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Thread: Has anyone here told their wife they don't want monogamy?

post 1679681613 03-27-2023, 07:50 AM
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Has anyone here told their wife they don't want monogamy?

And been successful? I mean telling her from time to time I'll smash another girl? Is this truly possible?
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post 1679681703 03-27-2023, 07:51 AM
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inb4 she's banging a new guy every week and you're stuck swiping on apps trying to get beyond "Hey how's it going?"
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post 1679681783 03-27-2023, 07:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Robmnrd⏩
inb4 she's banging a new guy every week and you're stuck swiping on apps trying to get beyond "Hey how's it going?"
Lol, I don't think I ever met someone you has been successful with this but I also don't know millionaires or people making like 250k a year... maybe they are the only people who can pull this off.
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post 1679681953 03-27-2023, 07:58 AM
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I think every guy goes through the realization that while he doesn't want to be locked down, gash will never be flying at him like in his fantasies. You're risking losing the one chick that'll give you sex because of fantasy.
post 1679682023 03-27-2023, 08:00 AM
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Have dealt with non-monogamy both as a participant with a past girlfriend and have seen it in couples frequently because I was in the kink space for a long time.

Basically guys think it's great because they'll be able to smash other women, but unless you're a top tier looking guy it's the same as dating, other women aren't going to want to bang you - especially single ones - because they either think you're cheating or just don't want to share a guy. Meanwhile, even a low level female if she puts it out there will have dozens of guys knowing she's just looking for casual sex and be all over her, so she can get sex whenever she likes.

Had a FWB for a while who told her husband she wanted to be non-monogamous and of course he agreed. It took her less than a day to hook up witha new guy and he was trolling dating apps for months before any girl would even give him a sniff because he was an IT geek loser who was lucky to even find a girl in the first place. She was amazing in bed but I was always shocked at how the guy basically let himself be cuckolded.

95% of the time it ends up badly. I only know one couple who have navigated it successfully and they have solid rules and are swingers, plus have a great relationship in the first place.
post 1679682093 03-27-2023, 08:02 AM
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Nah adultery is a sin in the eyes of God with serious consequences.

The real victim is the kids. The broken homes, divorces, their parents letting them down.

Marriage is a sacred thing. A lot of people don't respect the sacred til they mess around and find out.
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
-They fuk other people on the side
-They have a "great relationship"

Beavercels values on full display.
Actually, they fuk other people fully knowing about it and enjoy themselves. Everything is vetted and cleared before they do anything and either one can say they aren't comfortable with it and it's done.

Much better communication than most married couples who would rather cheat or hide their feelings.
post 1679682503 03-27-2023, 08:12 AM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
Had a FWB for a while who told her husband she wanted to be non-monogamous and of course he agreed. It took her less than a day to hook up witha new guy and he was trolling dating apps for months before any girl would even give him a sniff because he was an IT geek loser who was lucky to even find a girl in the first place. She was amazing in bed but I was always shocked at how the guy basically let himself be cuckolded.
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post 1679682753 03-27-2023, 08:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
So yes...

-They fuk other people on the side
-They have a "great relationship"

Beavercels values on full display.
As usual, you judge something you know absolutely nothing about. Par for the course.
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Since you're cool with fuking other women, mind if your wife comes over and I give her the best dicking she's had in years?
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Originally Posted By Robmnrd⏩
inb4 she's banging a new guy every week and you're stuck swiping on apps trying to get beyond "Hey how's it going?"
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i know people that got their GFs to do this IRL

they only allow their husbands/boyfriends to fuk another girl if they are on vacation or something and they say dont tell them about it
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
Have dealt with non-monogamy both as a participant with a past girlfriend and have seen it in couples frequently because I was in the kink space for a long time.

Basically guys think it's great because they'll be able to smash other women, but unless you're a top tier looking guy it's the same as dating, other women aren't going to want to bang you - especially single ones - because they either think you're cheating or just don't want to share a guy. Meanwhile, even a low level female if she puts it out there will have dozens of guys knowing she's just looking for casual sex and be all over her, so she can get sex whenever she likes.

Had a FWB for a while who told her husband she wanted to be non-monogamous and of course he agreed. It took her less than a day to hook up witha new guy and he was trolling dating apps for months before any girl would even give him a sniff because he was an IT geek loser who was lucky to even find a girl in the first place. She was amazing in bed but I was always shocked at how the guy basically let himself be cuckolded.

95% of the time it ends up badly. I only know one couple who have navigated it successfully and they have solid rules and are swingers, plus have a great relationship in the first place.
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Originally Posted By Robmnrd⏩
inb4 she's banging a new guy every week and you're stuck swiping on apps trying to get beyond "Hey how's it going?"
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Supply and demand would not be kind in this situation. Would not recommend unless you're a millionaire with a couple hundred K to throw around at sugar babies for the duration of your marriage.
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this is why i don't understand why polygamy is illegal

people do it anyway, they just don't have a marriage contract. just save everybody the broken hearts and feelings and have everybody agree to it if they want.
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
Actually, they fuk other people fully knowing about it and enjoy themselves. Everything is vetted and cleared before they do anything and either one can say they aren't comfortable with it and it's done.

Much better communication than most married couples who would rather cheat or hide their feelings.
Have seen similar. To be totally honest, I have seen the highest levels of openness and communication between successful consensual non-monogamous relationships than I have seen in monogamous relationships. Takes a very specific type of person and couple to make it work, and if it works for them, more power to them. Better than being miserable, or lying / cheating.

In all reality, how consenting adults prefer to get down in the bedroom impacts me ZERO, and I have much better things to do than to judge anyone for their sexual preferences and kinks.
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Yes it’s possible. And and one way road meaning I don’t accept her being polygamous but I am.

I was transparent and shared my views on this at the onset of our relationship. She’s a conservative type and I guess a bit submissive which made things easier. She’s also fkn hot.

Then one day she « caught me » seeing some pics on my phone slaying a younger bish and was really sad for a while …but chose to stay with me in the end saying loves me too much and I gotta hide it better. We have a daughter too.

I obviously don’t run around fooking prostitutes, but when there is an opportunity and the chick is hot I take it.

I lucked out basically.
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