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post 1672514083 12-09-2022, 03:21 AM
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Girl cancelled our second date at the last minute

A week ago, I swapped numbers with a girl who works at a coffee shop I visit regularly. We arranged a date and met up a couple of days later and had a good time together. We planned to go out again for drinks tonight at a cocktail bar and she spent the last few days been telling me how excited she is.... but this morning I woke up to a text to say she can't make it:

"Good morning. I have some bad news. With having to pay off all my debts, it is impossible to keep up with everything and it has left me with literally no money, so I'm gonna have to cancel tonight. I'm so sorry. I really wanted to see you honestly. I feel so s*** about it"

Another one bites the dust?
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post 1672514133 12-09-2022, 03:23 AM
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Was she gonna pay anyway?

You could tell her to come to your place instead. Nothing to lose.
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post 1672514293 12-09-2022, 03:28 AM
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Offer to make cocktails at your place

But do you really want to fuk a broke bish
post 1672514313 12-09-2022, 03:28 AM
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It's over. Go NC.
post 1672515293 12-09-2022, 04:01 AM
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at least she didn't neg you for not posting pics

unlike me
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post 1672515483 12-09-2022, 04:11 AM
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Offer her a yes/no proposal where you pay for her **** or invite her to your place.
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post 1672515493 12-09-2022, 04:11 AM
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Yea, she’s not interested
post 1672515633 12-09-2022, 04:16 AM
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She sees you paying for her drinks as an invitation for something else, so to avoid that she is making it clear she will be paying. However, she cant pay (maybe..) so this negates the whole date and leaves you in the confirmed friend zone. Tricky move with multiple layers, she is a pro. Adds in the debt part too as a cherry on top.

This is either the friend zone soft landing or the request for a sugar daddy, your choice OP. Either way its a one way ticket to orbiting cucksville.
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post 1672516143 12-09-2022, 04:33 AM
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Originally Posted By naich⏩
She sees you paying for her drinks as an invitation for something else, so to avoid that she is making it clear she will be paying. However, she cant pay (maybe..) so this negates the whole date and leaves you in the confirmed friend zone. Tricky move with multiple layers, she is a pro. Adds in the debt part too as a cherry on top.

This is either the friend zone soft landing or the request for a sugar daddy, your choice OP. Either way its a one way ticket to orbiting cucksville.
Damn you read that bish like a book. Yeah a girl with high interest would have kept the date and let you kno on the date she don’t have money.
post 1672516193 12-09-2022, 04:38 AM
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Literally no money but yet seems to keep the phone bill and WIFI going. JK. Seriously though if she's claiming no money she better give concrete examples than just I'm broke. Women should know by now guys pay for everything anyways. Either she doesn't have money to get there or whatever or she's blowin' you off.
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post 1672516263 12-09-2022, 04:40 AM
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She's testing the waters to see whether you'll "man up" and offer to pay for everything.
post 1672516293 12-09-2022, 04:41 AM
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Find a new coffee shop broski
post 1672516483 12-09-2022, 04:47 AM
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Originally Posted By 4everalone⏩
Was she gonna pay anyway?

You could tell her to come to your place instead. Nothing to lose.
She claimed to be broke when arranging the first meet, so we went somewhere cheap even though I offered to pay.

Either she’s genuinely poor or there’s another motive. I can’t be fuked either way lol
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post 1672516953 12-09-2022, 05:07 AM
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Originally Posted By BraneyGumble⏩
She's testing the waters to see whether you'll "man up" and offer to pay for everything.
men always pay for everything, she doesn’t need to test that

OP just don’t text her, if she was interested she would have still gone out with you and said she has no money
post 1672517113 12-09-2022, 05:13 AM
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Chad hit her up with a better offer
post 1672517163 12-09-2022, 05:15 AM
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Originally Posted By aranadiscoteca⏩
Chad hit her up with a better offer
nah fuk her, she ain’t worth chit.
post 1672517263 12-09-2022, 05:17 AM
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Chad came a-calling.
post 1672518183 12-09-2022, 05:46 AM
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Originally Posted By LargePeter⏩
It's a test

Don't you dare offer to pay for her
post 1672518253 12-09-2022, 05:48 AM
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Some other wanker was in her as she sent that text.
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post 1672518393 12-09-2022, 05:51 AM
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If she liked you she wouldn't blow you off.


This is an excuse for her to go bang some other guy.
post 1672518493 12-09-2022, 05:53 AM
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Originally Posted By mrjolly2323⏩
Some other wanker was in her as she sent that text.
this

OP please don’t fold and text her. Any sloot would expect a man to pay. Just go NC




Originally Posted By LargePeter⏩
That's cute
That’s fax
post 1672518513 12-09-2022, 05:54 AM
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Tell her you know a way she can make some money.
post 1672518553 12-09-2022, 05:56 AM
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Originally Posted By TheBrentmeister⏩
She claimed to be broke when arranging the first meet, so we went somewhere cheap even though I offered to pay.

Either she’s genuinely poor or there’s another motive. I can’t be fuked either way lol
Yeah seems sus.
Just go NC now and wait. If she is into you she will contact you within a couple of days. If not then move on. & by moving on I mean deleting her number & social media. If you dont you will contact her down the road when ur weak & horny

I think i would tell her to make it up to me by coming to my place. Easy to tell how interested she is by how she responds to directness
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post 1672518623 12-09-2022, 05:57 AM
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Imagine a sloot can’t afford a cocktail.

You think if she had a date with Brad Pitt she’d text him. Sorry I can’t make it tonight I don’t have any money for a drink.
Nope. It’s ovah. I’d try to fuk her and drop her off on the next block and then go no contact.
Or just go no contact now. Who’s got time for shiit like that anyway.
post 1672518673 12-09-2022, 05:58 AM
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#1....lol at dating a barista

#2 and on a more serious note.....this was a test and unless you offer to pay for the evening, in her eyes you are going to fail. If you're cool with that...go right ahead.

#3....you've avoided an undesirable companion.....she's makes minimum wage and has a spending problem.
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
#1....lol at dating a barista

#2 and on a more serious note.....this was a test and unless you offer to pay for the evening, in her eyes you are going to fail. If you're cool with that...go right ahead.

#3....you've avoided an undesirable companion.....she's makes minimum wage and has a spending problem.
lol at caring what a sloot does for a living

Even cristiano ronaldo started dating some brokie. Nobody gives a fuk about dating a career woman or some chit, women are not meant to be providers.
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CashApp her 350.
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lmao im an incel and even I have a better response than most the retards and OP in here....

"No problem ill pay for tonight if you want to pay at a later date"
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Originally Posted By Guyfawkes1010⏩
lmao im an incel and even I have a better response than most the retards and OP in here....

"No problem ill pay for tonight if you want to pay at a later date"
this is why youre an incel
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It could literally mean any of the responses in this thread and you have 3.50% chance of guessing the correct answer srs.
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