Meeting this girl from tinder later this week
Im an incel so I didn't have the balls to ask to go straight to her place
So the plan is to get her drunk at a bar (she said she wants to drink cider not beer lmao)
Would yall smash? srs quesiton

Pics:https://imgur.com/a/o7dXrv2

yeah why not

Would you change the plans and ask if shes up for watching netflix at her place instead?
Idk if she is that DTF or not...

No, she's a Taurus so you should treat her with some respect, OP.

Go for drinks and see what happens

Do you really have to ask?

Chin too pointy/10 Would not smash

Just don't get too angry when she rejects your advances

Without getting too deep into the research on female arousal (it’s messy and confusing, which shouldn’t surprise you), the leading theory on female arousal is women are turned on by bold behaviors, displays of bravery, and direct sexual desire, particularly when directed at the woman who is getting aroused.


What would barbarian Fabio do?

Whether it’s Fabio the Firefighter or the sexy surfer who braves the 20 foot waves in frigid waters or the solider coming home from Nowhere-istan, displays of bravery turn women on more than anything else. If you don’t believe me, go to your local book store and look at the romance novels. Romance novels are basically porn for women, and you’ll find that they all feature warriors, soldiers, bad boys, race car drivers, football players, firefighters, jet pilots, and enter-your-super-sexy-and-dangerous-occupation-here.

And not only are these men racy and exciting, but they’re usually brash and debonair — they say what they want and go after it without apology.

But what does this mean for a couple regular guys like you and me?

It means being nervous around her is going to be a pretty big turn off. Afraid to talk to her, afraid to ask her out, afraid to kiss her, afraid to take her home — Fabio the Firefighter wouldn’t be afraid to ravish the **** of her, so why should you?

What it means is that despite every woman you’ve ever heard complain about men hitting on them, bold displays of interest actually work in your favor the majority of the time, as long as they’re demonstrated in a manner that is not too threatening or disrespectful.

Some examples (for better or worse, these are taken from experience):

Telling a woman she’s beautiful and you’d like to get to know her better. GOOD IDEA

Whistling at a girl on the street and calling her names. BAD IDEA

When a woman seems interested in you, just grabbing her and trying to kiss her. GOOD IDEA

Following a woman for three blocks telling her what you want to do to her sexually. BAD IDEA

Telling a woman you’re kissing where and how you’d like to have sex with her. GOOD IDEA

Touching a woman inappropriately when you don’t know her or have not received interest from her. BAD IDEA

Men typically underestimate how forward they can be with women. And they vastly underestimate how effective being forward and open about their sexual desires is with women who are attracted to them.


A proper and honest sexual expression is powerful, and in our society, rare. In fact, there’s a LOT of societal pressure to hide and disassociate from our sexuality. Many of us grow up with a great deal of sexual shame. And not only does this keep us afraid of expressing our sexual desires openly, but it creates an unhealthy neediness and worship of sex.

Because honest and respectful demonstrations of sexuality are so rare, not only are women aroused by it, but it often hits them like a breath of fresh air.

I added another pic to the album, the weird part is she looks horrible from the front imo.
Or would all you guys still smash??
https://imgur.com/a/o7dXrv2

Absolutely no reason to waste time or money going out on a date with a tinder girl. Either invite her to your place or go to hers

Edit: yes smash

Go to walmart and get a paperbag and plop that on her head. Problem solved. would smash

She's a 5

no.

From those photos, she seems to be the textbook definition of a 5/10. Completely average in every way. Nothing horribly wrong or specifically great.

So unless a ****git, most guys would smash anything 5 and up.

Based.

Also, the light switch is your friend.

You definetely make some valid points, I just hope I can vibe with her in our conversations
Then if I can tell she likes me, its smooth sailing. Judging from how she talks and stuff, its hard for me to determine if shes
easy going or looking for a relationship. I asked her what she wants to do and she said up to me, so I suggested the drinks.
Had I asked for netflix and chill I might have gotten blocked