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post 1668680533 09-29-2022, 05:18 PM
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Brahs who actually approach women and get laid. Do you ever creep girls out? (Srs)

I mean approach girls normally during the day or at bars and clubs, not the cringey PUA way.

I personally approach sloots and get a decent amount of punani from it, but every once in a while I approach girls who get annoyed by me and reject me pretty brutally. Surprisingly this mostly happens at bars and clubs.

I always feel like chit after because i never want to bother people, especially girls, but I’m starting to see these awkward interactions as collateral damage.
post 1668680593 09-29-2022, 05:19 PM
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post 1668681373 09-29-2022, 05:32 PM
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I only approach girls who are giving me strong signals (eye contact, smiling, constantly staring etc)

If a girl doesn't look at me twice I won't bother approaching, or if I talk to one and I can tell they're not interested by body language I won't make a move.

I have a friend who has zero inhibition and literally chats up any girl he sees on a night out, while he has some success some of the rejections are brootal.
post 1668681503 09-29-2022, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
I only approach girls who are giving me strong signals (eye contact, smiling, constantly staring etc)

If a girl doesn't look at me twice I won't bother approaching, or if I talk to one and I can tell they're not interested by body language I won't make a move.

I have a friend who has zero inhibition and literally chats up any girl he sees, while he has some success some of the rejections are brootal.
Lol, same. I'll char up a girl, but it's after some obvious signals. Some guys do really well with chatting up any girl they like, but year some of the rejections are pretty hilarious. These guys just don't care though.
post 1668681593 09-29-2022, 05:37 PM
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No they aren't creeped out because I'm not unattractive. Haven't had a bad rejection in years and that was when I came at a sloot really weird without the unconscious confidence to back it up.
post 1668681653 09-29-2022, 05:39 PM
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Every once in a while but it's rare. After a few drinks I approach girls for the fun of it and can't remember the last time I got outed as a creep or weirdo. Nowadays girls love any type of attention you give them so they at least entertain it for a min or two.
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post 1668681763 09-29-2022, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
I only approach girls who are giving me strong signals (eye contact, smiling, constantly staring etc)

If a girl doesn't look at me twice I won't bother approaching, or if I talk to one and I can tell they're not interested by body language I won't make a move.

I have a friend who has zero inhibition and literally chats up any girl he sees on a night out, while he has some success some of the rejections are brootal.
I feel like I’d miss out on so many girls if I only approach the ones that look… i’d rather just not give a fuk and take all my chances but i can’t lie the rejections get to me
post 1668681863 09-29-2022, 05:44 PM
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you must be of strange look srs
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post 1668681923 09-29-2022, 05:45 PM
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Tfw Ive never had to cold approach. Ive always gotten dates by her parents setting us up, my barber, friend circles, gym etc.

Back when I used to move furniture for a living I got tons of pussy. Helped that I was a chad lite and in shape/shredded.

Now I see tons of sloots going to the gym 100% for attention. Theres always 2 or 3 watching me and my bud flip tires, pretending to do their leg machines or wahtever lol, every time I go.
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post 1668682053 09-29-2022, 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
you must be of strange look srs
I’m average looking, probably 6/10 on a good day. But I do have good game and I’ve been told that by many of the girls I’ve slept with (srs)
post 1668682183 09-29-2022, 05:48 PM
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Originally Posted By verymuchalpha⏩
I’m average looking, probably 6/10 on a good day. But I do have good game and I’ve been told that by many of the girls I’ve slept with (srs)
if you occasionally make a gal mad, that's normal and she simply has a low IQ/no sense of humor

if you creep them out, i've got sum bad nuwz
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post 1668682203 09-29-2022, 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted By CampingBruh⏩
Tfw Ive never had to cold approach. Ive always gotten dates by her parents setting us up, my barber, friend circles, gym etc.

Back when I used to move furniture for a living I got tons of pussy. Helped that I was a chad lite and in shape/shredded.

Now I see tons of sloots going to the gym 100% for attention. Theres always 2 or 3 watching me and my bud flip tires, pretending to do their leg machines or wahtever lol, every time I go.
We all got dates from organic situations like that before, it’s not special.

