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post 1683365953 05-25-2023, 06:29 AM
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Kinda wild being 36yo, married, sober and no kids yet

In the past year I've had no less than 10 of my boys from high school/college have their first child

My wife (33yo) and I got married last year and instantly are one of the only couples in our friends' groups that don't have kids yet

On top of that we are both newly sober and our friends groups like to plan couples vacays but they usually involve sitting around at the pool drinking, going to the beach n drinking, bar hopping, etc. - which we obviously are trying to steer clear of

It's interesting because at my current age and marital status, you see why so many people start popping out kids like crazy

You feel an existential void and feel like you've already done it all (traveling, work achievements, hobbies, working out, parties, etc.) and starting a family helps to fill that and erases most of that free time that you end up spending trying to figure out something to do to distract yourself

Drinking/using drugs is similar in that regard - when I was in my 20s I would also get drunk on the weekends because there was nothing else to do and I'd lose all inhibition, now erasing that from my life means I have to work harder to develop new hobbies that can replace that, which is tough because everyone drinks socially and you feel like a pariah if you're at a party and the only person not drinking

Work from home and no pets so end up spending a lot of time in isolation just thinking about this type of chit lol
post 1683366103 05-25-2023, 06:32 AM
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Have kids, kids are great. I've never understood drinking, never done it, never cared for it. I just don't get it.
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post 1683366353 05-25-2023, 06:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Have kids, kids are great. I've never understood drinking, never done it, never cared for it. I just don't get it.
It's on the agenda, we've actually been having unprotected sex for a while and haven't gotten pregnant so starting to look at other insemination options

We both got checked and our sperm and egg levels are normal so not sure why it hasn't happened yet, I have friends whose wife gets off the pill for the first time and they fukk once n get pregnant - don't get it
post 1683366523 05-25-2023, 06:44 AM
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How old is wife?
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post 1683367213 05-25-2023, 07:02 AM
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Originally Posted By leoaa777⏩
How old is wife?
shes 33
post 1683367303 05-25-2023, 07:06 AM
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It's peak clown world and you wanna bring kids into it?
post 1683367353 05-25-2023, 07:06 AM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Have kids, kids are great. I've never understood drinking, never done it, never cared for it. I just don't get it.
thats because you have no friends saddo.

lmao
post 1683367853 05-25-2023, 07:21 AM
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Originally Posted By LtGoose⏩
It's peak clown world and you wanna bring kids into it?
This

Enjoy your freedom.

IMB4 retards telling OP who will take care of him when he's older/his kids are his legacy
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post 1683368093 05-25-2023, 07:25 AM
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Originally Posted By DPeezy13⏩
It's on the agenda, we've actually been having unprotected sex for a while and haven't gotten pregnantso starting to look at other insemination options

We both got checked and our sperm and egg levels are normal so not sure why it hasn't happened yet, I have friends whose wife gets off the pill for the first time and they fukk once n get pregnant - don't get it
BBC bull time?
post 1683368493 05-25-2023, 07:35 AM
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Originally Posted By darkninja67⏩
This

Enjoy your freedom.

IMB4 retards telling OP who will take care of him when he's older/his kids are his legacy
oy vey goyim. enjoy the (((childfree))) life.

oh be sure to send your tax dollars to feed the africans breeding like rats

lmao your brain on jews
post 1683369263 05-25-2023, 07:51 AM
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Originally Posted By darkninja67⏩
This

Enjoy your freedom.

IMB4 retards telling OP who will take care of him when he's older/his kids are his legacy
its been nice thus far, we have disposable income and friends and family in different states and countries whom we enjoy visiting

I never had disposable income or hobbies aside from working out when I was in my 20s, so I've been enjoying this life and am happy for my current situation

Still, it's kinda intense seeing literally all of your friends and family members having kids, start to feel left out
post 1683369313 05-25-2023, 07:52 AM
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Originally Posted By DPeezy13⏩
It's on the agenda, we've actually been having unprotected sex for a while and haven't gotten pregnant so starting to look at other insemination options

We both got checked and our sperm and egg levels are normal so not sure why it hasn't happened yet, I have friends whose wife gets off the pill for the first time and they fukk once n get pregnant - don't get it
If shes not started, she should be monitoring her ovulation cycle. You guys aren't even srs bout having them until shes all "im ovulating, stick your dick in me 3 times today" status. They get that way the closer they get to 35.
post 1683369463 05-25-2023, 07:55 AM
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Originally Posted By DPeezy13⏩
shes 33
Don’t want to be mean but that’s awfully close to geriatric age/higher risk pregnancies. Good luck with everything.
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post 1683369513 05-25-2023, 07:55 AM
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Originally Posted By RollTideBrah⏩
oy vey goyim. enjoy the (((childfree))) life.
Fukin love life.

Let some other douche deal with sleepless nights and paying for some lazy, entitled kid's college tuition. Rather travel and enjoy the finer things in life.
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post 1683370333 05-25-2023, 08:13 AM
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Originally Posted By darkninja67⏩
Fukin love life.

Let some other douche deal with sleepless nights and paying for some lazy, entitled kid's college tuition. Rather travel and enjoy the finer things in life.
genetic dead end. lol

although looking at your mystery meat avi i think that's a net positive
post 1683370423 05-25-2023, 08:14 AM
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not a single pic of wife was posted just fkn lmao NEGGED
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post 1683370463 05-25-2023, 08:15 AM
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I would find a younger wife if you want kids
post 1683370583 05-25-2023, 08:16 AM
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Maybe let your wife take a bull if you can't impregnate her
post 1683370623 05-25-2023, 08:17 AM
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Originally Posted By FinBra⏩
If shes not started, she should be monitoring her ovulation cycle. You guys aren't even srs bout having them until shes all "im ovulating, stick your dick in me 3 times today" status. They get that way the closer they get to 35.
True, we actually just started seriously tracking it, I downloaded an app called Orchyd thats been helpful
post 1683370683 05-25-2023, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted By RollTideBrah⏩
genetic dead end. lol

although looking at your mystery meat avi i think that's a net positive
You do realize that in the grand scheme of things nothing matters at all.
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post 1683370763 05-25-2023, 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted By darkninja67⏩
You do realize that in the grand scheme of things nothing matters at all.
arent you a bit old to be an edgelord?

hey everybody stop having kids so the human race dies out in 100 years. instead travel like some vapid sloot **** its so fun!!

lmao peak boomer jew brain
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Pic's of wife?
post 1683371103 05-25-2023, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted By DPeezy13⏩
True, we actually just started seriously tracking it, I downloaded an app called Orchyd thats been helpful
You're in the game now then bruh. Hold onto your head (of your cock)

Gluck
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It's not for everyone but the love you get and have for your own child is immeasurable. It's a pure love and it changes you for good. This is why some parents get a bad rap because it's incomprehensible to treat innocent kids like chit.
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Originally Posted By niospecv⏩
It's not for everyone but the love you get and have for your own child is immeasurable. It's a pure love and it changes you for good. This is why some parents get a bad rap because it's incomprehensible to treat innocent kids like chit.
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