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post 1669815193 10-20-2022, 09:42 PM
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Thinking about texting my ex "hey come over this weekend". Bad idea?

We didn't break up on bad terms. I was the one who dumped her back in January. I kept trying to go NC but she continually reached out to me. Last time we spoke was last month when she right swiped me on a dating app and I matched with her for fun. We had a quick, fun convo back and forth on the app with her saying at the end of it: "I'd really like to catch up in person and see how we feel. If you feel the same, then text me". I never texted her and I unmatched her.

I'm definitely over her but I don't mind seeing her again and maybe open up something casual with her.

Bad idea to text this?

I'm rinsemaxxed tonight so here I am writing this thread
post 1669815303 10-20-2022, 09:46 PM
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may be he's busy? get it a try bro
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post 1669815363 10-20-2022, 09:46 PM
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Do it
post 1669815393 10-20-2022, 09:48 PM
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Just text hey

That’s it.

If what you’re saying is true you’ll get laid tonight.
I probably banged your mom.

Eat the whole animal like a real man.
post 1669815403 10-20-2022, 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted By OT2000⏩
Just text hey

That’s it.

If what you’re saying is true you’ll get laid tonight.
Just a hey? I'd rather get straight to the point
post 1669815463 10-20-2022, 09:51 PM
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You’re drunk though. Best to start civil.
I probably banged your mom.

Eat the whole animal like a real man.
post 1669815503 10-20-2022, 09:53 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
Just a hey? I'd rather get straight to the point
hey is quite direct. tonight could easily be the night if what you are saying is true. If anything trying to set something up for later would probably backfire harder.
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post 1669816283 10-20-2022, 10:16 PM
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post 1669817833 10-20-2022, 11:21 PM
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Update: I didn't text her tonight but planning to eventually another day
post 1669817923 10-20-2022, 11:26 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
Update: I didn't text her tonight but planning to eventually another day
Doesn't sound like there's a whole lot to go on. Pretty generic exchange. But not untasteful. Seems like she handles things nicely. Why not go for it? Don't wait too long, though. Regret is the worst.
post 1669817953 10-20-2022, 11:27 PM
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I'm still angry at my ex of years ago, but by no means do I EVER want to see her again.

Maybe when I no longer feel the resentment towards this person will i know that I am ready to move on with my life.
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post 1669818043 10-20-2022, 11:32 PM
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Do it and then ghost her
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post 1669818143 10-20-2022, 11:36 PM
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it's pretty easy to bang an ex even years later
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