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post 1673842763 12-30-2022, 10:06 PM
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The hot girl ugly friend delemma….

So I seem to be losing out on these girls lately. The hot one is into me but she’s with the ugly friend so I end up ignoring the hot one completely. Have you ever tried just not including the ugly one and have success? Like just tell the hot one it’s time to say bye to your friend now…. She’s never gonna just ditch her friend right, or has this worked for you, or do you always just include her somewhat. I admit I don’t have much experience with this combo, I usually don’t mess with groups that’s gonna leave the other one left out.
post 1673843513 12-30-2022, 10:25 PM
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post 1673843633 12-30-2022, 10:29 PM
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Originally Posted By whitepaper
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post 1673843653 12-30-2022, 10:29 PM
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post 1673843693 12-30-2022, 10:31 PM
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post 1673843803 12-30-2022, 10:34 PM
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How do you guys always include both and not make the other one feel left out. How do you even game in this scenario. Legit ignorant with how to deal with this approach.
post 1673843983 12-30-2022, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted By jesb7826
How do you guys always include both and not make the other one feel left out. How do you even game in this scenario. Legit ignorant with how to deal with this approach.
Don't try to kick either out. You are the meat in that sandwich.

Just don't be an autist and gently feel it out. Alcohol or whatever you're into helps lubricate their inhibitions.
post 1673844373 12-30-2022, 10:48 PM
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Originally Posted By LargePeter
Tell the fugly one you're into her when the hot one is there for the lulz

They'll appreciate your confidence and sense of humour
Fkn lol.
post 1673844393 12-30-2022, 10:49 PM
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At least find common interests with ugly to have 2-3 topics for communication, сause throw scenario will not work.
post 1673844703 12-30-2022, 10:54 PM
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If I’m completely going for both of them/including both of them would they think I want both. Give me examples of how you gamed these girls. When do you escalate to the hot one, or do you stay neutral the whole time and just feel it out.
post 1673845063 12-30-2022, 11:03 PM
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Originally Posted By jesb7826
How do you guys always include both and not make the other one feel left out. How do you even game in this scenario. Legit ignorant with how to deal with this approach.
No, no. You mis understood.Fukboth
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post 1673845333 12-30-2022, 11:08 PM
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Originally Posted By whitepaper
No, no. You mis understood.Fukboth
Sometimes it’s really bad. The last one the hot one was like an 8 and the ugly like 3 or 4.
post 1673845583 12-30-2022, 11:13 PM
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Originally Posted By jesb7826
If I’m completely going for both of them/including both of them would they think I want both. Give me examples of how you gamed these girls. When do you escalate to the hot one, or do you stay neutral the whole time and just feel it out.
1. Invite both to x activity
2. Invite both back for drinks
3. Make SMALL escalations
4. Look for receptive signals, e.g. if they start looking at each other and giggling, you are good
5. Make another thread on misc and we will guide your penor right into the hot one. Probably.
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