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post 1682743813 05-15-2023, 10:15 AM
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ITT we define HVM (high value men)

I'll start.

A high value man doesn't chase women. He chases his purpose and selects from high value women who flock to him.

A high value man has his house in order. He lives below his means, and keeps his home clean, organized and well maintained.

A high value man believes in strengthening his mind and body. Focusing his time on self improvement: acquiring more knowledge, more resources and more physical strength. A high value man knows that life can be hard and preparedness for adversity can be the difference between sinking and swimming.
post 1682745493 05-15-2023, 10:49 AM
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That all sounds good. But I think it’s just be chad who Sloots want to bang as well as lock down
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post 1682745523 05-15-2023, 10:50 AM
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post 1682745823 05-15-2023, 10:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Alphametric
I'll start.

A high value man doesn't chase women. He chases his purpose and selects from high value women who flock to him.

A high value man has his house in order. He lives below his means, and keeps his home clean, organized and well maintained.

A high value man believes in strengthening his mind and body. Focusing his time on self improvement: acquiring more knowledge, more resources and more physical strength. A high value man knows that life can be hard and preparedness for adversity can be the difference between sinking and swimming.
So by your definition, it could be a poor 25 year old, as long as he’s good looking enough for women to flock to him, he keeps his ****ty house clean and is working on himself.


Nah man
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
post 1682745923 05-15-2023, 10:58 AM
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post 1682746083 05-15-2023, 11:02 AM
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post 1682746163 05-15-2023, 11:03 AM
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post 1682746213 05-15-2023, 11:05 AM
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On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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post 1682746233 05-15-2023, 11:05 AM
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post 1682746253 05-15-2023, 11:06 AM
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Tall, handsome, athletic
intelligent and successful professionally
Has a strong social presence and status


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post 1682746273 05-15-2023, 11:06 AM
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a high value man is a term used exclusively by incels and betas to attempt to dunk on average women who have zero interest in them
money, cars, clothes and hoes is all a miscer knows
post 1682746413 05-15-2023, 11:09 AM
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There's 2 high value men.

The elite and the realistic.

The elite is what the child would describe. Unrealistically elite. James bond. Multi millionaire from old money. Etc.etc.etc.

The other one is the realistic guy. He's a hundred thousandaire, works every day in a good career he enjoys, he spends less than he makes, he's on track for a comfortable life, no debt, good shape, could have a poor history but his ambition overcame it, reliable, in control of his destiny
post 1682746483 05-15-2023, 11:10 AM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
So by your definition, it could be a poor 25 year old, as long as he’s good looking enough for women to flock to him, he keeps his ****ty house clean and is working on himself.


Nah man
thats why those types are still capable of pulling.

but yes, they arent "high-value"
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post 1682746493 05-15-2023, 11:10 AM
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High value men need to be

-> Tall
-> Good looking
-> High Status and competent at what he does.
-> Wealthy enough to care for his family.
-> Doesn't need to manipulate women using PUA tricks.
-> Generous
->Trustworthy.

Making significant contributions to society - like being the army, or being a businessman who takes care of the livelihood of hundreds of people, A lot of people's lives depend on him. makes peoples lives better in a profession like being a doctor/firefighter/soldier that sort of thing. These are the traits high value women with good self esteem want.

That is what makes a high value man. Not narcissism induced ego.
post 1682747163 05-15-2023, 11:21 AM
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LMS

looks -> tall (average height at worst), handsome face, norwood 1/2, lifts, good frame/bone structure

money -> makes good money at his job

status -> good job (doctor, engineer, lawyer, successful actor, pro athlete etc), famous, popular, well liked, family, leadership position at work/in life
post 1682747253 05-15-2023, 11:23 AM
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To put in one sentence: A man on his purpose to be the best he can at something.
post 1682747633 05-15-2023, 11:30 AM
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Doesn't pay for sex

Has a job that makes enough so that spouse does not need to work(even in hcol areas)
post 1682748993 05-15-2023, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By ScramFranklin
That all sounds good. But I think it’s just be chad who Sloots want to bangas well as lock down
The bold is accurate. There are many loser chads that are druggies, unhygienic, lazy/not ambitious, have unaddressed mental health problems, etc... Sure women would enjoy getting pumped by them but quite often its the women who are doing the dumping.

