1666506333 08-21-2022, 01:15 PM
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People that don't pick their sacrifices (let someone else decide for them), people who don't try to constantly improve themselves. What do you expect them to understand?
post 1666506503 08-21-2022, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted By miscallday12
Yup when I lived with two roommates in college, one was slightly overweight skinny fat type and other was obese fat fuq. Both gamers. They were both older than me and I decided to room with them because we were close friends when I was younger.

I would always get passive aggressive comments, examples:

"Don't you think working out that much is a waste of time?"
My response: "Bro u play dota 10 hours a day"

While watching a youtube vid on oly lifting:
"Bro you're too skinny to do those lifts"

Needless to say, I got attention from sloots and they got none. Started drifting away from them over time and we don't even talk anymore.
i get worse comments then that from people ive never heard of. usually to a guy like me it means "im a little pussy and my gf isn't satisfied with my tiny cock"
post 1666506793 08-21-2022, 01:28 PM
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Originally Posted By xxDeeJayxx
i get worse comments then that from people ive never heard of. usually to a guy like me it means "im a little pussy and my gf isn't satisfied with my tiny cock"
I highly doubt these are good looking people saying this. In that case why care?
post 1666507173 08-21-2022, 01:36 PM
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hater gonna hate, its literally like a compliment.
post 1666520403 08-21-2022, 05:51 PM
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Absolutely. Over the years, I’ve found it harder to make friends and even dating has gotten tougher.
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