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Forum ยป Struggling to accept this fact of life
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post 1683770853 05-31-2023, 11:56 PM
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Struggling to accept this fact of life

I've been on a positive self improvement daily journey

It's already worked wonders
I've been thinking positive everyday already people seem drawn to me.
I feel happier
I find myself smiling more and not Getting so sad about things

Now I didn't make these changes because I wanted to get women but remarkably what I have found is changing my personality has made ZERO difference to attracting women

More women seem attracted to me when I was 8% body fat low test depressed moody *******


I find it hard to accept this fact that looks really trump all

How can I be positive about this situation? This brutal fact?
post 1683770913 05-31-2023, 11:58 PM
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maybe part of your self help is losing the need for validation from others...it ain't easy but probably doable
post 1683771053 06-01-2023, 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
maybe part of your self help is losing the need for validation from others...it ain't easy but probably doable
It's not about that

Being desired is a normal human emotional feeling
post 1683771173 06-01-2023, 12:10 AM
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Originally Posted By TOUCHEDbyMany⏩
It's not about that

Being desired is a normal human emotional feeling
a pet dog will desire you? do you desire you? maybe learn to control your normal human emotional feelings by knowing all you can be is you. get good sleep, don't just eat trash, get some exercise/sunlight, clean your place, etc. what more can you do?
post 1683771293 06-01-2023, 12:15 AM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
a pet dog will desire you? do you desire you? maybe learn to control your normal human emotional feelings by knowing all you can be is you. get good sleep, don't just eat trash, get some exercise/sunlight, clean your place, etc. what more can you do?
? A pet dog desiring you is different tto a women who wants your seed. ...
post 1683771363 06-01-2023, 12:18 AM
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Originally Posted By TOUCHEDbyMany⏩
? A pet dog desiring you is different tto a women who wants your seed. ...
most women dont actually want the seed of 90% of men...welcome to the club
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