That's not a high value man. It's a boy toy.

A high value man doesn't care about things out of his control. There are plenty of men that pull dimes despite being shorter or less attractive than the "competition."

A high value man, who is on his purpose, inspires other men and women. I'm sure you've been in their presence. Their energy is magnetic.
post 1682749053 05-15-2023, 11:57 AM
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Bruce Wayne is the pinnacle HVM. BRB suave mofo with $100 billion peak net worth. That's the standard boyos.

post 1682749843 05-15-2023, 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
So by your definition, it could be a poor 25 year old, as long as he’s good looking enough for women to flock to him, he keeps his ****ty house clean and is working on himself.


Nah man
Poor and Looks are subjective (+/-). An average looking 25yo working an entry level position (like many 25yo's) with a realistic vision, and executing on a plan to improve himself and achieve his long term goals is a much more valuable man to: women/society/community/family than a 25yo Chad with the same job that plays video games all day eating edibles, spends more than he earns and let's life blow him in the wind.
post 1682749903 05-15-2023, 12:11 PM
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post 1682750193 05-15-2023, 12:16 PM
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High value man:

has respectable accomplishments

still has goals/motivated

positive outlook on life in general

empathetic, cares about others, respects people.

cares about his health, takes care of his appearance.

has a social circle, good relationships with people/friends.

above average IQ.

above average $$$

with that said, barely any "high value men" on the misc or IRL for that matter.
post 1682750383 05-15-2023, 12:20 PM
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Examples of HVM:











post 1682751103 05-15-2023, 12:33 PM
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A high value man doesn't post on an dying gay indian anonymous bodybuilding forum about being a high value man
post 1682751173 05-15-2023, 12:35 PM
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Don't let women disrespect you,

but more importantly,

don't ever let another man look down on you without making him pay brutally for it.

abide by those two rules, and everything else falls into place.

That's the two general rule for social and sexual dynamics.

As for life as a whole, then

A strong conviction in God
Honor, courage, discipline, integrity, strength
Confront evil, weak, cowardly, stupid, dishonest, and weaselly, conniving men.
post 1682751303 05-15-2023, 12:38 PM
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Its all haircel cope.
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post 1682751513 05-15-2023, 12:41 PM
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About 75-80 percent over himself.


Still has an ego, but it is under control and can be used strategically when needed.

Never acts on emotion.

Appropriate priorities. Constantly seeking development for himself and others.

Respectful in all situations, refusing to let other's behavior dictate his. Maintains the mental ability to prosecute extreme physical violence up to and including death when absolutely needed, but absolutely calm and collected up until that point.

Someone who influences people simply by existing. Someone who celebrates others and lifts them up, acknowledging that others success is not a personal failure at all.

I could go on. Really hoping to see similar responses, not confident I will.


inb4 (and probably after) sex and money

Edit: good traits right off the bat OP. I appreciate it. A few good responses in here. On r/c.
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post 1682751853 05-15-2023, 12:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet
About 75-80 percent over himself.


Still has an ego, but it is under control and can be used strategically when needed.

Never acts on emotion.

Appropriate priorities. Constantly seeking development for himself and others.

Respectful in all situations, refusing to let other's behavior dictate his. Maintains the mental ability to prosecute extreme physical violence up to and including death when absolutely needed, but absolutely calm and collected up until that point.

Someone who influences people simply by existing. Someone who celebrates others and lifts them up, acknowledging that others success is not a personal failure at all.

I could go on. Really hoping to see similar responses, not confident I will.


inb4 (and probably after) sex and money

Edit: good traits right off the bat OP. I appreciate it.
never act on emotion is 100% a coward's cope.

Why do you think war drums, trumpets, horns, and war music is fkn played during ancient warfare? It's to get the men emotionally ready for war and death.

You cannot logically convince men to die, but you can emotionally.

A man without emotion is a man without pride. A man without pride will make up anything excuses to justify his coward behavior. absolutely a westoid coward's cope.
post 1682752663 05-15-2023, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted By PenorBrahNoHomo
A high value man doesn't post on an dying gay indian anonymous bodybuilding forum about being a high value man
Why didn't someone tell me this before? It's not in the goddamn 'sticky'. FML that's 2 years down the bloody drain..
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