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Thread: Is not wanting to compete in dating a sign of low test?

post 1666908643 08-28-2022, 03:20 PM
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Is not wanting to compete in dating a sign of low test?

I don't feel like competing against other dudes just for a woman's attention.

Should I go get my test levels checked.
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post 1666908733 08-28-2022, 03:21 PM
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Try men
Your schtick sucks and it screams insecurity.
post 1666910153 08-28-2022, 03:46 PM
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I’m in the same boat, srs.
post 1666910793 08-28-2022, 04:00 PM
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When "compete with other men" means the 1,000+ matches on Tinder? No.
post 1666910843 08-28-2022, 04:01 PM
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lol what? life is not an ongoing season of The Bachelorette. Do your thing and let the women come to you.
post 1666911003 08-28-2022, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
lol what? life is not an ongoing season of The Bachelorette. Do your thing and let the women come to you.
Been doing my thing for a decade. Women don't just show up.
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post 1666911233 08-28-2022, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
Been doing my thing for a decade. Women don't just show up.
Moment of silence.
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post 1666911293 08-28-2022, 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
Been doing my thing for a decade. Women don't just show up.
I think we've been over this before, dude
post 1666911883 08-28-2022, 04:20 PM
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The rule of thumb is, put in effort but don't over extend yourself.
post 1666912663 08-28-2022, 04:36 PM
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I know the feeling. Brb you see a 4/10 girl having several decent looking dudes jestering for her attention and think to yourself "the juice ain't worth the squeeze"
post 1666912773 08-28-2022, 04:38 PM
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There's other ways to meet women than the apps, and it's a lot easier in person.

You guys need to pull yourselves together.
post 1666912893 08-28-2022, 04:39 PM
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Do whatever you want and don't make women the center of your life. That'll boost your test.
post 1666913023 08-28-2022, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted By BronsonStorm⏩
There's other ways to meet women than the apps, and it's a lot easier in person.

You guys need to pull yourselves together.
Yeah but where do you find them in person? You go to bars and they just want 6'3''+. You go anywhere else and you're some creep about to get slammed with a #MeToo post for talking to them.

Only chance is if you have connections through friends. Otherwise it's over for you.
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post 1666913223 08-28-2022, 04:44 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
Yeah but where do you find them in person? You go to bars and they just want 6'3''+. You go anywhere else and you're some creep about to get slammed with a #MeToo post for talking to them.

Only chance is if you have connections through friends. Otherwise it's over for you.
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post 1666913393 08-28-2022, 04:47 PM
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Yeah I feel this way sometimes, like why bother even if a girl does initially like you, you can instantly be tossed to the side at any given moment if they find another bloke they perceive as better than you.

Sometimes it's too much work just to date or smash, would rather shag an escort tbh.
post 1666913983 08-28-2022, 04:58 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
Yeah but where do you find them in person? You go to bars and they just want 6'3''+. You go anywhere else and you're some creep about to get slammed with a #MeToo post for talking to them.

Only chance is if you have connections through friends. Otherwise it's over for you.
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post 1666914363 08-28-2022, 05:05 PM
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No lol

chit is tiring and not all that

for me, unless the girl is exactly what I am looking for I see them as a waste of time
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post 1666914673 08-28-2022, 05:11 PM
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Take a break from it, it can burn you out tbh. Or lie, say you make 6 figz, smash n dash
post 1666914883 08-28-2022, 05:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Omnivium⏩
I know the feeling. Brb you see a 4/10 girl having several decent looking dudes jestering for her attention and think to yourself "the juice ain't worth the squeeze"
lmfao. too much real life
post 1666915153 08-28-2022, 05:21 PM
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I just focus on what I'm tryna do with her and let the cards fall where they may. If another dude starts talking to them or they flirt with another guy in the group I pull back a bit. I'm sure every girl has 20 guys lined up but I try not to think about it too much...out of sight out of mind.
Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
Yeah but where do you find them in person? You go to bars and they just want 6'3''+. You go anywhere else and you're some creep about to get slammed with a #MeToo post for talking to them.