When you want to have a stable rotation of 2+ sloots then you have to approach or get on dating apps, can’t rely on fate.
post 1668682263 09-29-2022, 05:50 PM
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If you can read the room there's no reason you should ever creep out anybody.
post 1668682313 09-29-2022, 05:51 PM
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Originally Posted By CoolKnees⏩
If you can read the room there's no reason you should ever creep out anybody.
Sometimes you shouldn’t rely on “reading the room” because that’s just cope for being too much of a pussy to make a move
post 1668682413 09-29-2022, 05:53 PM
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Some women just have a stick up their azz. It’s just part of the game.
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post 1668682613 09-29-2022, 05:56 PM
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Originally Posted By verymuchalpha⏩
I feel like I’d miss out on so many girls if I only approach the ones that look… i’d rather just not give a fuk and take all my chances but i can’t lie the rejections get to me
If your self esteem can't handle multiple rejections that's the best way.

Some people just naturally have zero inhibition and can talk to anyone without giving a fuk, just depends on your personality/confidence really.
post 1668682793 09-29-2022, 05:59 PM
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I wood never approach a girl in public. I’m not a weirdo.
post 1668682933 09-29-2022, 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Mrstealyogurl89⏩
I wood never approach a girl in public. I’m not a weirdo.
I’d rather be a weirdo that gets laid at will than a “cool guy” who jerks off every night
post 1668683183 09-29-2022, 06:04 PM
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Cold approach is good. Not enough people do it. You'll probably get her number because you'll catch her off guard. If she has second thoughts she'll just block you. Rejection with dignity. Before that you get to feel good for a while.

"You're cute, will you go get coffee with me?" works. It does. My friend who is really cute gave some guy her number because she was flustered.
post 1668683423 09-29-2022, 06:09 PM
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post 1668683483 09-29-2022, 06:11 PM
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post 1668683793 09-29-2022, 06:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
I only approach girls who are giving me strong signals (eye contact, smiling, constantly staring etc)

If a girl doesn't look at me twice I won't bother approaching, or if I talk to one and I can tell they're not interested by body language I won't make a move.

I have a friend who has zero inhibition and literally chats up any girl he sees on a night out, while he has some success some of the rejections are brootal.
Best advice. Watch body language and if they don't show at least a friendly interest, ignore. If they do, worth a shot to see if it is more. So in simple terms: don't be an autistic creep. Don't be the "Yo Baby, you know you want to git wit thiz" when they are obviously not interested.

Some guys will get interest from more girls than others, but just read their clues. You will get better at it by simply engaging in normal conversations.
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With the advent of dating apps, day game is basically a waste of time. If you can't get laid off dating apps it's because you're either ugly or suck at seduction.

In a social setting, it's pretty simple. Women express interest all the time, you just have to not be an autist and recognize when they are really interested and when they are just being polite or annoyed.
post 1668684183 09-29-2022, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted By TomPaine⏩
Best advice. Watch body language and if they don't show at least a friendly interest, ignore. If they do, worth a shot to see if it is more. So in simple terms: don't be an autistic creep. Don't be the "Yo Baby, you know you want to git wit thiz" when they are obviously not interested.

Some guys will get interest from more girls than others, but just read their clues. You will get better at it by simply engaging in normal conversations.
Most girls I slept with didn’t look at me first or gave me any sort of signal.
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
With the advent of dating apps, day game is basically a waste of time. If you can't get laid off dating apps it's because you're either ugly or suck at seduction.

In a social setting, it's pretty simple. Women express interest all the time, you just have to not be an autist and recognize when they are really interested and when they are just being polite or annoyed.
It’s not a waste of time for me and my friends. We all cold approach and get laid from it srs.
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if they don't approach you you're doing it wrong, srs
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if you are norwood you can forget about cold approaching anything but your hand
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Originally Posted By fate0311⏩
if you are norwood you can forget about cold approaching anything but your hand
Lmao
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Originally Posted By verymuchalpha⏩
I’d rather be a weirdo that gets laid at will than a “cool guy” who jerks off every night
Lmao. If I wanted to “git laid” I’d hire a nice looking hooker for $200.

Imagine hitting on women in public like some low iq reject of society
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Originally Posted By fate0311⏩
if you are norwood you can forget about cold approaching anything but your hand
this is true, unless they are 30+
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