On NFL weekends, I go down to the bar on Sundays to bloatmaxx and talk to aging white men. It's pretty fun.

Without pro football to fill my day, I joined a rec sports kickball league on Sundays and it sucks a phatty. We had 3 hours of playoff games yesterday (for a team that was like 1-6, strong), and I spent about 2 hours and 55 minutes of it hating life.

BRB league in that neighborhood is full of degenerates. I may be the only player in the league without sleeve tats, srs.

BRB the women there are party sloots with facial piercings and sleeves.

BRB half the team no-shows for 11AM games because they're hung over.

BRB I'm the worst player on the team, as usual.

BRB I stick out like a sore thumb as a STEMcel.

BRB don't fit in.

BRB no one wants to talk to me there.

BRB liability at actually playing the game.

BRB no reason to be there except dashed hopes of getting laid.

The nadir of it was when guys started to fill out an impromptu kickball round, to fill an hour gap between playoff rounds. They literally just pooled 2 teams together and did the old recess style draft picking. I got picked dead last, which was like a catapult Nam flashback.

But as I was standing around in the outfield yesterday generally hating life, I asked myself,what else would I be doing instead?Fuk, after the game yesterday, I just went home, got drunk on an old fashioned, and watched The Big Lebowski. As far as use of time goes, it's not a big improvement.

So I need something better to do on my Sundays, but I don't know what. Hit me with ideas. I don't know if it's lifting, some side job to make money, Christianmaxxing, whatever. Sell me on something. Just has to be better than getting kickball-minned again, and has to be better than the BBMG rot.

When people suggest to join a kickball league I always thought that was joke. You're telling me it's a real thing?

Watched the Big Lebowski last night before I went to bed. Ded srs. Forgot just how funny that movie is.

You started disliking the football match...you went home and drank again.....you wanted to drink....so just drink, eat and enjoy your entertainment on Sundays...coz that's all you want to do....that's all will make you find peace....

Wow, I haven’t played that game since elementary school. Never knew adults played it

Yeah, it's popular. There's literally 8 different leagues here.

It seems to mostly be a couple activity. Not a lot of single guys, very few single women. People sign up in couples or small groups of roomies.Las Vegas is 6 hours up the freeway, srs.There's a difference between peace and numbing yourself, and that chit's B.

Aren't you trying to lose weight? Do you lift? Go to the gym on Sundays. Go for long walks/hike. Bike ride. Go to a rock climbing gym. Lots of active things you could do instead of staying home all day and they'd help with the weight loss. You say you're terrible at kickball, are there any sports you think you could do well? What about softball?

I'm not giving him life advice. He asked for ideas to be active/busy on Sundays and I threw out some ideas.

Well he did join an adult kickball league in hopes of getting laid. Anyone that isn't autistic could probably give him better advice than that. Of course we are all autistic so he probably got that idea from the misc.

Said this before, you need to iterate faster. It's clear you don't like this kickball league and don't have any hope of liking kickball for its own sake, so do something else. Why the hell are you wasting your time?

Legz had some good suggestions, but I'd really think about what things you could like/be good at. Maybe a traditional team sport isn't a good fit - you seem to struggle with playing them, and they're full of normies. Something like cycling/rock climbing would be less directly competitive and would probably have techier people (not implying a pajeetfest).

Try golfing, should meet some girls that way too man