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post 1679605643 03-25-2023, 07:58 PM
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Woman that initiated for a date, takes 24 hours to reply?

Backstory. This woman hit me up at the gym for a coffee.

However I was unable to make the first date because I got extremely sick (Bed ridden) for weeks.


Now I completely understand she wouldn't want to continue again. However she followed me again in the gym and asked for anther coffee.

So I did & it went well etc. But this woman literally takes 24 hours to reply.


What the fk is this, some sort of test?

a reaction?

I just don't get the mind games.

Remember this woman is Asian that's 40... (im 37)

I was hanging out with a 22y/o girl a couple of weeks back and a 29.. So It's not like I'm ugly or anything.


Anyone got any experiences with this sort of behavior?
post 1679605723 03-25-2023, 08:01 PM
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She has other priorities. Wtf you doing with a 40 yr old anyway.
post 1679606073 03-25-2023, 08:11 PM
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Originally Posted By LoginCell⏩
She has other priorities. Wtf you doing with a 40 yr old anyway.
other priorities, such as? It doesn't take a legit 24 hours to reply, especially on a weekend..

Dunno man. I thought I was trying to be friendly & build a social friendship as I've been single for 3 years
post 1679606193 03-25-2023, 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted By BlackHeart.au⏩
other priorities, such as? It doesn't take a legit 24 hours to reply, especially on a weekend..

Dunno man. I thought I was trying to be friendly & build a social friendship as I've been single for 3 years & havn't even had sex LOL (SRS)
Other guys, kids, family. You aren't at the top of the list for a 40 yr old broad. Move on.
post 1679606213 03-25-2023, 08:12 PM
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The short answer is, they do it because they can do it.
post 1679606353 03-25-2023, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted By LoginCell⏩
Other guys, kids, family. You aren't at the top of the list for a 40 yr old broad. Move on.
She doesn't have kids LOL. I get your point however..

I am moving on and haven't responded to it. Just was a first encounter ive experienced
post 1679606443 03-25-2023, 08:18 PM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
The short answer is, they do it because they can do it.
Probably explains it lol...
post 1679606983 03-25-2023, 08:30 PM
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she could of literally been busy or she saw you failed to close the deal and bailed. at the end of the day as a man you have to make the move.
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post 1679607023 03-25-2023, 08:31 PM
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You're just not a priority

Maybe once she gets to know you better that'll change

But I wouldn't deal with someone that takes 24 hours to reply, nobody is that busy
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post 1679607173 03-25-2023, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
she could of literally been busy or she saw you failed to close the deal and bailed. at the end of the day as a man you have to make the move.
" she saw you failed to close the deal and bailed" Sounds about right.

Probably didn't help she was all nicely dressed up, while I was still in gym gear LOL..

Oh well, I'll probably see her there tomorrow ...
post 1679607233 03-25-2023, 08:37 PM
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You make a move first date or be a beta?
post 1679607293 03-25-2023, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
You're just not a priority

Maybe once she gets to know you better that'll change

But I wouldn't deal with someone that takes 24 hours to reply, nobody is that busy
Exactly. Woman are glued to their phones 24/7

She initialed a date twice, yet responds like a tortoise. She's not busy... Either playing games or not a priority...

It's just bizzare because I never chased her, when it was the opposite.
post 1679607323 03-25-2023, 08:40 PM
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Girls are fkn weird man. 19 y/o at an event I went to initiated, made conversation for hours (left and then came back multiple times to keep talking), asked me out on a date we scheduled for three days later, and then ghosted day of. The convo was fun so whatever, but what's the point?
post 1679607463 03-25-2023, 08:41 PM
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Maybe you're just ugly, Op....
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post 1679607493 03-25-2023, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted By AD117⏩
Girls are fkn weird man. 19 y/o at an event I went to initiated, made conversation for hours (left and then came back multiple times to keep talking), asked me out on a date we scheduled for three days later, and then ghosted day of. The convo was fun so whatever, but what's the point?
I've had this happen before, it pissed me off so much because I was going through a phase of not talking to anyone, so I was like hey she initiated it, why not

Then she just played for me

Typical sloot
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post 1679607743 03-25-2023, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted By whitepaper⏩
Maybe you're just ugly, Op....
LOL probably.
Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
I've had this happen before, it pissed me off so much because I was going through a phase of not talking to anyone, so I was like hey she initiated it, why not

Then she just played for me

Typical sloot
I agree man. I was the exact same... I never initiate anything due to being burnt in a long relationship..

a 22 year old girl asked me to come to her private bday party with a few friends & hung out later. She stops talking for 5 days, then the night before "are we still on for tomorrow?"

I got out of there quickly and said i'm busy.

LOL now a 40 year old does it....

I've lost all hope,,, whats the fkn point in all this?
post 1679608013 03-25-2023, 08:54 PM
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prolly has kids (yuck)

and fuk ppl like that srs
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She's playing it cold because she's not sure you're into her. She doesn't know for sure that you were really sick and you prob aren't all that attracted either. So she's being careful to not feel rejected. **** her brains out if you get the chance (and want to). Or move on.

She's 40 bro.
post 1679612013 03-25-2023, 10:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuggettabowteet⏩
She's playing it cold because she's not sure you're into her. She doesn't know for sure that you were really sick and you prob aren't all that attracted either. So she's being careful to not feel rejected. **** her brains out if you get the chance (and want to). Or move on.

She's 40 bro.
Sounds like the most logical theory here as I act more like a friend, rather than being interested.

Woman doesn't chase and act this way at the same time.

I'm not going to play this game however. There's a reason why she's single at 40 with no kids.

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Originally Posted By BlackHeart.au⏩
Sounds like the most logical theory here as I act more like a friend, rather than being interested.

Woman doesn't chase and act this way at the same time.

I'm not going to play this game however. There's a reason why she's single at 40 with no kids.

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Yet you posted on the misque all sad. The best way forward is do you and be indifferent to whether you get a response or not.
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How do u know she is single? Maybe she's fking married, I mean she's a 40 yr old asian woman. Maybe she wants out of her marriage. But can't text around her husband. This makes a lot more sense to me.
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She was busy getting all 3 holes filled.
post 1679613473 03-25-2023, 11:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Schnitzl⏩
Yet you posted on the misque all sad. The best way forward is do you and be indifferent to whether you get a response or not.
I agree. Well said.
Originally Posted By optimus1⏩
How do u know she is single? Maybe she's fking married, I mean she's a 40 yr old asian woman. Maybe she wants out of her marriage. But can't text around her husband. This makes a lot more sense to me.
I picked her up from her apartment & dropped her off. So I dunno... Bizzare stuff.

She's Chinese/Malaysian LOL
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