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-dating chick, date goes on really well

-chick spams me all day for a week, communication is swift

-chick goes somewhere on friday night

-ever since chick's communication crashed like the stock market in 87

-I suspect she might have gotten plowed and will cancel our second date which is Sunday with a shyt excuse like ''I'm not feeling well, let's cancel/ reschuele''

-Turns out I'm a fortuneteller and does exactly this with the same exact BS excuse

-I like her message and don't bother anymore

-Same Sunday night I see her online on her PS4 playing MKX. Yeah, no chick plays MKX unless she is with some guy. Obviously my prophecy is more than obviously confirmed

-A week later, a friend tells me to message her, maybe I could still plow. Me being a retard, I listened to him

-Chick acts arrogantly when I PM'd her and said she doesn't want to hang out because she is going out with someone because I didn't message her.

-I tell her that it isn't a problem how things turned out, stuff like that always happens. Told her I figured it out that she is seeing someone ever since last week but she should have told me a day or two earlier before the date so I can rescheduele my weekend.

-Chick denies that and puts the blame on me for how the events turned out. Said she was really unwell that other day and she started dating him after our second date scheduele. Yeah, bs


Yeah so this sloot lied about the events and put the blame on me so that she doesn't feel responsible. Any point of calling sloots on their BS claims? Seems like sloots will either demonize you if you do or if you don't will believe you are some retard for not figuring it out.

You missed your turn, lol.

Move on. Never make someone a priority in your life when you're only an option to them. Don't be a pussy and hang out with her again when she eventually texts you back either.

Pretty much this. Move on.

As for calling sloots out on their BS, it’s not worth it 99.99% of the time because they will always try to argue and flip it on you.

If you absolutely must, then call her out in a calm way and then go NC. Don’t bother replying to whatever mental gymnastics she performs.

the answer is, not surprisingly, nc.

what do you gain to win by calling out some sloot you only went on one date with? you hardly know her so your words won't effect her much in the long run.

I mean, what did you hope to accomplish? Did you think she'd apologize then suck your nutter butter in gratitude?

Sometimes it does make sense to call a person out. This is not one of those times.

The only thing you can do nowadays is just leave

She has what you want (or dont). So she can twist and turn everything as long as you want it

You can't really do anything. She's gonna have to give it to you

You we’re doing fine until you listened to your friend lol.

Unfortunately you kinda have to ignore any type of initial connection you think you make with a girl on the first few dates these days.

The reality is you guys went on a one date. She doesn’t owe you anything and she sure as sht isn’t going to take anything you say to heart when you “call her out on her bs.” All she’s going to do is dig her heels in deeper and look at your reaction as “I was right about him to not go on a second date, I dodged a bullet.”

You're an idiot for one simple reason- you ASSUMED that she was dating another dude sunday due to your insecurity. You could have still had her if you rescheduled, kept talking to her, and were chill and not insecure as fuk assuming shes fking another guy. Misc fuked your mind up bro. Now you think like an incel miscer does assuming every girl has millions of guys after her which simply isnt true unless theyre a 9/10.

Now it's not worth your time prob. Wait a few weeks and hit her up and see if she wants to go out, if not then let it go and move on. It's almost impossible to get a girl back once they've changed their mind about you.

Don't correct, just ask questions. You gotta learn to hide behind questions brah and let them neg themselves. Sometimes it takes a while but never make direct statements or corrections ever.

There are a lot of insecure guys. Females can absolutely be to blame, but there are a lot of clingy dudes catching feelings way too early.

You must treat them like the feral cats they are. When a cat wants to be petted it will come to you purring, if you seek one out and try to pet it you're liable to get bit and scratched.

Even if they ask you stuff do not discuss in any form but in person because the chances are extremely high she is just bored and trying to incite some drama to entertain her self.

I planned to not interact at first since I figured out what the case was, chick literally ghosted me for two days before canceling the date. I decided to give it a chance a week later after I stopped fuming about it. Also yeah, I'm butthurt.I have played this game too much to realise that such pattern of events in dating is not coincidence. As stated the girl literally ghosted me for 2 days with only replying once before canceling the date than it turns out she dates some other dude immediately. It would be autistic to not assume she hasn't started hanging around with someone else and just called off the date because things have started working out there. Overall yeah, I just missed the train.Not a troll. I just had some work related responsibilities to do before checking the thread.

Has this devolved into the usual "women have it easier" misc Timcel thread yet?

OP confronting women is usually not a good idea.

You have virtually zero to gain and everything to lose.

That.

And confronting women like that only serves to trash your public image.

Too many guys have warped fantasies about how things "should be" versus how they really are.

Yes in a perfect world you out a woman and everyone says "bad woman", all parties learn their lessons and live happily ever after.

In the real world everyone just takes the woman's side and you're the ******* with his dick in the wind.

She’s just not that into you, OP. She never will be. Let that sink in, and deal with her accordingly.