i've heard this before but when it comes to "accomplishments" the equivalent to a man being able to sleep with many attractive women is a woman that can hold down a long term marriage/nuclear family.

let's face it...basically any female with a pulse can smash an endless string of men. but a woman that can be pleasant enough to hold down a committed long term marriage is the thing that is most rare for women.

a woman bouncing around from relationship to relationship/fwb/situationship/hookups takes literally zero effort and introspection/discipline. it's the equivalent to someone being morbidly obese and continuing to gorge on fast food.

I guess so op but what a strange thread and comparison to make

Why is the paramount/highest accomplishment for a man the ability to smash all sorts of attractive women? What about running a large company, inventing something, setting a record, etc?

The answer to me is a woman who actually says herself for marriage or one with an extremely low body count of LTR guys only. That’s much more rare than any broken slag sticking around in a marriage

im not saying that inherently is the highest accomplishment for a man...just viewed a certain way by men and some women who want the guy with options because it makes them feel more special.

a woman that can have a low bc and make marriage work through good and bad despite having a million options a click away is almost otherworldly.