I invited a friend to this bonfire party thing last weekend cuz he had nothing to do and it was fun. Then this same dude texts me tonight that he’s at this show with a band and going to an after party. Doesn’t invite me or even ask what I’m doing, which is nothing. Like why even tell me azzhole.

Should I just never invite this ******* to anything again? Like even if I don’t want to go should just invite me.

Then co-workers talking about going to bars after work tonight, I wouldn’t want to go, but they act like my friends at work then just don’t ask what I’m up to.

Anyone else get annoyed by **** like this? I’m not even autistic and pretty outgoing/friendly.

Misc is always here…

Lower your expeectations of your friends when it comes to chit like that, or you won't have many friends at all
Srs.

As for coworkers, fukkk 'em Don't worry about that bs at all. You go to a job to make money. Mixing your personal life with your work life is nothing more than a big pita anyway.

What is up with these people? They sound like azzholes and I wouldn't want to waste my time with them. Block that douchebag so you don't have to read his pathetic bragging.

Some people never leave high school, mentally that is.

You mean like don’t expect to get invited, or get upset if I don’t?

Yep. Stop expecting it. Stop expecting anyrhing to happen.

Whether it feels fair or not is irrevant, because how it makes you feel isn't going to make anyone change.

Just roll with chit like that in life as it goes, and don't let yourself get too worked up over stuff like that. It doesn't do you any good and just makes you feel chitty.

We all know a guy like that at work. You might have more autism than you think. srs

I have the opposite problem of coworkers inviting me out to do normie chit until they realize I never show up.