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post 1670677003 11-05-2022, 09:31 AM
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Emotionally and financially stable Men on the misc - any advice for a man child?

Tired of:
Not having what I want
My fear of trying, and lack of success
Blaming others for the things I don't have and cannot do
Rationalizing that I don't need what I want
Emotional maturity of a teenager
Lack of relationships
Short lived relationships because of lack of experience, tantrums, going from a 1 to 6 on the anger scale and snapping at people when I feel threatened or annoyed.
post 1670677203 11-05-2022, 09:37 AM
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Its over bro. Just LDAR
post 1670677403 11-05-2022, 09:40 AM
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post 1670677573 11-05-2022, 09:46 AM
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Stop being a P HAGGOT
post 1670677583 11-05-2022, 09:46 AM
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Read some stoic philosophy. Life is what you make of it. There are many people in much more dire straights than you.

Never stress over a relationship, there's always new pussy around the corner.

Don't be a whiney little bitch. Accept what happens and deal with it in a pragmatic way. Use reason and intelligence, never fall victim to your own emotions. One day you will find what's right for you.
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post 1670677723 11-05-2022, 09:50 AM
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Read these books:

12 Rules For Life by Jordan Peterson
Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink
Can't Hurt Me by David Goggins
Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson
No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover
The Way Of Men by Jack Donovan
The Way of The Superior Man by David Deida
Mate: What Women Want by Tucker Max and Dr. Geoffrey Miller
The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F**k by Mark Manson
Psycho-Cybernetics


You need to start working out. Go to the gym. Eat meat, fruits and vegetables. Go on walks every day. Exercise is a non negotiable. Lift weights and do cardio Eating healthy is a non negotiable.
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post 1670677783 11-05-2022, 09:51 AM
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so what is your question ??
Cherish your life. Live to tell your story
post 1670678813 11-05-2022, 10:14 AM
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Sounds trite but if your environment cannot change to something more favorable, using the story of Jesus as an outlet works
post 1670679173 11-05-2022, 10:21 AM
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you either got it or you aint

and you aint got it

time to accept your peasant life
post 1670679773 11-05-2022, 10:32 AM
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Try getting a job.
post 1670680113 11-05-2022, 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted By brbgoingindry⏩
Tired of:
Not having what I want
My fear of trying, and lack of success
Blaming others for the things I don't have and cannot do
Rationalizing that I don't need what I want
Emotional maturity of a teenager
Lack of relationships
Short lived relationships because of lack of experience, tantrums, going from a 1 to 6 on the anger scale and snapping at people when I feel threatened or annoyed.
give us specifics ffs. job, relationships, location, age etc. impossible to give practical advice based on what you wrote.
post 1670681363 11-05-2022, 10:57 AM
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You are on a forum with a bunch of lates 20 to late 30s males who demand virgin wives and 10k a day salaries. Proceed with caution.

Best advice I can give you

Sometimes the woman of your dreams can be a little bit to real. (sic Jamey Johnson)
Nothing is handed to you…it needs to be earned
Most women are not filthy whores
Family over everything
It’s ok to deal with Jews as long as you are smart enough to get their money
Exercise
Don’t overthink
A penny saved is a penny earned
Karma isby real, destroy your enemy or utilize him.
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Phantom north, I'll be there when you hunt them down.

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post 1670681383 11-05-2022, 10:57 AM
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Originally Posted By brbgoingindry⏩
Emotionally and financially stable Men on the misc -
post 1670681683 11-05-2022, 11:04 AM
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Sounds like your real issue is you need someone to hold you accountable. Either go look for someone to keep you focused on your goals, or work to become more self-accountable. I'd recommend the latter.
post 1670684233 11-05-2022, 12:03 PM
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post 1670684333 11-05-2022, 12:05 PM
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Usually when guys are still manchildren, they spend too much time around family.

You probably need to move somewhere else and try to make it on your own for a while.
post 1670686803 11-05-2022, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
Read some stoic philosophy. Life is what you make of it. There are many people in much more dire straights than you.

Never stress over a relationship, there's always new pussy around the corner.

Don't be a whiney little bitch. Accept what happens and deal with it in a pragmatic way. Use reason and intelligence, never fall victim to your own emotions. One day you will find what's right for you.
Best advice here if you truly dig into it. Check out stoic and universe energy, manifestation. You need to reprogram yourself on how you see things, react to things, accept things and deal with things. That is very hard to truly do.

Check out a book called " You are a Badass, How to Stop Doubting Yourself". It is all mental!!
♦ ɴɣϲ ϲrew ♦

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post 1670686903 11-05-2022, 12:58 PM
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Mommy's basement is warm and has GTA V online. What else does a manchild need?
post 1670687553 11-05-2022, 01:11 PM
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care less about what other people think, and don’t be scared to suck at something or embarrass yourself when you try something new (ded fkn Srs)
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