How do you keep date costs low? Going on 3-4 dates per week even if it is coffee or some other cheap chit is getting expensive.

Is online dating getting harder or is it just me? Seems like it was easier to get a sloot over for sum fuk 2 years ago than it is today. Is it other men evolving and trying harder or are sloots not slooting as much?

just facetime them

How can I get dink wet over facetime?

If you're going to date that much it needs to be cheap for sure. First date at least. Then you ratchet up the vibe and hopefully next date is dinner that you cook for them along with a cheap bottle of wine and some second date sex.

There's lots of stuff you can do for free, especially in the summer. Festivals and things like farmer's markets are free to walk around and check out, and girls love them. I also had a cute dog that I would suggest we take to the local dog park.

OP sounds like he's on welfare.....has time to go on lots of dates but not enough money

screen for who is going to work ahead of time

Who the hell has the desire and motivation to do that?

Walks, picnics, play frisbree, walk around thrift shops, walk around the mall. My favorite date ever, we met up for lunch and spent the afternoon in thrift shops just trying on goofy hats and outfits. It was fun. Of course, we met at a bar. I don't do that online ****.

take them on a park date and fk them behind a tree

srs

so what we're supposed to take OP at his word on this?

Don't understand how dudes could go on dates constantly and not get bored of banal sloots. I stopped using apps because of that reason

It's easier. You have an opportunity to show some personality.

Great fuarking ideas brah!Women who aren't sloots are hard to come by srs. They are talking to 50 different brahs as well so I can't go oneitis.
Single men?

It's easier to vet women. You won't get surprised by a catfish, you get a sense of their vibe before approaching. You can excuse yourself, no harm no foul, if you're not into her. Just say it's great to meet her but you need to get back to your friends. No lame coffee date or awkwardness.

not just you

its been absolute dog**** since 2019 at LEAST.

Women have prolly already locked up their fwbs so they dont care for casual anymore. Prolly also some weird sht happened over lockdowns with onlyfans and sugardaddy explosion.
They only wanna monetize their bodies or time.

Or if they are normal, they only want super serious (if youre even able to get matches still) and are annoying to deal with.

coffee dates were always aids though. Brb sitting in some quiet coffee shop with no way to escalate and everyone listening to your awkward first date convos inches away.

I always prefer outdoor or walking/ activity dates if you cant get them to your house. A beach is solid or just walking around downtown. I liked finding a court and playing basketball with some. Why not literally do something you like instead of some stupid stereotypical date sht

but at this point, I'm thinkin cold approaches at the gym are worth it if I ever was looking again. Cuz I can't deal with sloppy, unhealthy sloots

another thing to understand is that for a lot of womenthere is a reason she's on a dating app in the first place. Apps give women the opportunity to hide whatever flaws and make themselves look as good as their instagram profile.

Men go on dating apps to play the numbers game (and waste time with daft **** sluts, too)

first thought of mine too lol

It is true. You can't have one faurk up in the beginning or she will next you brah. Even then, smooth game and a great physique can only take you so far

I make more than the median in my area but over time, dating many people in a short span of time turns dating into a sunk cost.

That is true but also if you are her type and it depends on what she wants. Women own online dating, we are simply playing it

based

This is why you need to have a regular rotation. My sweet spot was three girls. One more serious for regular dates/sex, one in the exploration phase always where she was chill and could replace number one, and then one solid friend with benefits who knew she was just a side piece (often lost because they started dating someone seriously).

More than about three girls I was banging regularly and it got a bit crazy.