There is a threshold a man may cross in his life where marriage is no longer a viable option. I fall into this category. Relatively young (<40), wealthy, successful. I know any woman I meet will see me as an unlimited credit card.

Love cannot be obtained at this point. She is with you for the lifestyle, not the shared memories of early adulthood. Her affections are false. Her intentions are transparent. Marry (hook), reproduce (line), divorce (sinker).

So what choices do guys like I have? Escortmax or find someone with an equal socio-economic status but these women tend to be homely or are on multiple divorces.

Born too young to have that Blade Runner AI Pussy.

Trust fund banking family checking in.

It’s possible or atleast was 15 years ago. It was hard to find back then too, didn’t keep a girlfriend longer than a week until I was like 22 and met the woman I’m still married too 15 years later.

But if you didn't meet your wife by your 30s, you end up in this purgatory.

a cautionary tale for us all, thank you for sharing it

Cope. Unless you live in an alternate reality where you need to tattoo your net worth onto your forehead. The lies these incels come up with.

nah, he's actually right
The ask what you do for a living and where you live and it's all over.
They are either looking for money or they are trashy whores or mentally ill on meds.
It's over.
Marry young and build a life together, or don't get married.

'Tell me where I am lying.

Pics of lifestyle

What's the problem? If you're in your 40s, and you're a bum, you think that's attractive to a female???

Or maybe don't tell them you're so wealthy?

I mean it's common sense. How are you so wealthy but lack basic common sense?

I feel like I'm in the same boat. But assuming you're ok trading off sharing a bit of your lifestyle for her loyalty it might not be so bad. I still wouldn't recommend marrying, but committed relationship for as long as she'll stick around for the lifestyle is a fair trade-off. As long as deep down you don't bother getting attached and know the relationship is what it is, I think you can still have fun times together. I consider that better than escort maxing and sort of a middle ground where you don't go full commit being married (and vulnerable to her taking everything) but you have some level of connection beyond just paying an escort

The trade off is that you get to **** and have fun with a female in her 20s. And if you DO want a family, you want to reproduce with someone who is in their 20s. It reduces the chances of having a ****ed up child.

This.

Living within your means is one thing. But if you're extra wealthy you might be in a position to own multiple properties, or perhaps even to afford both a mortgage and rent an apartment simultaneously - same too for cars, only drive your cheaper vehicle around her. Take her home to your cheaper estate / apartment. Give little info about your career and income, without lying. If she's with you for years despite all this, then your wealth / net worth will be a great surprise to her when you marry.

ALSO: Never marry someone who isn't careermaxxing IMO. Treat marriage like a business agreement. If she's a burden, lots of debt, no income, no ambition, no goals, or failing their goals constantly, stay away. Try to marriagemax by finding a financial match.

Bishes have a 6th sense for how much a man is worth. This ain't Coming to America where you can cosplay a Mcdonalds worker. They know if a dude is a janitor or the prince of zamunda.

Uhh... it's really not hard to tell if someone is well off based on their lifestyle. He doesn't have to tell her a dollar number for her to figure it out. Want to live in a nice neighborhood with a nice house? That's a tip off without having to tell her sh*t. Want to go on nice vacations and stay in nice hotels? Another tip off. For that matter, want to own a vacation home? Dead giveaway.

What do you want him to do? Hide all of these things he's earned the right to enjoy just so she doesn't figure it out?

LMAO at talking about common sense in your post when clearly you have none.



So cliff notes from bananastand:
-OP all you need to do is make sure you don't own a nice home, nice car, travel to nice locations, or in any way spend on anything luxurious for yourself and you're in! She'll never know the difference!!!!

Buy a nice home etc when you have someone locked down and are setting up for a family, lol @ doing these things as a single dude and being surprised you attract girls with those expectations


OP in here talking to himself on two different accounts