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Forum ยป Should a guy who finally gets his sh*t right in his 30s sleep around?
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post 1682713523 05-14-2023, 06:12 PM
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Should a guy who finally gets his sh*t right in his 30s sleep around?

Guy spends his 20s down on his luck for one reason or another, and is basically an incel.

By some miracle and a lot of hard work, he becomes conventionally attractive at 30. (in great shape, pretty good looks, decently successful making good money, more confident and secure, moves out of mommy's house, takes overall better care of himself, etc.) However, he still has little sexual or romantic experience.

Should that guy spend his time trying to sleep around and/or date as many women as possible and maybe settle down later on, or is he better off focusing on a LTR and trying to find a woman to build a family with?
post 1682713813 05-14-2023, 06:16 PM
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unfortunately women that age don't want to sleep around anymore

they did that from high school to late 20s already. So us late bloomers are screwed
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post 1682713933 05-14-2023, 06:19 PM
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post 1682714063 05-14-2023, 06:21 PM
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I'd say it's on your personality. If sleeping around is what you desire, do that. If relationships are what you desire, pursue them.
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
unfortunately women that age don't want to sleep around anymore

they did that from high school to late 20s already. So us late bloomers are screwed
u wut m8? lmao you dont have to go for women your age. In fact you shouldnt even go near women your age, those are the clingiest, most toxic and with more baggage women in the market.



And OP, thats for every man to decide for himself. Id advice you to put yourself out there and meet as many women as possible and try to not get your emotions involved, try to do some research about the dating market, how it works, what works, improve your sex game, etc.

If you want kids, and you do meet a quality woman, and i mean an absolute diamond of a woman, then yeah sure, marry and have kids, again if thats what you wanna do. You should at least experience women of different archetypes, personalities, etc to figure out what you want and what you dont want.
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post 1682714483 05-14-2023, 06:27 PM
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youre too late

its only fatties and single moms now
post 1682715603 05-14-2023, 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
unfortunately women that age don't want to sleep around anymore

they did that from high school to late 20s already. So us late bloomers are screwed
I think this is mostly true by and large, but doesn't matter since the consensus on the misc is 30s/40s men can and should date early-mid twenties women anyways.

Other than what's online, or told by yourself and others, there's not this magical aura that exists to signal a man's prior sexual experience. There's only indicators like lack of confidence and acting beta. With enough re-wiring and effort, you can be a slayer in your 30s srs.

Then the question becomes: LTR vs sleeping around. That's subject to you. I think sleeping around has higher risks of: STIs, pregnancy scares, bad sexual encounters, emotional trauma on both sides. Other than losing my virginity, I fully intended on LTRs with all women I slept with. Even turned down easy sex with certain ones that I knew I'd never commit to a LTR with srs.
post 1682715713 05-14-2023, 06:51 PM
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I'm 36 and married and have had two 18 y/o's in my DMs since the start of 2023 already (among others, but only two 18 year olds)

You should be a reaper in your 30's.
post 1682716103 05-14-2023, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
I'm 36 and married and have had two 18 y/o's in my DMs since the start of 2023 already (among others, but only two 18 year olds)

You should be a reaper in your 30's.
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