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post 1683556543 05-28-2023, 11:38 AM
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I Messed Up - Started Fooling Around With A Woman At Gym

I have a strict policy of no fooling around with women at the gym.

Met this one about a year and half ago. She is younger than me and is another Latina. Would come and stretch with me, always chatted me up, hugging, touching, blah, blah. Tried to keep my distance and than I actually started to really like her which was a huge mistake. Gave her a little box of European chocolates at Christmas and she told me she loved me. I thought she was joking....

One night I went out with her and friends. Ended up at my house - smashed and smashed again and again. Bareback no less. Thank god she didnt get pregnant. Havent touched her since.

Than I went to a party and she showed up with this guy. I was really pissed. She came over gave me a big hug and kiss. At one point I was sitting outside and she came over, wanting to know why I was outside. Was chatting me up and the guy was only 25 feet away.

After that I backed way off. Friend told me she has a boyfriend.

Recently we had a convo, she told me she cherished me. And me like an idiot told her that I really liked her. Last week when I saw her, I pretty much ignored her till she came over and said hello.

Not sure what to do as I am now emotionally involved and my guard is down... hit me with opinions.
post 1683556653 05-28-2023, 11:42 AM
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Sounds like a nutcase
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post 1683556663 05-28-2023, 11:42 AM
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Pics.Pics.
post 1683556723 05-28-2023, 11:42 AM
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No cliffs and no pics = negged
post 1683556783 05-28-2023, 11:44 AM
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post 1683556873 05-28-2023, 11:46 AM
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She obviously likes you in some sort of way. I’ve noticed Latina girls aren’t really as loyal as you think. They will tell you they are just with a guy but they usually aren’t single. If you like her tell her that it just say I didn’t know you had a boyfriend. If she likes you she will make a weird face or tell you he hits her or has a tiny penor
post 1683556933 05-28-2023, 11:47 AM
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Expecting us to read a dear diary with zero pics

I think you know what time it is
post 1683557043 05-28-2023, 11:49 AM
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U sound like a woman tbh.
post 1683557063 05-28-2023, 11:49 AM
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post 1683557133 05-28-2023, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77
Expecting us to read a dear diary with zero pics

I think you know what time it is
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post 1683557163 05-28-2023, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted By mvitz
hit me with opinions.
dont get emotionally attached to any female, especially one who cheats on her boyfriend with you.

focus on improving yourself and treat her like an afterthought.
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post 1683557213 05-28-2023, 11:53 AM
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Find another gym...you never shat where you sleep...breath a sigh of relief she's on protection
post 1683557323 05-28-2023, 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Immichaelski
She obviously likes you in some sort of way. I’ve noticed Latina girls aren’t really as loyal as you think. They will tell you they are just with a guy but they usually aren’t single. If you like her tell her that it just say I didn’t know you had a boyfriend. If she likes you she will make a weird face or tell you he hits her or has a tiny penor
Latinas are loyal, but not sexually until marriage. They will often keep having sex with multiple guys until they get married. And this is a really tough thing for most white guys to understand.
post 1683557433 05-28-2023, 11:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Getter_done
Pics.Pics.
You are crazy if you think I will post pics of her so you all can do an image search and find out where she is at causing me more problems. LOL
post 1683557483 05-28-2023, 11:58 AM
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Hnnngggg at Ltc Latina Sloots srs

Wanna coom inside one right now tbh
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post 1683557513 05-28-2023, 11:59 AM
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Pic fit.

Also, push those emotions/feelings down. Consider her a casual friend.
post 1683557593 05-28-2023, 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Pterodactyl314
Sounds like a nutcase
Girl or OP?
post 1683557633 05-28-2023, 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
Latinas are loyal, but not sexually until marriage. They will often keep having sex with multiple guys until they get married. And this is a really tough thing for most white guys to understand.
I used to work with a Latina yeah and she definitely gave off loyal vibes, she was like 21 and married a British dude and moved to UK for him. I was Mirin her so hard for that

I need a down ass bitch like that. UK brah went to US just to see her only for a weekend

Those mother fukers ride or die for each other
post 1683557663 05-28-2023, 12:03 PM
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So she's cheating on her BF and you think she's gf material? lol
post 1683557763 05-28-2023, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Pterodactyl314
Sounds like a nutcase
This 100%.

Any woman that tells you she loves you cause you meet at a gym every now and again, and gets a box of chocolates is a nut job srs.

These are the looney sloots that are hard to get rid of when you want them gone. They'll constantly phone at all hours, smash the windows out of your car and stalk your house.
Pull away and don't get her pissed srs.
Originally Posted By mvitz
I have a strict policy of no fooling around with women at the gym.
Lmao not strict enough boyo. You do that chit at a disposable gym where you could bounce, never set foot in there again and not give AF. Same as bars and restaraunts if you want to pull waitresses.

Don't chit where you eat.
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post 1683557913 05-28-2023, 12:07 PM
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Unless her boyfriend is tony montana go for it
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post 1683558093 05-28-2023, 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBoyMcGee
I used to work with a Latina yeah and she definitely gave off loyal vibes, she was like 21 and married a British dude and moved to UK for him. I was Mirin her so hard for that

I need a down ass bitch like that. UK brah went to US just to see her only for a weekend

Those mother fukers ride or die for each other
Yeah, I actually had a Latina like this as well. Met her a couple times while I was traveling in Colombia, and she was a really cool 8/10 ish girl with an absolutely great body and super sweet. Was definitely not a sloot at all, very family oriented.

Was kind of keeping her on the back burner for a year or two down the line when I might be ready to settle down, then Covid happened. I messaged her in 2021, and she said something about how she was getting ready to move to the US to marry some guy so we had to stop talking. Now she's living with some dude in Tennessee. Still looking hot.

Lol I'm still not really that interested in settling down, but it would be nice to still have her on the back burner.
post 1683558133 05-28-2023, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Immichaelski
She obviously likes you in some sort of way. I’ve noticed Latina girls aren’t really as loyal as you think. They will tell you they are just with a guy but they usually aren’t single. If you like her tell her that it just say I didn’t know you had a boyfriend. If she likes you she will make a weird face or tell you he hits her or has a tiny penor
Lmao my boy😂 speaking from experience
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post 1683559453 05-28-2023, 12:35 PM
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Been there done that. It never turns out good.
post 1683559733 05-28-2023, 12:40 PM
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why would you be mad?

you smashed and dashed on her

if anything she should be the one pissed off
post 1683559873 05-28-2023, 12:42 PM
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Latina woman loyalty is definitely a meme. They’re just like any other woman, and honestly easier to seduce if you’re white with blue eyes. It’s like being 6’3 and going for white chicks, a cheat code for success
post 1683560003 05-28-2023, 12:44 PM
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Didn’t read all this thread but your dealing with a prototypical whore…srs.

I’m sorry to be blunt bruh, but you need honesty rn. If she’s literally cucking a boyfriend to his face, then you’re just a flavor of the week. She’s even doing it to you and doesn’t give af. She probably has multiple guys tied around her finger and uses the big booty Latina poosay to control men.

Go NC. Find another girl, srs.
post 1683560093 05-28-2023, 12:46 PM
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Your problem is that you have no options and are focused on this one cheating gym sloot instead of slaying pussy and not giving a fukk.
post 1683560113 05-28-2023, 12:46 PM
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you already smashed... there is nothing left to do here. Dont be an idiot
post 1683560153 05-28-2023, 12:47 PM
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My advice:

Post pics to misc asap before you get neg train run in your azz
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