tbh given the context, I'd say he was right in what he was saying there.

Cheating is horrible, and I believe it happens in 90%+ of relationships at some point these days. However, he had a solid point there about it being pretty bullchit to make your partner know about it. I mean yeah we wanna know truth and all, but his point about not burdening someone you're supposed to love with that trash does make sense in its own right.

I mean you hear stories about stuff like grandpas in their 80's divorcing their oldcel wives of 30 - 50+ years over finding old love letters his sloot oldcel wife used to share with an affair partner she kept years prior. I mean, wtf? Old man dedicated his LIFE to you, he will he be dead soon, and you thank him by allowing it to be very possible for him to find out about some bloke you fuukkked when the marriage was in a rut or something? Pretty chitty behavior imo.

if I spent my life with a disloyal sloot only for her to reveal it 50 years into our marriage, im cutting her life short srs

Might as well just pre-turn yourself in now, because if for some reason you're able to trick any slut into actually marrying your retard ass, there is no chance she will be loyal whatsoever. And you being a big retard, she'll likely get away with it for 50+ years before you figure anything out.

Cliffs: op does research on men.