When you are young and prepubescent you think girls are dumb and very different, you only spend time with your bros. No one hangs out or enjoys spending time with girls.

When you get to puberty and beyond you lust after them and eventually marry them

When you get 50+ and your hormone levels are shot and your wife is 3 decades post-glow you return to intellectual sobriety, you and every other man loathe spending time with your wife because there is nothing keeping you together without lustful hormones. Your initial impressions from being young were correct. Women are very different and males do not enjoy spending time with them outside of sexual implications.

This is also what happens with post-nut clarity where you no longer want to be around the woman after nutting.

The natural state of man is to not enjoy the company of women yet many men are completely cucked by irrational hormones.

This is one of the contributing factors behind divorce, men have been conditioned into believing lies like "soul mate" and "romance" which is simply your hormones cucking you.

Without hormones no one would find vaginas attractive, look at how gross they are.



Therefore testosterone makes you a simp and makes you lie to yourself that you enjoy spending time with your girlfriend, it's a sad trap.