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» How do you 'cope' with splitting up with someone?
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post 1668661043 09-29-2022, 10:37 AM
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How do you 'cope' with splitting up with someone?

The thought/reality of never interacting with them ever again, almost as if they were now dead.

What's your line of thought with it? How do you personally deal with that? Someone who you had/have deep feelings for now gone forever
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post 1668661593 09-29-2022, 10:49 AM
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It's sad but you have to learn to be at peace with the end of the relationship, reflect from it, and grow from it.

It may take some forgiveness on your end but also forgiving them for what transpired.

It takes time though bro. I'm a little over two months past my break up. Was in a long term relationship and I still care about her but ultimately we weren't right for each other.
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post 1668661723 09-29-2022, 10:53 AM
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just have to accept that nothing in this life is permanent and enjoy things while they last.
post 1668661893 09-29-2022, 10:55 AM
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man up
get over it
get a new one

time heals all wounds as does new poossy
post 1668661973 09-29-2022, 10:56 AM
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I'll never understand how someone can go from being your world for years, sharing every experience in life to absolutely no contact at all.
post 1668661983 09-29-2022, 10:56 AM
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You'll be fine. Focus on yourself.

Its actually nothing compared to the pain you'll feel when a loved one passes. That one can literally destroy your life if you arent strong enough.
post 1668662183 09-29-2022, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted By FailedPotential
The thought/reality of never interacting with them ever again, almost as if they were now dead.

What's your line of thought with it? How do you personally deal with that? Someone who you had/have deep feelings for now gone forever
it's normal to grieve the loss of a relationship. but every breakup is an opportunity to do some self-reflection and work on improving ourselves. remind yourself that there's someone even better out there for you; you just keep working on you and it'll only be a matter of time.
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post 1668662413 09-29-2022, 11:04 AM
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Breakups are always a good thing.

Good for the people who want to leave because they're being honest with themselves

Good for the people who are getting left because they aren't being lied to anymore.

Everyone gets dealt a new hand for potential, and potential is among the most valuable resources you can have.
post 1668662493 09-29-2022, 11:06 AM
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post 1668663513 09-29-2022, 11:28 AM
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Gentle misc has been gentle to you op, this is like when an orangutan has a kitty it pets (op is kitty obviously)


Sucks Mayne, it happens and mostly it's terrible. But that lessens, the world is good op. Take your time and focus on you
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post 1668663563 09-29-2022, 11:30 AM
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post 1668663653 09-29-2022, 11:31 AM
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post 1668663823 09-29-2022, 11:34 AM
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I guess this depends. Was I the one doing the breaking up or was I caught blindsided?

Either way I always go NC until I don't have anymore confusing mixed feelings for them.
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post 1668677223 09-29-2022, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted By littlemissy
I guess this depends. Was I the one doing the breaking up or was I caught blindsided?

Either way I always go NC until I don't have anymore confusing mixed feelings for them.
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post 1668677333 09-29-2022, 04:10 PM
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2. Absolutely no contact. Block them (and their friends) on every single platform.
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