Only chance is if you have connections through friends. Otherwise it's over for you.
Parks, coffee shops, grocery stores. Girls in real life are not like that...do you guys actually leave the house or do you just get your intel from incel forums?
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post 1666915233 08-28-2022, 05:24 PM
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problem is you aren't gooing to get a girl on your level. she's gonna have guys 3 points higher jestermaxxing. I have way more fun with sugarbabies and literally have to beat off hot, intelligent, fun, feminie girls with a stick. It's me leaving them on read and struggling to pick the right girls because there are so many good options with not enough money to see them all. This is how dating should be but we live in a gynocentric clown world.

**** my girl is a solid 8/10 and gives outerworldy head. That settles it, I'm gonna see her tonight. Pce incels
post 1666915393 08-28-2022, 05:26 PM
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined⏩
I just focus on what I'm tryna do with her and let the cards fall where they may. If another dude starts talking to them or they flirt with another guy in the group I pull back a bit. I'm sure every girl has 20 guys lined up but I try not to think about it too much...out of sight out of mind.



Parks, coffee shops, grocery stores. Girls in real life are not like that...do you guys actually leave the house or do you just get your intel from incel forums?
This. There's more important **** out there than girls.

Also correct not all women think and act like bitches on the internet. A lot of men on the internet have misc standards, but clearly men have much lower standards irl. The internet is not real life.
post 1666915473 08-28-2022, 05:28 PM
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post 1666915703 08-28-2022, 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Omnivium⏩
I know the feeling. Brb you see a 4/10 girl having several decent looking dudes jestering for her attention and think to yourself "the juice ain't worth the squeeze"
This.


Also just go out more op. It’s a numbers game
post 1666915823 08-28-2022, 05:36 PM
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I halfway agree. I would never try and "compete". Either they are into me right away and we click and its on, or not. I would never want to to waste my time playing games.

When on apps, I swipe yes and forget about it unless they match and I will give one "hello"... If a conversation starts and it is engaging, I say for us to meet that weekend or sooner. If games, I just don't respond anymore.
post 1666915933 08-28-2022, 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Yeah I feel this way sometimes, like why bother even if a girl does initially like you, you can instantly be tossed to the side at any given moment if they find another bloke they perceive as better than you.

Sometimes it's too much work just to date or smash, would rather shag an escort tbh.
I've never used an escort but it needs to be relatively easy. I ain't working for it. That's both beta and a great way to ensure ya get cucked, man.
post 1666916063 08-28-2022, 05:42 PM
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Ehh not really.

I think whats gonna happen is women are gonna have to start putting in effort with the initial approaches as guys dont wanna bother with girls who have 1000s of followers.
All flirting on their pics etc.. who the fuk can trust/ rely on a woman like that?
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I think it’s a low sperm count. 2 years ago I took a prohormone and my sexual desire was gone. I even met some Spanish nurse online and sucked on her boobs and she was sucking on me and I literally was only hard for a minute. I got natty sexual hens and stuff and I got my drive back but when I was like that I absolutely hated women. Like the sight of them made n me e angry. When my drive came back I was back to white knoghtingvthem again. I had 3 gf a few weeks ago. Prob could have them all anytime I want again too. People talk about the power if puss but if you pull out a monster cawk and f them good they will always love you and bring fast food to your job and stuff. I like that kind of stuff.
post 1666916543 08-28-2022, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined⏩
I just focus on what I'm tryna do with her and let the cards fall where they may. If another dude starts talking to them or they flirt with another guy in the group I pull back a bit. I'm sure every girl has 20 guys lined up but I try not to think about it too much...out of sight out of mind.



Parks, coffee shops, grocery stores. Girls in real life are not like that...do you guys actually leave the house or do you just get your intel from incel forums?
I think most of the doomers spend all their time on the internet and playing video games instead of actually socializing with real live people. (Males & females).
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